****November Testing. 4 BFP SO FAR! FX ALL******

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[Mum42crazy]

I’ll be peeing on a stick soon, but only to confirm bfn after chemical. Part of me is a tiny bit hopeful even after I’ve had a heavy bleed. I’d be nearly 6 weeks just now and all my symptoms have stopped so I’m like ... 99.9% not going to get a positive.

I feel for you, I was the same last month I’d be 8 and a half weeks now, it’s still painful to think of the what if, even up to my scan 2 weeks ago to check everything was ok and I have a complete miscarriage, I’d be like maybe maybe I’ll have something to see even if my HTP had turned negative but not to be, always take a test because you never know we always live in hope, sending you big hug!!

 

[JessaBear36]

Not much of a update but I'm 3dpo today and AF due in 10 days.
Woke up with upset stomach not sure if it's because I'm hungry but feel to sick to eat this morning so some hot tea it is.

Anxiety is high this morning too. Which stinks means it's going to be a rough day.

Edit: Noticed lots of white sticky CM.

 

[Alligator]

BFN this am so AF should arrive. I am a bit peeved it hasn't already as this means I'm later than usual, which means a longer cycle and longer to O. No cramps either which is weird. Hopefully sometime today or tomorrow!

Also having loads of anxiety lately, and today. Didn't sleep well and was up way too early. Hopefully it's an easy day.

 

[kksy9b]

@KatVM I hope the UTI clears up soon, those are so painful!

@loeylo

@Alligator I'm sorry hun..I hope the witch shows soon for you so you can move on to the next cycle

 

[Deethehippy]

BFN this am so AF should arrive. I am a bit peeved it hasn't already as this means I'm later than usual, which means a longer cycle and longer to O. No cramps either which is weird. Hopefully sometime today or tomorrow!

Also having loads of anxiety lately, and today. Didn't sleep well and was up way too early. Hopefully it's an easy day.

I'm sorry you are experiencing anxiety, could it be the hormones dropping and changing? I hope AF shows soon to put an end to this cycle for you. Looks like me and you could well be cycle buddies for November too.

My spotting is only very very light..not actual flow yet so I am assuming tomorrow will be CD1 for me, FF seems to think so...that means an LP of 16 days which I am hoping means I have sufficient progesterone for my age at least.

 

[Jessylou4]

Hi Ladies,
I’m on CD 18, around the time I would usually have a bit of watery CM and be getting ‘high fertility’ on my clear blue digital OPKSs.
Have absolutely no CM, tiny amount of cramps, metal taste that I usually have during O, really swollen sore veiny boobs. My OPK said low fertility on the screen but when I removed the stick from the machine the test line was almost as dark as the control line and yesterday there was no line at all?!

Has anyone else used these and had a similar experience?

 

[nyxnw]

Thank you hon.
U have been through so much yourself my heart aches for you so much and I really do wish u so much luck hon and pray u get ure BFP and forever rainbow baby.
Thank u for being so nice.
Sending hugs.



Welcome hon and good luck.
I always used to fall on the first try to but for some reason this time it hasn't happened.
I'm on my 9th cycle TTC now and had 4 chemical pregnancies since April this year.
I think I took it all for granted a bit b4 because I've never struggled b4 but now I know what a horrible hard emotional rollercoaster TTC really is.
These ladies have all been such a great support.
I don't know what I wud of done without them.

thank you! Yeh I’m definitely not betting on it being easy again. My friends think it will, but I’m always reminded myself not every glass is made the same just in case it doesn’t happen right away so I wont be disappointed.

happy to get to know everyone!

 

[Suggerhoney]

Cd 9 today ladies and have some EWCM.
Tests dark but still negative.

Ran out of the wondfo tests now but still have plenty of Pregmate opks so will just continue to use those.
Cd10 tomorrow.

 

[Suggerhoney]

thank you! Yeh I’m definitely not betting on it being easy again. My friends think it will, but I’m always reminded myself not every glass is made the same just in case it doesn’t happen right away so I wont be disappointed.

happy to get to know everyone!

