For those of you a little fuyou have to rther along - and those early on making plans, too, I suppose - do you have any little mantras or thoughts you try to focus on to keep you positive? I find myself getting excited and making little preparations only to have the little voice in my head say something like, "and what will you do with that new car seat when you lose both babies, hmm?" I never thought it'd be this hard to be positive about pregnancy, and yet here I am! I'm willing myself to think only good thoughts and make attempts at bonding with the babes, but it's hard...
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Any advice? I feel like a horrible parent.