We got lucky as we have only been trying for three cycles.
I have been:
1. charting
2. temping
3. using OPKs
4. Using Conceive Plus (the lube not the stuff that you put inside)
We BD'ed on the three days leading up to ovulation and on ovulation itself. We did try the day after ovulation but hubby couldn't finish (performance anxiety) Legs in the air every time after wards for about 20 mins.
I took one test at 9DPO and it was pure white (absolutely nothing). I then haven't tested at all until today being 12DPO with the witch due tomorrow. That wasn't me showing my superhuman control about not peeing on sticks it was actually because we were away for my birthday and I deliberately didn't pack any tests
I tried to take a relaxed month this month. Didn't speak to hubby about temps, OPKs or anything.
So symptoms...
5 and 6DPO I was very emotional and generally tired.
7DPO twinges in my ovaries and boobs a bit sore
9DPO some cramping in my lower tummy and tweaks in my ovaries
10DPO cramping again in lower tummy. Sore lower back. Sore boobs. Nausea all day
11DPO again nausea all day and tired (fell asleep at 7pm). Constipated and sore lower back. Sore boobs.
12DPO today. Constipated. Full feeling down there. Sore boobs and some nausea.
I really think that the relaxed approach has something to say for it. Or perhaps it could be my birthday as I had read that lots get a BFP around their birthday.
Luck to all
Joy x