Yeah thats the best way to look at it hon.
I'm not gonna every month when AF shows I'm so disappointed but just have to keep trying and hoping.
I turn 41 in December so I'm not if mine is down to age but I got pregnant first try with my son when I was 39.
Really wasn't expecting it to take this long but hay ho.
We have gotten pregnant 4 times but they were all chemicals in April June July and October.
It seems I still can fall pregnant but its the staying pregnant bit.
I've started taking Mecca root as that's supposed to help prevent miscarriage but I've been taking it for 4 days so far.
Just hope if I fall again it sticks and is healthy.
I'm terrified of having a 5th loss
Really hope the macca works

 

[Suggerhoney]

Not much of a update but I'm 3dpo today and AF due in 10 days.
Woke up with upset stomach not sure if it's because I'm hungry but feel to sick to eat this morning so some hot tea it is.

Anxiety is high this morning too. Which stinks means it's going to be a rough day.

Edit: Noticed lots of white sticky CM.

So sorry ure suffering from anxiety hon, I get it to its not nice.
I noticed with my last chemical I had different than normal.
Strait after ovulation instead it being creamy like normal it was like TMI snotty and a little stretchy and gross.
I did notice some sticky white stuff here and there to so good luck hon.
Not sure about the sickness tbh. I did feel a bit queezy with my son but that was from about 8dpo.
But anything different can be a good sign hon.
Really got EVERYTHING crossed for you my lovely

BFN this am so AF should arrive. I am a bit peeved it hasn't already as this means I'm later than usual, which means a longer cycle and longer to O. No cramps either which is weird. Hopefully sometime today or tomorrow!

Also having loads of anxiety lately, and today. Didn't sleep well and was up way too early. Hopefully it's an easy day.

So sorry sweety.
I've had a few cycles where AF has been a day or 2 late and it sucks especially when u want to get to next cycle and ttc again.
I'm so sorry ure feeling anxious to and I really hope AF shows her face soon and hopefully u won't feel as anxious.
So so sorry about the BFNs.
Really hope next cycle gives u ure BFP hon.

 

[JessaBear36]

So sorry ure suffering from anxiety hon, I get it to its not nice.
I noticed with my last chemical I had different than normal.
Strait after ovulation instead it being creamy like normal it was like TMI snotty and a little stretchy and gross.
I did notice some sticky white stuff here and there to so good luck hon.
Not sure about the sickness tbh. I did feel a bit queezy with my son but that was from about 8dpo.
But anything different can be a good sign hon.
Really got EVERYTHING crossed for you my lovely



So sorry sweety.
I've had a few cycles where AF has been a day or 2 late and it sucks especially when u want to get to next cycle and ttc again.
I'm so sorry ure feeling anxious to and I really hope AF shows her face soon and hopefully u won't feel as anxious.
So so sorry about the BFNs.
Really hope next cycle gives u ure BFP hon.

Thanks hun. Yeah I suffer from anxiety and panic attacks almost everyday. I'm on medication for it but it don't always work. I have good days and bad.
Tww is going by so slow. I have 2 hpts left in the house. Waiting on more in the mail hope they come soon.

 

[JessaBear36]

Cd 9 today ladies and have some EWCM.
Tests dark but still negative.
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Ran out of the wondfo tests now but still have plenty of Pregmate opks so will just continue to use those.
Cd10 tomorrow.

Hope opks darken up... looks like u still have time to BD . Good luck!!

 

[loeylo]

I feel for you, I was the same last month I’d be 8 and a half weeks now, it’s still painful to think of the what if, even up to my scan 2 weeks ago to check everything was ok and I have a complete miscarriage, I’d be like maybe maybe I’ll have something to see even if my HTP had turned negative but not to be, always take a test because you never know we always live in hope, sending you big hug!!

Thanks! Unsurprisingly the test was negative. I’ve not even to go for a follow up. I’ve never retained tissue in my previous losses so I’m not too worried about that.

ovulation test is also negative.

 

[LuvallmyH]

Took some time away but I’m back for testing this month. I expect I’ll get lines that don’t progress past a few days, but who knows. This was my opk yesterday. I would like to hold out until 12dpo, 11/16. I think I’ll make it to 7dpo, 11/11. I’ll see how I feel. I hate starting the stress so early. I always see lines so the fall is almost worse when the hope creeps in.
I also have two different fertility blood tests to take at home starting on cd3. One for basic fertility and one for ovarian reserve. At my age (44) I don’t know if it’s silly to be ttc.
I would have given birth this month if I didn’t lose my little boy. It’s getting to me a lot more than I expected.
Lets hope this thread has a lot to be thankful for this November!

