Lucinda-I think us ivfers are some tough cookies! My dr asked if the 3 hour glucose test was horrible and I didn't think it was, sure I was poked for blood 4 times in 3 hours but that's nothing compared to how many needles we've encountered for a round of ivf! . I'm 31 weeks. Pretty crazy! Dh and I just watched a couple labor you tube videos! I'm not sure why anyone would put their video on you tube, but hey some of those women did it naturally In their homes, so if they can do it I can do it!!