Weebles. When pg with my younger son they saw something off about one of his kidneys. She said that if it would not get better during pg he would have to have surgery when he was born. I got another scan later on and then everything was just fine
About sleeping arangement. Here we dont have nurserys, usualy homes are not that big that a spare room can be used as nursery. Ppl have cribs, cosleep or have those that are semy attached to the bed.. not sure what they are called. in the room.
Both boys were in a crib in our room untill 18 months or so. Maby just litle bit younger. But they slept in a crib untill two or more.
I kind of mixed things. I mostly used the crib, mainly cause that is how I was able to sleep better. I move away in my sleep and end on the brink, or sleep in one position and dont move, change, turn or anything and then wake up, sleep badly or something and feel off. But I sometimes fell asleep while breastfeeding and the baby and we slept like that for a while before I put them in their bed. Both boys woke up to feed during the night untill 7 months or so, 2-3 times each night. So sleeping between the feeds was just nessecary for me. But also usualy around 5, maby 4 in the night they often came in our bed and got to sleep there the remaining hours of the night. Also if sick or poorly for some reason they slept in our bed, and still do (age 8 and 5).
Now we are having twins so I do not see how I am going to breastfeed lying down like I did with the boys so I think it will be more just me picking them up, feeding them then back to the crib. We will just go with the flow.
But we have tried not to let them get used to us puting them to sleep.. ehmm. We from early on had rutine before sleep then put in bed, kissed and huged, then they were to sleep on theyr own. We never let them cry and while small took them up, cuddled and rocked abit but tried to let them fall to sleep on theyr own. It made some things easyer like if someone was babisiting, they just needed to do the rutine, put in bed and go out the room. I know many who still have to stay with theyr kids, lay in their beds and even massage them or rubb theyr back or feet for them to fall alseep even at the age of 9 or 10. I want to have my evenings for me.. they get theyr reading, they get hugs, kisses and litle cuddle even before I go out of the room, talk to them and such. But they fall asleep on theyr own.
I had never thought of using anything besides a crib with my first. Had it by my bed and all. It just wasn't natural for us and ended up being useless.
! Still in shock 