 

[ciz]

Hi ladies, just popping to wish you all lots of baby dust and lots of support. I’m back trying for our 3rd hopefully my cycle gets back to normal soon.

 

[Suggerhoney]

Thanks hun. Yeah I suffer from anxiety and panic attacks almost everyday. I'm on medication for it but it don't always work. I have good days and bad.
Tww is going by so slow. I have 2 hpts left in the house. Waiting on more in the mail hope they come soon.

Awwqw hon bless you.
I used to suffer bad with panic attacks they are horrible.
I used to think I was going to die like I was having heart attack its just so scary so I feel bad that u have to suffer with this all the time hon thats truly horrible.
I have type 2 bipolar and I am on mood stabbelizers and I'm not sure if it's them thats helped with my panic attacks, I haven't had one for a good few months now.
I do get anxious and TTC certainly does not help.
I don't think I'm going to be testing to early anymore.
Its the dealing with that anxiety while you wait for the lines to darken. I just can't. So I'm gonna hold off for as long as I possibly can.
I'm finding that this cycle has gone fast so far.
Like it don't feel like I started bleeding almost 10 days ago its just flown, but I have been keeping busy.
I don't normally ovulate until cd13 so still a few days away yet. I did feel like the OPks were close today but will see what tomorrow's is like.
My temp always dips on the day of ovulation itself so will know for sure when ovulation has happened.
I only have the pregmate opks left now but they worked well last cycle.
Hoping ovulation holds off until day 11 at the very least.
I bet everything will slow down as soon as I get into the 2ww lol.

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Took some time away but I’m back for testing this month. I expect I’ll get lines that don’t progress past a few days, but who knows. This was my opk yesterday. I would like to hold out until 12dpo, 11/16. I think I’ll make it to 7dpo, 11/11. I’ll see how I feel. I hate starting the stress so early. I always see lines so the fall is almost worse when the hope creeps in.
I also have two different fertility blood tests to take at home starting on cd3. One for basic fertility and one for ovarian reserve. At my age (44) I don’t know if it’s silly to be ttc.
I would have given birth this month if I didn’t lose my little boy. It’s getting to me a lot more than I expected.
Lets hope this thread has a lot to be thankful for this November!

Hi hon so good to have u back,
Thats a great positive OPK.
I'm still here lol.
Fell pregnant last cycle and my tests actually got darker this time but sadly it was a 4th chemical pregnancy.
So I'm not going to be testing early anymore.
I got my BFP at 10dpo was so faint but by 13dpo my lines were darker and was a clear BFP then 14dpo the lines were really really faint and I just new it was all over.
So now I'm sure when to test.
I'm due AF on the 24th Nov so was gonna test on the 22nd 14dpo and 2 days b4 AF.
Gonna be so hard holding out that long but I don't think I can cope with the anxiety of waiting for them lines to darken.

I'm so sorry this month wud of been ure due date. I always think of the baby I lost at almost 11 weeks. My due date was the 22nd July.
Even now 21 years later I still think of that little one.
It does get easier hon but it just takes time.
Its so good to have u back here again and I really hope this is ure month hon

Hi ladies, just popping to wish you all lots of baby dust and lots of support. I’m back trying for our 3rd hopefully my cycle gets back to normal soon.

Hi hon welcome back.
U was with me in the testing threads when we were trying for our son.
Good to have u back again.
Good luck hon.

 

[Suggerhoney]

So good to see some family faces back.
Keeping it fixed for everyone

 

[Bevziibubble]

View attachment 1090078
Took some time away but I’m back for testing this month. I expect I’ll get lines that don’t progress past a few days, but who knows. This was my opk yesterday. I would like to hold out until 12dpo, 11/16. I think I’ll make it to 7dpo, 11/11. I’ll see how I feel. I hate starting the stress so early. I always see lines so the fall is almost worse when the hope creeps in.
I also have two different fertility blood tests to take at home starting on cd3. One for basic fertility and one for ovarian reserve. At my age (44) I don’t know if it’s silly to be ttc.
I would have given birth this month if I didn’t lose my little boy. It’s getting to me a lot more than I expected.
Lets hope this thread has a lot to be thankful for this November!

Thinking of you and I've got everything crossed for you

 

[Bevziibubble]

Hi ladies, just popping to wish you all lots of baby dust and lots of support. I’m back trying for our 3rd hopefully my cycle gets back to normal soon.

Welcome back and good luck