May Emeralds 2014! :)

[x__amour]

Huge hugs, Jalanis22. Keeping you and your sweet baby angel in my thoughts.

Happy Halloween ladies! I hope everyone had a great and safe holiday.

We had our first official OB/GYN appointment today! I was pushed forward by one day so my new due date is May 4th, 2014. (May the Fourth be with you! ) Baby is looking great, heartbeat was 140BPM. Placenta is laying a little low, I didn't experience this with DD. Baby was kicking like crazy, active little one!

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We spoke a little about VBAC but he still needs to review my previous birth records. He was very straight forward about everything. If I do not go into labor by 41 weeks, he will not induce me. I will have to have an elective c-section. His success rate is about 80% though. I go back in 2 weeks for a 3 hour VBAC consult. They will measure my pelvis, go through my records with me, etc. We spoke about preeclampsia and he said there's about a 7% change of redeveloping it but I can take Omega 3 and eat lots of fish as in some countries it's been shown to lower the risk of preeclampsia. I'll need to keep fit, gain no more than 30lbs, watch sodium, and drink lots of water.

So appointment went great and had a great Halloween! LO LOVED trick or treating.

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Doc McStuffins!

Hope every one had a great day!

 

[FleurDeMai]

I was having a great day. Finally got an appointment with a midwife, and an appointment with a nutritionist.
And just now after I told my boyfriend about it he just said... he is isn't ready to have a child. I am almost in my second semester, I thought he had changed his mind because he had changed his attitude... but no, I was wrong, he still doesn't want it.
I really don't know what to do.

 

[x__amour]

I was having a great day. Finally got an appointment with a midwife, and an appointment with a nutritionist.
And just now after I told my boyfriend about it he just said... he is isn't ready to have a child. I am almost in my second semester, I thought he had changed his mind because he had changed his attitude... but no, I was wrong, he still doesn't want it.
I really don't know what to do.

Give him time love. Hopefully he comes around.

 

[Jalanis22]

I'm so sorry
It takes time I was 7weeks 4 days when I lost my angel, it was horrendous, couldn't believe the heartache.
I fell pregnant with my son 2.5 months later.
The mosscarge support group in here are lovely, hope your ok sweet heart xxxx

Thanks hun my angel measured exact weeks and days...still saddened.

 

[Madrid98]

I'm so sorry Jalanis mc's are a terrible thing to go through. Unfortunately I've been there 3 times so I know but, as you said, things happens for a reason and you need look after yourself now. It'll take time as it's a healing process but with your family's support you'll get there.

 

[stouffer]

I was having a great day. Finally got an appointment with a midwife, and an appointment with a nutritionist.
And just now after I told my boyfriend about it he just said... he is isn't ready to have a child. I am almost in my second semester, I thought he had changed his mind because he had changed his attitude... but no, I was wrong, he still doesn't want it.
I really don't know what to do.

Sorry you have to deal with that
Have you seen baby on an ultrasound yet? Although I had my OH's support, when we were expecting our first, it really didn't become real to my husband until he saw her on the scan. He became much more enthusiastic after that.
Maybe it will be the same for your OH.

Hang in there. He might come round with time.

 

[4magpies]

I can't imagine my other half not wanting our baby and I'm sorry I can't really offer any advice. Hope you get it sorted.

 

[ShanandBoc]

Introducing our newest addition, measuring 12 weeks and 2 days. All looked perfect from the scan

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[ShanandBoc]

Proud big sister. Their first pic together

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[4magpies]

Lovely scan picture Shan. Congrats!

xxx

 

[schultzie18]

Appointment went great! Got to hear the baby's heartbeat! 169! Doctor said everything was going great! She said she couldn't be happier with the pregnancy! I felt like crying! I was just so happy. Congrats to you guys with the wonderful scans!

 

[emalou90]

Proud big sister. Their first pic together

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That's so cute!!
Did she understand what's happening?
My daughters 4 in January so hoping she'll catch on quite quickly!!

 

[ShanandBoc]

Proud big sister. Their first pic together

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That's so cute!!
Did she understand what's happening?
My daughters 4 in January so hoping she'll catch on quite quickly!!

Yeah she seems to understand. Talks about the baby in my belly and says things in the babies room and "for the baby". Shes 3.5 when bubs is due so I think she will be a nice little helper

 

[Jalanis22]

I'm so sorry Jalanis mc's are a terrible thing to go through. Unfortunately I've been there 3 times so I know but, as you said, things happens for a reason and you need look after yourself now. It'll take time as it's a healing process but with your family's support you'll get there.

Thanks madrid...as its my first mc i didnt know what to,expect but it sure is painful. I have a great support system thanks to them and my hubby...it was sad yesterday at the dr my daughter kept telling "dont cry" and well i stopped for her i didnt want her to se me in pain. Thanks a lot and good luck hun.

 

[bumpin2012]

so sorry jalanis. I'll update the front page when I get into the laptop.

 

[FleurDeMai]

Stouffer - I haven't have an ultrasound yet. Actually, OH waited until I said we needed to go to the midwife's office today to get papers for an ultrasound (as it needs to be prescribed by an health care provider) before he dropped the bomb.
I didn't sleep in our bed and he didn't even look for me. That too hurts. And this morning I heard him get a call from his job and he agreed to get in six hours early (he's got a crazy schedule) so I am not getting these papers, at least not until Monday.
Just as things were looking up!

 

[daddiesgift]

Fleur- I'm sorry to hear about your OH. Idk what to really say since idk about your relationship or how this pregnancy came about but none of that really matters. I'm a little harsher than most but I'd tell him to suck it up. You're pregnant, there's no changing that. He's the father, there's no changing that. No reason to walk around pissed off/depressed/anxious. I'm sure eventually he will come around but there's no reason to hurt your feelings and neglect you in the meantime.

 

[emalou90]

Fleur - I'm sorry to hear about your troubles. Is there any reason as to why?

Jala - so sorry for you loss. I hope over the next few months you come to terms with it. It's such a sad time and I hope you've got support around you xxx

 

[4magpies]

Just found out my OH is getting made redundant in April. Closing the company. Sigh.

 

[HannahGraceee]

Ohhh no!! try not to stress about it hunny which is easy enough to say xxx