mrsstreet0417
Mom to Isabella and Emma
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OK, well, my mother is on her third marriage. She was married to my Dad (and had me) , then right after divorce with my Dad was married again (had my brother), now she is married again, and after she had my brother she had her tubes tied. Well, my mom is not over the age that is socially acceptable to have kids, she is 40 in September, and I am 19. My DH and I found out recently that we are expecting a baby after 3 miscarriages and we are waiting to see if this is a sticky bean. Well, I'm rambling, so long story short, my mother wants to get her tubes untied so she can have another baby. I love my mother, but she has not done a overly incredible job with the children she has had! She always puts her husbands before her children
(no matter what, for instance when my 1st step dad beat and abused me for years and years and she told me it was my fault and she didn't believe me about the abuse) and she wants another child that she will not care for anyways. This just seems so unfair to me...If we ended up losing this bean and she has a baby I will be devastated. And if we are pregnant at the same time how awkward will that be? She will probably point the finger at me and ask why I'm choosing to have children this early, but it's her fault, because of her I grew up fast and am very mature for my age. Plus, why would she do this to me now, knowing that we have been trying to get pregnant for so long and are so happy... I just don't know anymore...
(no matter what, for instance when my 1st step dad beat and abused me for years and years and she told me it was my fault and she didn't believe me about the abuse) and she wants another child that she will not care for anyways. This just seems so unfair to me...If we ended up losing this bean and she has a baby I will be devastated. And if we are pregnant at the same time how awkward will that be? She will probably point the finger at me and ask why I'm choosing to have children this early, but it's her fault, because of her I grew up fast and am very mature for my age. Plus, why would she do this to me now, knowing that we have been trying to get pregnant for so long and are so happy... I just don't know anymore...