:wave: Welcome AmberS and Tanni!
Sorry this shower isn't turning out as planned, MA! Unfortunately, life always likes to throw us a curve ball, hm? The best-laid plans get ruined by some small thing, and then it's all drama and stress. But you're right, just take it easy-- let things happen the way they do, and don't stress about it. Laugh at the mishaps, that way they're no big deal at all
My boobies have been in lots of pain since about 20 weeks or so.. my left one especially is just SO sensitive. I've been leaking since then, too.. and in the last few days, they leaking has increased by a lot, to the point where I really should be wearing pads... but.. I don't like them. lol. They're itchy.
I don't think you need to be too worried about causing labor by stimulating your nipples, MA.. from what I've read, to start labor, you have to stimulate your nipples for several HOURS a day to cause real contractions, and the stimulation has to mimic a baby's suckling.
Oh, and if you want to see if you can get colostrum to come out, I don't think you even need to touch your nipples much. Mine leak if I squeeze the whole thing slowly from the outside toward the nipple, but doesn't have to include the nipple. Lol TMI maybe, sorry.. just wanted to share what I've learned so far ;-)
I'm a little glad to hear that I'm not the only one feeling super uncomfortable lately. At least I know I'm not alone in all my pain and sleeplessness!
I'm sooo ready to just have this all over with and get the baby out! He's getting way too huge and heavy. I'm 5'-10" with a long torso.. but by now this "little" one is getting so big that he's making it impossible to eat more than a few bites, even when I think I'm starving.. and sometimes it's almost like he gives me a kick in the stomach or something and I suddenly feel terribly nauseous. Plus those lovely feet in my ribs and being short of breath... argh.. I know all pregnant moms go through this, but I'm getting really tired of it! SO hoping I don't make it to 40 weeks.. haha.
When I think about the fact that I'm only 3 weeks away from full term, though, it does seem to make it all a little easier, though... just 3 weeks to full term, 6 weeks till due date.. that's really soon! Like.. really, really soon! lol!
I went on a looong shopping trip yesterday to BRU and Buy Buy Baby.. and got pretty much everything left on my list. THEN I installed the car seat and child-view mirror..
.. I guess it's probably a little early for that, especially since I have to move the passenger seat all the way to the front to fit the car seat... but.. I just really, really wanted to have everything all ready to go.
Now I just have to buy the changing pad I like on Amazon.. annnd.. then I'm all set! Woohoo, feels good :-D I hadn't really started buying anything until August.. and didn't even have ANY clothes for LO until this past weekend.. so I'm really surprised to be done with preparations and shopping 6 weeks before the due date ;-)