rbourre
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Hey everyone, been MIA this week as I've been training my work replacement. Last day of work tomorrow though!
I feel pretty sure my babies will come early haha but you never know. I know some twin moms who made it to 40 weeks!
Sorry to all those with Parent and Inlaw issues. I'm pretty lucky I don't have anyone super overbearing or trying to snatch the babies the moment I push them out. My mom will come visit but will only stay a week and she is coming when DH goes back to work so he and I will have a few weeks just us and the babies (and some day to day visitors I'm sure but no one staying with us). My mil is a sweetheart and is making lots of baby knitted cute things. My only issue is that she and my Fil smoke so I'm edgy about them holding the babies when they come in smelling like cigarettes. But they won't be here constantly so I'm hoping their exposure will be minimal. And hopefully I can express that I don't want them holding them immediately after smoking without insulting them. My mil has been trying to quit so hopefully she won't be too bad. She made me some hats early on that smelled like smoke and I had to wash them etc but last week she brought me 4 baby blankets and they smelled fine so I hope that means she is smoking a lot less if at all.
My in laws smoke too. Whenever she buys us stuff (for the baby or our daughter), I put it right in the wash whether it smells like smoke or not because I know it's been exposed to it. They've tried quitting so many times and my husband has asked them to quit (after my dad passed away, when our daughter was born, etc) but they don't.
I had to buy a new blood pressure monitor tonight. That annoyed me a bit. I borrowed my father in laws monitor when I found out I am pregnant and about a month ago, I knocked it off the table and broke the part that allows the air to go in to inflate the cuff. I glued it back together and it was fine, but then my daughter knocked it off and broke that piece, I glued it again and it snapped off again today. There's only so many times I can glue it back together so I just went and bought a new one. That was $56 that I didn't really want to spend right before rent is due and when my daughters birthday party is this weekend, but the health of my unborn son is very important (obviously) so I sucked it up and bought it. My father in law said he doesn't care if I don't replace it, but I need one because I monitor my bp twice a day.