I was just sat thinking of my never ending debate on how long to wait to have another baby and it occurred to me: What do you do about the time it takes to heal at first after having the new baby? Especially if the older one goes to school how do you get them there? I remember it took me a couple weeks to be able to do much more than lay in bed sore so I'm not quite sure how to do that with a toddler and a new baby! I was lucky this time and had OH home with me all day to help but with the next one he'll be working and I have no family to help so I don't have a clue what I would do! Any insight on this?