Lucky thread

[ttcbabyisom]

Cheryl it's fathers day say it's his present

Bump congrats

Cath fx it's just implant blood.

Ics neg here

Sorry Dani Rose. Hang in there sweetie.

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Hcg has dropped by half so its another miscarriage xxx

Ugh, i'm so sorry!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Great news! Got my this morning with FMU!

In tears and just so grateful!
Bailey and others waiting to test this month Fx and
For those still waiting: don't lose faith and sending your way!

YAY, CONGRATULATIONS sweetie! So so happy for you! big hugs!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Shellie, your letter is beautiful. Thank you for sharing. I also think you should show it to your OH as I'm sure he has feelings about the loss that he maybe can't express. It could only bring you closer in my opinion. xx

I found this on another thread and wanted to share it too. It's true for me already with my beautiful DD (who we struggled to conceive), and I know it will be true for all of you beautiful ladies as well:

Thoughts on Becoming a Mother

There are women that become mothers without effort, without thought, without patience or loss and though they are good mothers and love their children, I know that I will be better.
I will be better not because of genetics, or money or that I have read more books,
but because I have struggled and toiled for this child.
I have longed and waited. I have cried and prayed.
I have endured and planned over and over again.
Like most things in life, the people who truly have appreciation are those who have struggled to attain their dreams.
I will notice everything about my child.
I will take time to watch my child sleep, explore and discover. I will marvel at this miracle every day for the rest of my life.
I will be happy when I wake in the middle of the night to the sound of my child, knowing that I can comfort, hold and feed him and that I am not waking to take another temperature, pop another pill, take another shot or cry tears of a broken dream. My dream will be crying for me.
I count myself lucky in this sense; that God has given me this insight, this special vision with which I will look upon my child that my friends will not see.
Whether I parent a child I actually give birth to or a child that God leads me to, I will not be careless with my love.
I will be a better mother for all that I have endured. I am a better wife, a better aunt, a better daughter, neighbour, friend and sister because I have known pain.
I know disillusionment as I have been betrayed by my own body, I have been tried by fire and hell many never face, yet given time, I stood tall.
I have prevailed.
I have succeeded.
I have won.
So now, when others hurt around me, I do not run from their pain in order to save myself discomfort. I see it, mourn it, and join them in theirs.
I listen.
And even though I cannot make it better, I can make it less lonely. I have learned the immense power of another hand holding tight to mine, of other eyes that moisten as they learn to accept the harsh truth of when life is beyond hard. I have learned a compassion that only comes with walking in those shoes.
I have learned to appreciate life.

Yes, I will be a wonderful mother.

Beautiful...thank you for this.

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Hi ttcbabyisom you have been a bit quiet for a while how are you?

Mummy thank you for sharing, it's lovely

Cath I hope your physical pain reduces soon, I know emotionally it will take longer. Happy birthday I hope you can enjoy your birthday. Take care hun xxx
My Assessment all done so now I'm just waiting to go in for the op it is likely to be a week tomorrow.

Carly so sorry for your loss, I bled for about 6 days with my natural miscarriage

Morning poppy how are you?

Well afm I'm just off to spend a wet Sunday at the museum as we haven't been for many years. Have a good Sunday everyone

Big hugs to all xxx

Hi MrsDuck! Thanks for checking on me! I've been stalking and reading and posting just a little...this thread is just HOPPING and it's very hard to keep up with it. I'm just waiting to O now...think i did yesterday or today so will be in the 2ww soon! DH and I will be going on vacation July 4-11 so I'll be on a nice lovely beach in Jamaica without a care in the world during my wait so that will for sure help my stress level! I might even find out while I'm there if i'm preggers or not. I'll for sure keep you posted as soon as I return. to you!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Big temp drop WOOO HOOO!!!

Come on AF!

Skipping clomid this cycle, will TTC but not forcing timed BD, need to get the hypo stuff sorted x

Good luck Dani Rose this next cycle. Everything crossed for you!!!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Omg!!!! That's is awful!! How can anyone find that remotely amusing or acceptable!!! Fletch what company was it??

Oh and dani forgot to say yay for temp drop, hope you are holding up ok.

Mrs duck how are you today?

Cath - hope you are well and keeping positive

Bump - hows the symptoms today?

Shellie - did you show oh the letter? And did you manage any bd'ing around O time?

Ttcbabyisom - how's things going?

Nessah - any symptoms yet? How are you feeling?

Poppy and leinzlove - hope those little sticky beans are doing ok and aren't giving you too much trouble!!

Tawn - where are you in your cycle now hun?

And anyone I have forgot I am soooooo sorry, there's so many to keep track of!! But big hugs and baby dust to you all!!! Xxxxxxxxxxxx

baileybubs, Hi! I just updated MrsDuck too so here's basically the same info...Thanks for checking on me! I've been stalking and reading and posting just a little...this thread is just HOPPING and it's very hard to keep up with it. I'm just waiting to O now...think i did yesterday or today so will be in the 2ww soon! DH and I will be going on vacation July 4-11 so I'll be on a nice lovely beach in Jamaica without a care in the world during my wait so that will for sure help my stress level! I might even find out while I'm there if i'm preggers or not. I'll for sure keep you posted as soon as I return. to you!

