Aw I am glad things are all sorted with you now.
After your experience I had to have a chat with my husband at the weekend to make sure he was ok with me using this site. I would hate for him to come across it and go mad. I think he was a little dubious but he was fine about it. Said he didnt mind so long as i dont go overboard with stuff.
I think what has been said on here is correct, i think the guys feel the pressure more than we do and the more and more we obsess about these things the more pressure they feel and then when we dont get
they take it personally as they feel their little fellas werent up to the job. I think i am just gonna check cm and leave the microscopes and opks alone until we have been trying without success for a while. (hopefully it wont come to that though)