miscarriage and after

[MrsRoughton]

went to the docs today and he running a few tests to see why i haven't had af. got the bloods next wednesday. to check my hormone levels and general mot and will see him in the new year to find out what they find, if i don't have af or bfp by then!

 

[KittyKatBabe]

I was just thinking about you, was going to PM and see how you are. Well at least the doc has done some tests and its still possible you only ov'd late.

Keep us posted x

 

[Hopeful 4 #1]

Gosh Mrs Roughton I feel for u.. Lets hope u get your BFP before then!! xx

 

[MrsRoughton]

Am feeling so down today would of been having/getting my 12 week scan and i am not anymore
i woke up feeling nauseous today but don't see a point in testing as it will be another bfn and don't think i could take more negatives! gonna take the Holly Monster to get her 6 months check at dentist so gonna try and keep busy this week.

 

[KittyKatBabe]

Hey Mrs R, I know how you would have been feeling, been going through a lot of thoughts like that myself recently, plus just peed my OH off and got him angry cos I am just whining all the time. I am kidding myself pretending I am okay, I know I need shake it off and I know it upsets him to see me like this too, which can cause arguments which I don't want. I feel sad too, lets try and shake it off and be forward PMA.

I think its probably best if you don't do any tests for a few days especially with you feeling a bit low, but you do have the docs results in a few days so that will help give a final outlook for you and a new direction if that makes sense.
x x

 

[MrsRoughton]

am so sorry you are going through a tough time to. i thought that if i got pregnant straight away it would fix everything but tbh the one thing that can fix things is impossible. i feel like its so unfair and am trying to put a brave face but i am finding it really difficult. and i have a feeling that Rich is not to keen on us getting pregnant again, he hasn't said anything i just sense a change. when i ask if he is ok he says yes but i think there is more. or maybe i am losing my mind!!!!

 

[KittyKatBabe]

aww hun, I really know what you mean. Men don't see it like us, plus I may be wrong but I think with everything we have been through and the fact we are aware so much of how we want a new healthy pregnancy to 'fix' how we feel, means that we look for what could stop that and our oh's changing minds could be a possibility, even when its not necessarily happening.

What I am trying to say is its highly likely you may have lost your mind, sometimes we have put a bit of extra pressure on yourself and because it didn't happen first time, you reflect on what could have been. Again as hard as it seems you should look forward hun - chances are he isn't even thinking about that and concentrating on the football or xmas, or it could be he is a little more apprehensive about what has happened, what could happen and how you may be feeling now than you first realised.

I'm not as bad, mood swings or what, had a cry and think right game on again. Keep panicking that I am depressed - sure I am not, but keep dreading the word x

 

[MrsRoughton]

hiya just wanted to let you know that i caved and did a pg test and i got myn bfp! am in total shock and so scared. gonna ring docs tomorrow to see if i can get in to change my test next weeks to a pg blood test! and gonna poas again in the morning!

 

[smidgen]

hiya just wanted to let you know that i caved and did a pg test and i got myn bfp! am in total shock and so scared. gonna ring docs tomorrow to see if i can get in to change my test next weeks to a pg blood test! and gonna poas again in the morning!

omg! congratulations! so nice to hear good news on this forum x

 

[KittyKatBabe]

WOOOOOO HOOOOOO, congratulations hun, this is fantastic news. Awww I know you must be so apprehensive, but I hope you manage to relax and savour this news hun. I wish you lots of sticky baby and wish you a happy pregnancy and healthy baby.

Your doc will give you the bloods demand it x. Which test did you use? Have you got a pic of the line you can share?? I know its early days but so pleased for you hun x

 

[MrsRoughton]

how do you upload pic onto your posts?

 

[KittyKatBabe]

Ok - well I haven't done this myself but I had a quick look for you here are some instructions for you

How do I attach a file to a post?

To attach a file to your post, you need to be using the main 'New Post' or 'New Thread' page and not 'Quick Reply'. To use the main 'New Post' page, click the 'Post Reply' button in the relevant thread.

On this page, below the message box, you will find a button labelled 'Manage Attachments'. Clicking this button will open a new window for uploading attachments. You can upload an attachment either from your computer or from another URL by using the appropriate box on this page. Alternatively you can click the Attachment Icon to open this page.

To upload a file from your computer, click the 'Browse' button and locate the file. To upload a file from another URL, enter the full URL for the file in the second box on this page. Once you have completed one of the boxes, click 'Upload'.

Once the upload is completed the file name will appear below the input boxes in this window. You can then close the window to return to the new post screen.

What files types can I use? How large can attachments be?

In the attachment window you will find a list of the allowed file types and their maximum sizes. Files that are larger than these sizes will be rejected. There may also be an overall quota limit to the number of attachments you can post to the board.

How do I add an image to a post?

If you have uploaded an image as an attachment, you can click the arrow next to the 'Attachment Icon' and select it from the list. This will be inserted into your post and can be located where you want it displayed.

To include an image that is not uploaded as an attachment and is located on another website, you can do so by copying the full URL to the image, (not the page on which the image is located), and either pressing the 'Insert Image' icon or by typing

after it, ensuring that you do not have any spaces before or after the URL of the image. You can insert pictures from your albums (?) in this way too.

 

[MrsRoughton]

<a href="https://s828.photobucket.com/albums/zz210/MrsRoughton/?action=view&current=CIMG4662.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="https://i828.photobucket.com/albums/zz210/MrsRoughton/CIMG4662.jpg" border="0" alt="Photobucket"></a>
think this is the link??

 

[KittyKatBabe]

ok found an easier way. when you go to the advanced post, if you click on the paper clip (well drop down arrow to the right), it brings up the pop up window with a browse computer option, so this is how you can do it easier. You are limited on size must be 600 x 600 max.

 

[MrsRoughton]

https://i828.photobucket.com/albums/zz210/MrsRoughton/CIMG4662.jpg

 

[MrsRoughton]

my pic was to big so have added a link

 

[KittyKatBabe]

That is a definite hun, no chance of an is or isn't with that one! lol
Are you not tempted to do a Cb digi so it gives you the week?

 

[MrsRoughton]

i may do but want to do it with Rich to be with me am waiting for the midwives to find out if they gonna do an early scan as doc wouldn't grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

 

[KittyKatBabe]

Yeah I would defo wait for hubby, that was one nice thing that me and OH did together, I have the memory of him in his dressing gown waiting for it.. So sweet.

Can't wait for you to see how many weeks, how many more symptoms have you got? Sorry don't want go jumping the gun for you, I defo think the MW should allow the early scan for you because of the loss.

So pleased its odd, but I just love it even more when the ladies from our section get their BFP's.

x x

 

[MrsRoughton]

well not many a bit nauseous and a bit sick yesterday and crying over stupid programmes that i never cry at lol