 

[baileybubs]

Bfn again ladies. And no sign of AF. No idea whats going on. I'm 12dpo so maybe I O'D late and AF wasn't due yesterday. I haven't had a proper cycle since miscarriage so maybe my cycles just longer and AF is just due in a few days. I don't get why I felt like she was coming Saturday though......oh well all I can do is wait and test again another day if she doesn't show up. 12dpo is a bit late to get a bfn and then get what on a later day though. Feeling queasy this morning too and got a 12 hour shift. Trying to keep the faith but I think June isn't my month

 

[baileybubs]

Got my oh to go and get me a frer today to use later this week if AF doesn't show....when do you think I should use it. I was thinking wait until Friday if AF still hasn't shown.

 

[Leinzlove]

Tawn: I loved that poem. It also made me cry! I hope O gets here soon for you! I don't know but I was Oing later after my MC. In fact the cycle that was the one. I O'd on CD21. Normally I'd O around CD16.

Dani: The relaxed approach sounds good. I definitely would be looking into further testing also. Lots & Lots of ! Is hubby getting back on the TTC bandwagon. I hope so!

Cath: I'm so sorry for your loss and all of the pain. I hope you don't have to wait to long to TTC. And that your HCG drops fast. Despite everything I hope you managed a few smiles on your birthday! Happy Birthday!

Shellie: I loved the letter to your angel. I cried... It's sad all that we've lost. I still think of my angel nearly everyday. And I also commonly think about how pregnant I would be. It's something that'll be with us forever. No matter how many more children we do have. I have put a box together for little dragon... With photos, a stuffed animal that I bought while TTC. It's a panda I held so many times wishing and hoping for my BFP.

Fletch: I hate that card you found. That is awful! Whomever made that card has obviously never experienced such loss.

TTCbaby: Owooooo! Come on Jamacian BFP! How exciting! Thats going to be a speedy 2ww! I took a look at your chart. It does look like O day was yesterday! I hope you are pregnant!

Bailey: Limbo! Yuck! I hope the has the most wonderful of reasons for staying away. And also that when you use your FRER its a dark BFP!

Bump: Love the dark BFP! Yay! Won't be long until your scan!

Mummy: I'm sorry for both of your losses. I hope you concieve your sticky straight away! & lots of

Duck: I hope they get on with it. Have they scheduled your operation for next week? Or are you still waiting on results? I hope they don't have to remove it all... a 6 month wait for TTC would be terrible. Lots & Lots of !

 

[baileybubs]

Well I've just been on eBay buying clear blue opk's and a frer for next month. Got a new strategy, going to use the opk's and bd around O time every other day and whenever else we feel like and then use a frer only when I'm 14dpo!! No more disappointing IC BFN's!! An July I will catch the egg!! Going to book my tattoo for next week so I can get it done I get pregnant lol!! And party on Saturday yay!!
Hope everyone's having a good day cxxxx

 

[Leinzlove]

Sounds like a great plan. My plan was BD once before CD10, to rid of dead spermies. Then BD every other day from CD10 until O. Then I tested night of 9dpo until I got AF or BFP!

I'm still hoping this is your month, hun! And those OPK's and IC's won't be needed!!

What are you getting a tattoo of? I can't wait to get one myself!

 

[Dani Rose]

Hey guys

been to dr and got the blood results, TSH was 4.6 and last time 1.6, defo pos then neg. She thinks I might be borderline and when pg it got worse and resulted in loss, so good news is they will keep an eye now and when pg... If next blood is pos I get thyroxin anyway.

I was researching and clomid could result in a false neg as it increases prog and lowers estrogen, so it maybe why I didn't test positive for hypo last draw. Defo not doing it this month and hope it doesn't affect next weeks draw too.

DH and I haven't talked TTC again since last week, I was upset enough without that to consider, but as soon as O is approaching I will be talking him round

 

[Dani Rose]

I am only buying digi opks and no ICs, test when AF is late is the way I am going, too stressful!

 

[Leinzlove]

Sounds great Dani! I know your hubby will come around. I'm glad they will be monitoring you. Your forever baby is close... I just know it!

 

[Dani Rose]

I hope so My baby is 3 tomo and it is hurting a little today esp with AF pains to go with it

 

[Leinzlove]

Ahhh... Happy early Birthday to DS! I'm definitley going to feel it when DD gets there. I don't think its our birthdays that make us feel old but our childrens. I hope this AF is nice to you.

 

[Tawn]

I hope so My baby is 3 tomo and it is hurting a little today esp with AF pains to go with it

Sorry this month has been such a rollercoaster for you hun! I have NEVER seen evaps like yours! hun, hope you get it all sorted very soon and get DH back on the ttc bandwagon!

Ohhh what a great birthday to have, though Dani! Your DS and I are birthday twins!

 

[Leinzlove]

Yay, Tawn! You may O on your birthday! Either way... birthday sex sounds great! So many June birthdays in this thread... Mine is Wednesday!

 

[baileybubs]

Sounds like a great plan. My plan was BD once before CD10, to rid of dead spermies. Then BD every other day from CD10 until O. Then I tested night of 9dpo until I got AF or BFP!

I'm still hoping this is your month, hun! And those OPK's and IC's won't be needed!!

What are you getting a tattoo of? I can't wait to get one myself!

Well my fave flower is lily and I had been planning a tattoo of a lily on my forearm. We had also decided to call our baby Lillie even though we didn't know gender, my oh was convinced it was a girl so going to have "to beautiful for earth" written next to it going down my arm.

And I am gearing myself up that AF will show so in not disappointed and if she doesn't and I get a BFP with frer then it's a nice surprise xxx