November Testing Thread :)!

[Noo]

AFM, i'm so annoyed. OH has been telling me all week we could do something today because we have not done anything in a while and its hard because he works all the time, so i got up while he was still sleeping as he never got back from work until 4am this morning, i got up got ready to go out.. he got up and told me he is away to his dads today.. so i'm pretty pissed off. its nearly 2pm, and he is just away.. so time he gets back there will be no time to do anything, as he will need dinner, and get ready for work. whats annoyed me even more is he usually goes to his dads on a Sunday.. he's been doing my head in the last 4days!

That's a bit crappy I must admit me and DH don't particularly do much together as we both work and are generally knackered by the time we're off together - Which isn't very often! Hence a few days in the Lakes. Perhaps you could do something together tomorrow if he's going to his Dad's today?

 

[nic18]

girls, he just text me saying 'i think we need a talk :\ x' i actually knew this was coming!

 

[nic18]

looks like i won't be ttc anymore girls, but i will keep this thread going & keep giving you support. Good luck x

 

[sunshine85]

nic18 so sorry to hear that :/ don't know what is going on but I am here as a listening ear if needed!

 

[Breadsticks]

Nic, I am so sorry! It's so sweet of you to stay here for us, we're here for you too!

 

[nic18]

thank you girls, i am actually heartbroken i don't know what to do, and i don't have a clue what to say to him when he comes in! what fuckin idiot does it through text? have some balls and atleast say it to my face! ARGH. sorry you girls need to hear this, its the least of your worries but thank you

 

[zelly1]

Are any of you guys using pre-seed/conceive plus? This will be my first month trying it and not sure if I believe all the hype! We need to use something as since having a coil I've been very dry so I'd rather use something that won't damage the swimmers - I'd not realised normal lube does that! Oops!

I used conceive plus for a few months just as lube on oh mad nothing. Used pet seed las t month but the amount it says is far too much as after oh did the business it leaked out, oops!! This month just using 1g which is perfect. Time will tell in wk or so if worked

 

[zelly1]

thank you girls, i am actually heartbroken i don't know what to do, and i don't have a clue what to say to him when he comes in! what fuckin idiot does it through text? have some balls and atleast say it to my face! ARGH. sorry you girls need to hear this, its the least of your worries but thank you

Ahh hun. Sorry to hear that xx

 

[babysaa]

thank you girls, i am actually heartbroken i don't know what to do, and i don't have a clue what to say to him when he comes in! what fuckin idiot does it through text? have some balls and atleast say it to my face! ARGH. sorry you girls need to hear this, its the least of your worries but thank you

Hi Nic, I haven't been following so not sure what's going on but, try and stay strong. We are all here for each other if you need to talk or even to just vent. Hugs girl!!!

 

[nic18]

thanks babysaa! basically he text me saying he didn't want to ttc anymore, he just came home had a shower and got his work stuff and went never even spoke a word to me ! its 16.40 and he doesnt start until 9?

 

[Breadsticks]

Nic, I'm so sorry, lots of hugs!

I hope you are able to talk to him about it soon. Maybe he is just having an off week and is taking his frustrations out on something he knows he can control (whether or not you two TTC).

I hope your day improves!

 

[nic18]

i hope he is just having a bad week, but something is telling me hes not !

 

[Noo]

Aww no Perhaps he's more affected by the lack of BFP as you are? Maybe you need a break from TTC and start "dating" again for a little while to take the pressure off. I know how hard it is when you're TTC as all the fun disappears from your sex life and it's all a means to an end which can be rather off putting. I think you need to sit down with him and discuss how he feels - It may be the pressure, he may not be happy in the relationship. But either way you need to know as bringing a baby into this situation is never a good idea if you're not both happy and stable. You're both very young (not to sound condescending) but you have plenty of time in your future to look towards having a baby, maybe now is the time to concentrate on the two of you as a couple rather than the additional pressure of TTC and ultimately a baby xx Inbox me your number if you fancy a chat over text.

 

[nic18]

Aww no Perhaps he's more affected by the lack of BFP as you are? Maybe you need a break from TTC and start "dating" again for a little while to take the pressure off. I know how hard it is when you're TTC as all the fun disappears from your sex life and it's all a means to an end which can be rather off putting. I think you need to sit down with him and discuss how he feels - It may be the pressure, he may not be happy in the relationship. But either way you need to know as bringing a baby into this situation is never a good idea if you're not both happy and stable. You're both very young (not to sound condescending) but you have plenty of time in your future to look towards having a baby, maybe now is the time to concentrate on the two of you as a couple rather than the additional pressure of TTC and ultimately a baby xx Inbox me your number if you fancy a chat over text.

i think thats what we need to do! start dating, but we don't have time to if that makes sense he works 7days a week! i hope he is happy in the relationship but i wont have any answers until he decides to talk.. we do have alot of time to bring a baby into the world your right! i will PM you my number just now thank you

 

[Tink80]

Aww, Nic. I'm sorry, honey Feel free to pm me if you want to talk. I hope everything turns out okay

 

[nic18]

thanks girls, you have been amazing!

 

[xMiMix]

Hi Ladies! Good morning! Hows everyone doing? I'm new to this thread. I'm planning to test on Nov. 4th. That's when af is do, either the 3rd or 4th but the 4th is when i'll be testing. Im tempted to poas on Halloween for my bday but i'm gna try my best to wait it out. anyways, take a look at my chart, let me know what u think!

Welcome I don't know a lot about temping to be honest. This is my first FULL cycle temping and finding it all a bit of a chore to be honest! At the minute my temps seem to be around the same although I know they were more sporadic at the end of the previous cycle. Have you been temping long? What other methods are you using?

Hey, I've been checking my cp and cm also (not as often though), this is my first cycle actually tempting religiously also. I'm not 100% sure if its promising but i'm staying optimistic! Heres my chart as of today if anyone has any input. when are you testing? isnt due till nov 4th and im gna try and wait but i wna maybe test on halloween (my bday), it would be a nice present! Keep my updated. Lots of babydust 2 u!

 

[Breadsticks]

Hey, I've been checking my cp and cm also (not as often though), this is my first cycle actually tempting religiously also. I'm not 100% sure if its promising but i'm staying optimistic! Heres my chart as of today if anyone has any input. when are you testing? isnt due till nov 4th and im gna try and wait but i wna maybe test on halloween (my bday), it would be a nice present! Keep my updated. Lots of babydust 2 u!

I personally love charting! It is so helpful for me. I never got any good at checking cervical position, but I do check CM and texture. Your chart looks nice, love seeing that huge rise for ovulation!

As for me, I was going to wait to test until next Saturday but I broke down and tested this morning. I got a faint-but-definitely-there positive! We are very excited right now but I plan to test again Wednesday morning (I'll be at least two days late for AF by then, Fertility Friend has gone back and forth with when AF is due...either today or Monday).

Good luck and happy early birthday! I hope you get a very special present this year

 

[Tink80]

awwwww congrats, Breadsticks!!!

 

[nic18]

congrats breadsticks xx