Looking for people TTC after miscarriage

Discussion in 'TTC After A Loss' started by MrsFruitie, Sep 14, 2018.

  1. Yellowmoon

    Yellowmoon Well-Known Member

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    Oh SallyAnne, I know exactly how you feel. It's horrible. I still get those pangs of judgement and maybe even hatred when I see awful people with all their kids. They don't know how lucky they are. Sometimes I feel like no one deserves their kids unless they have had to go through heartache to get to them. It's terrible I know, but the mind just goes there. I try and look at it in a more positive light though. When we are eventually blessed with our own children we will be the most loving mothers there ever was and our children will be sooo happy and lucky to have us!

    You take as much time as you need lovely lady. I am really hoping for your rainbow, you really deserve it. I know it will happen for you.

    Xxxxx

    Mumof1+1- good luck catching your O! I don't know much about those tests so not much help on that front. I need those digi ones that's tell me in black and white haha xx

    Baby dust to everyone :dust:
     
  2. Nima

    Nima Well-Known Member

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    Hello ladies, I'm so sorry for your losses and also glad to see there are also bfps after this horror.

    I am currently miscarrying after I was diagnosed with a missed abortion at 9 weeks. The embryo still had a slow heartbeat and I had to wait for 5 days until it stopped and I could take misoprostol to start the abortion. It was the worst thing I ever had to wait for. Then there was an incomplete abortion and yesterday I had to take the pill again. This was devastating for me. I am in pain, heartbroken and depleted. I am out of shape and still have huge breasts from being pregnant but I am not. It feels so horrible. I just want this nightmare to be over.
     
  3. RoseM87

    RoseM87 Well-Known Member

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    Sallyanne, I rememeber sitting in the waiting room at the Royal Women's Hospital before I got admitted for my second d&c for a mmc and I saw so many people coming in in the early stages of labour smoking, drinking giant bottles of coke, being so blase about it and it made me quite bitter as well. I'm sure it's a common feeling. I'm sorry for everything you've been through and I hope getting the referral makes a difference.

    Nima, I'm so sorry also for what's happening to you. It's such a horrendous thing. Nothing will make it feel better in the short term - and even long term it's truly awful. It does get easier, though. When your body starts getting back to 'normal' it starts to make you realise we are amazing and can get through anything.

    Ladies, I have a sort of weird question. How far would you go to try to conceive at the right time? My OH is away for work almost this whole month. I'm pretty sure I should ovulate this Wednesday or Thursday, but he won't be back until Friday (just for two nights as well). I'm worried that will be too late. I could drive 3 1/2 hours after work on Wednesday to see him, which would mean missing the morning of work on Thursday. Does this seem excessive? Should I just forget about this month all together? It's just been almost 3 months since my miscarriage and I really want to be pregnsnt again. But would that be going way too far? I need to check that I'm not actually losing my mind over this stuff..
     
  4. MrsFruitie

    MrsFruitie Well-Known Member

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    It’s been awhile since anyone has posted on here. I hope everyone’s doing ok?

    Still no luck on the pregnancy front here, 8 months since mmc. Feeling very down about it at the moment as I feel like it will never happen, and I worry about it happening again if i do get pregnant. My head is a mess...
     
  5. wantingagirl

    wantingagirl Well-Known Member

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    Is this thread still active? I’m on my first proper 2ww since my #5 loss over the years
     
  6. MrsFruitie

    MrsFruitie Well-Known Member

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    I’m still here. I started this group in September and think I might be the last lady left. Most of the other ladies have become pregnant again which fills me with hope for myself and happiness for them.

    Have you just started the 2WW wantingagirl? I’m very sorry for your loss, and to hear you’ve had so many.

    The witch is currently in town for me, so waiting for her to pass so we can try again this month x
     
  7. rickyandlucy

    rickyandlucy Well-Known Member

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    Mind if I join? On my second cycle since MC. Currently waiting for AF. :(
     

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