Lucky thread

[CherylC3]

Aw cupcake thts a nightmare Hun..

 

[cupcake1981]

I'm so pissed off. Why are people so fudging nosy

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Hey Tawn loving being off but I'm mainly nesting want to clean and tidy everything lol..x

Cath I swear I thot I was going off my head with symtoms from 1dpo but look at me now 5 wks to go... Yeah the farting it was bad lol...

HA HA

 

[Tawn]

Aww cupcake I'm sorry the news is spreading faster than you'd like. But everyone is just so happy for you and your dh and they just want to share in your joy. I know it is very annoying and it is YOUR news to share but at least you know their hearts are in the right place and it isn't gossip for malicious sake.

Ttc, happy scan day hun!!!!!! Please update us ASAP!

 

[MrsDuck]

Aw cupcake x

Ttc I can't wait to hear the news x

Afm I have lost my voice completely now, bugger!

 

[AmyB1978]

MrsD, sorry your voice has gone. Hope you are able to get at least some relief.

Ttc, got everything crossed for you Hun!!!!

 

[cupcake1981]

Good luck ttc, excited for you!

 

[cathgibbs]

Awww Cupcake I understand your pissed hun i would be too but like Tawn said everyone is just so happy for you, i know you want to tell everyone yourself but when you get the results to show everything is fine you can announce it to all your friends and family then hun :-D

Awww MrsD that sucks!! you will have to write little letters to DH!

TTC Good luck hun!! Got everything x for you¬ xxxxx

 

[CherylC3]

Hey ladies hope ur having a good day...xx

Good luck ttc... Thinking of u Hun...xx

 

[ShellieLabTek]

Hi ladies …

Hopefully it’s ok that I’m posting this. I know I haven’t been on in a while, I had a little bit of a TTC meltdown you can say. Back in October when it got to my angel’s EDD, I found it soooooooooooooooo hard to come on here and see everyone with their BFP’s while I still had nothing but BFN’s. Didn’t help OH and I had a HUGE argument on that day about it all, and so I distanced myself from the TTC world, online anyway. I always wanted to come back, see how everyone was doing, who’s had their babies, who’s gotten a BFP since, but felt like maybe no one would want me to since I just went “poof”. I decided to come on the forum without signing in yesterday and couldn’t believe I was mentioned and that you guys still remembered me. And now I feel really horrible as I can now see some of you left me msgs (didn’t have it set to email me when someone msgs me privately). I’ve never forgotten about you ladies, and I’m sorry I freaked!

It’s been just over a year since the m/c and I think I’ve finally gone through my grieving process. We’re still TTC, OH is more on board now than he ever was before. Our friends who have been TTC for 9 years finally are pregnant and into their 2nd trimester now and it really has affected OH deeply and made him want to TTC even more. He got a new full-time job about 2 months ago and his hours make BD’ing more often much easier. I think we’ve BD’d more this cycle then we have in several cycles at some points in this TTC journey.

Again I’m sorry ladies that I disappeared. I don’t want anyone to think I didn’t care anymore.

 

[CherylC3]

Hey shellie it's good to hear from u Hun... I'm so sorry u were finding it so hard I think we have all been there I'm glad ur Df is more on board now and congrats on his new job missy, is tht 4 months till ur wedding now?xx

 

[ShellieLabTek]

Hi Cheryl!

Yes just over 4 months away. The planning I think has been going well, not to stressful. Hardest thing so far was bridesmaid dresses since one of them will be 8 months pregnant! But we found one that works for all the ladies

I love your sonogram btw - before you know it you'll be holding that baby!

 

[cathgibbs]

Hey Shelly, i was reading back on the thread yesterday and was seeing all the people that used to be on here and i seen your ticker saying not long until your wedding day and i remember when you got engaged etc :-D

I totally feel the same way, when i get like that hun i just distance myself from the group, it is VERY hard especially dates etc but dont think that we wouldnt welcome you back, you know this group is a very welcoming group so come on board again :-D xxxx

 

[cupcake1981]

Hey shellie how lovely to see you back here! We always wonder how people are when they disappear but we all understand the reasons. Glad your oh is more on board with the ttc now! 4 months to the wedding will fly by! X

 

[ShellieLabTek]

hey Cath & cupcake!

I feel bad that I left but maybe I had to do it to get myself through the rest of the grieving process. I went to a baby shower on the 1 year anniversary of the m/c and I didn't cry at all, I was so proud of myself and felt like now I was done with grieving. Never going to forget it, I still think about it every day but it doesn't eat me up like it used to. I think what's helped is that the last couple of months we've been TTC more, where I'd say since the m/c til before Christmas, you could say we were more NTNP because of how often we were BDing. He still doesn't want to know when it's that time because of the pressure, but since the start of this cycle we've been BDing about every other day, sometimes more. In my fertile phase this cycle we only missed 1 day of BDing We've never done that before! I'm hoping if this cycle turns out to be a bust that we can continue with how we've been going.

 

[cupcake1981]

Wishing you lots of luck this cycle Shellie xxx

 

[Tawn]

Shellie!!!! SO glad to have you back! Please don't worry at all about taking your break, I am glad it helped you through your grieving process and that now you and your DF are full-blown TTC. After we were all talking about the ladies we missed, I looked at your profile and saw you hadn't been on since October (I have checked a few times between now and then as well) and was more worried than upset hun! Us lucky thread ladies sure do worry about each other! So welcome back!

Oh my goodness, your wedding is so close! How exciting! I'm glad it hasn't been stressful planning, I always felt wedding planning should be fun not awful!

 

[cathgibbs]

Shellie I really hope this is your cycle hun!!BDing so many times and only missing 1 day your chances of concieving must be through the roof hun!

You nervous about your wedding day at all hun?

Ladies I need some help deciding a facebook group to advertise my accsessorised cons but i cant think of anything!! HELP!! xxx

 

[ShellieLabTek]

Tawn ur almost ready to pop too!

I've sure missed a lot. I think you were still in first trimester when I was on last! Missed a lot of new bfp's too.

Cath I am hoping! FF says our timing was "good" and countdown to pregnancy says "Very High ~20%" so we'll see.

This morning on FF in the Pregnancy monitor something new came up! It says "Implantation Signs: Possibly Triphasic on Day 25" So I'm keeping my fx that my temp doesn't go down! Still won't be testing til Friday at the earliest (12 DPO and OH's birthday). I may just wait it out and see if AF shows.

 

[cupcake1981]

Shellie your temps look good for a bfp!

Cath what do you need help with? I have a page for my cakes x