does everyone have 20 days of no spotting/bleeding before af? if so i am in so much trouble. it has been 45 days since i found out i was mc-ing, since i started bleeding. i have had a total of 4 days of no bleeding/spotting. then i had spotting for 9 days. now, this morning it really seems like af is here, heavier (much heavier than spotting, but still not full force for af) brownish-red. if i have to wait for this to stop and then have 20 days without anything i think i am in trouble. i will never go back to normal.
i had a scan on the 14th of march to make sure everything had passed from my medical management on march 1st. it showed everything had passed and that my lining looked good. but, it showed that there was still some fluid in my cervix. i kind of assumed that the spotting i just had was that fluid?? i don't know.
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i am going to make an appt with a new dr. the dr i was going to does not have a good reputation for being helpful during pregnancy.
wish i had've known before. but, i worked with his wife and my husband still does so it is hard to change dr's. especially in such a small town - we only have 2 dr's here. hopefully i will get more help from the new dr.
I think the 20 day rule is more of a guideline then a fact. We're all different, our m/c's are all different. For me AF usually starts brownish-red so you could in fact be starting your period. I worked for three months is a hospital in a small town of only 1200 people so I understand it sucks not having many options
I hope this new doctor will be good to you and listen to you. Keeping fingers crossed for you!
I has a positive opk this morning!
I'm in the 2 week wait yaaaaaay
YAY Poppy!!! I might be in the tww with you, if not probably by tomorrow. I didn't do an OPK yesterday (when I remembered it was too late since afternoon is the best time to do it
) But I did start getting ovulation pains around 10:30pm when I was trying to fall asleep.
No BD'ing yesterday as when I made my move on him DB started saying that even though he wanted to have sex, he didn't because he had to get up at 4:30am for work
Should have made my move earlier! I didn't want to say anything about me being "fertile" because when we decided to have kids he told me he doesn't want to know these things because he feels it puts stress on him to "perform" and he doesn't know if he could with the pressure on him. He originally didn't even want me to tell him I stopped taking the pill, and that when I was ready stop taking them, but even though I knew he wanted a baby I needed to hear it again before I stopped. His response was that had it been up to him we would have been trying to have a baby from the day we met lol.
would bring about a little 
for us. 
