I am in the same situation too, I have to psyche myself up to ask him, we get into bed and lay there for ten mins waiting to see if he will make the first move and then in the end I am cringing and say well are we gonna do it then, I get only if you are on top or I am behind you, it literally is wham bam thank you mam! Weekends are a pain as he likes to stay up Sat and Sun night watching Match of the Day and I am trying so hard to stay awake, nothing will stop him watching footie, it does my head in! There is hardly any sex drive there whatsoever and I am gonna starve him of it until O time, he normally tries once I have finished AF but I am gonna do what he says to me sometimes that he is too tired or there is something I want to watch on TV, lmfao!! Men are seriously not normal human beings and it is so frustrating when TTC. Sometimes I think does he still fancy me? Is it really too much to ask for a bit of lovings with the wifey!! Grrrrrrrrrrr!!!! Thats my rant done and dusted, lol!! xx