Finally finding some time to post on here other than just facebook
Aiden Arrived on his due date, Sunday March 16th at 8.34am, weighing 7lbs 14oz, 19 1/4 inches and a full head of fluffy brown hair!
My water broke exactly at midnight after I had spent the evening painting my toenails and tidying up my desk, we called my ob who asked if I had any contractions and said to head in even though I wasn't (good thing she said to as just a few mins after we hung up the phone they started coming every 5 mins). We got to the hospital by 1am and got halfway to the ER entrance after about 15 mins of doing what is usually a 3 min walk because the contractions had me locked rigid to the spot with each one. One of the hospital security guards driving around the parking lot saw us and brought a wheelchair and I was whisked up to Labor and Delivery, had observations taken and was hooked up to monitors for Aiden and my contractions which were picking up to about 3 mins apart and was 2cm dilated, they transferred me from the triage room to my own delivery room and paged the anesthesiologist for an epidural so I could get some rest without pain... well that was the plan, I was at 3cm when he hooked me up, I had what felt like a brief window of pain free contractions before I progressed from 4cm to 7 (in 90 mins) then the next thing I knew I was telling the nurses I needed to push and they were shocked at how quickly I was fully dilated for Aiden being our first baby. We just had to wait for the on call obstetrician from my ob's office to turn up... which meant the nurses were having to hold Aiden's head in as I couldn't stop from pushing and he was going into distress laying on my back, I ended up labouring mostly laying on my side which was a very weird feeling indeed until the final push which I had to hold until the OB scrubbed in. Telling you to not push is impossible to follow through with and Aiden would have been born a lot sooner if I hadn't needed the ob to do an episiotomy :doh:
Paul and I were talking after about how the nurses hit the call buttons and asked for the peds team, nurses, a vacuum kit (Aiden's head was stuck behind my pelvic bones at one point, but then it wasn't needed by the time my ob got there) etc stat because they were shocked at how fast I had progressed when they checked me for the last time before pushing, and how we ended up with the other lady that was delivering at the same time's ob as well as mine in the room. The nurses had to usher him next door asap and set everything up for Aiden who came out with one last big push, so fast we worried the ob wouldn't catch him, they yelled at me to open my eyes as I was pushing and then our little guy was plonked on my tummy and I was speechless for the first time since we first saw Aiden on a scan. My heart melted and I was in awe of him, perfect and screaming his head off as soon as he could which was the best sound in the world at the time. After 5 mins he was taken to be checked over and did well on both his 1min and 5min APGAR screens (only losing 2 points on the 1min for blue hands and feet and 1 point on his 5 min for blue toes, which is completely expected), I couldn't take my eyes off him, nor could Paul as they were stitching me up and sorting him and I both out. He fed and had cuddles with both Paul and I before we had some breakfast and a few visitors.
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^ I liked my Epidural at this point (3.14am) before we found I had a hotspot where it didn't take LOL
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^About an hour and 10 mins old (after he fed with me and had some cuddles with daddy too)
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^ 1 Day old!
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Once we got home on the 18th, we were settling in with our newborn little muchkin when I started to feel unwell, I started to feel drained on the 20th when we took Aiden to his first Pediatrician's appt because he was a little jaundiced when we left the hospital and they wanted to follow up at 4 days old, the next morning I woke up feeling very icky sick, temp of 103f and stumbling around quite delirious. my temp came down after taking some tylenol but returned later in the morning and we already had a follow-up nurses/dr appt for a blood draw for Aiden's jaundice, she saw me at the same time and conversed with my obstetrician and I was ordered to go to the ER to be checked over and readmitted for an infection (endometritis) and ended up spending Friday afternoon through Sunday afternoon in the surgical unit being given antibiotic after antibiotic before finally being allowed to come home. Paul got a crash course in feeding and diapering from his niece and did amazingly whilst I was stuck in hospital, he said every dad should be thrown into the deep of it like that, I came home to Paul in full on dad mode which is just what we needed so I could recover completely. My parents and cousin - Aiden's godmother, arrived (from the UK) a few days after I was discharged and they have become Aiden's personal paparazzi
They've been fighting over each feed but no one but me takes the dirty diapers, they'll do wet but our little stinker is well a big stinker LOL
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On Sunday Aiden turned 3 weeks old and we joined up with family, friends and loved ones to Baptize Aiden along with his 8yr old cousin in the same church Paul and I were married in. The service was lovely and touching but Aiden slept through almost the whole thing, he only stirred when the water splashed back up at him from the font :lolg: He was in a nice little outfit for his baptism (nothing fancy just a sweet set that said My little man on the top and had the same in other languages on the pants) but just minutes before we were about to walk into the church he wetted through his diaper so back into the outfit he was wearing on the way to the church... secretly he wanted to be baptized wearing monsters inc clothes
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Paul and I feel unbelievably blessed to have such a handsome little boy! He makes up for the countless sleepless nights (as he seems to have day and night mixed up) with his adorable coos and sighs of contentedness after feeds :love: