October Sticky Beans!

[Angel5000]

Update: i just started bleeding.. i'm less crushed than i think i would be, probably because i knew deep inside that the tests not getting darker couldn't be a good sign.

I'm at my parent's house right now so i'll probably have a good cry when i get home..

Now my question: How is a chemical best represented in FF?

Oh I'm so sorry!! I was really hoping this was it for you!!

When I had my chemical, I didn't do anything special. I went back and put in the +HPT on the days I got a + (because I hadn't put it in yet) and then I put in AF as normal.

 

[krissie328]

So sorry cupcake.

 

[MsRipple]

So sorry cupcake

 

[todmommy4568]

Sorry cupcake I did the same thing as angel, I just put in the positive on the day I got it and put everything else in like I normally do.

 

[cupcake.]

thank you girls

And thanks for the advice, I did as you said todmommy and angel. Just put in the Period, already did have the positive HPTs in there.

I'm obviously very sad that this has happened But, I'm trying to look forward and see the good in the situation. At least now I know we can get pregnant. This was our first cycle with such good BD timing, so I am hopeful that if we can keep it up like last cycle it won't take too long to get our sticky babycake.
I'm actually finding comfort in the thought that while it wasn't meant to be for us yet, the universe obviously wanted me to know it CAN happen, so that I can start this new cycle with new hope and the reassurance that i can get pregnant - and I will again

 

[Blackrain90]

Oh gosh cupcake I am so sorry to hear that That is a really good way to look at it, everything happens for a reason, but it is still so hard

 

[Angel5000]

cupcake. That's a great way to look at it. I hope that you can keep a positive outlook. That's what I Tried to do with my CP.

 

[magicalmom2be]

So so sorry cupcake! Could it possibly be implantation?

 

[lvksa]

@cupcake.
sorry about AF your positivity is fantastic

 

[cupcake.]

So so sorry cupcake! Could it possibly be implantation?

Thanks but unfortunately not, as i had already implanted otherwise i wouldn't have gotten positive tests and the bleeding is full on flow.

Thanks ivksa it's really the only healthy way to cope with things like these is being optimistic right

I had a very vivid dream of being pregnant tonight, which definitely isn't a surprise. Dreams are a way of coping and processing after all. It still sucked so very much to wake up and not have a cute 24week bump anymore (yeah i was 24 weeks along in my dream) haha

But i am definitely feeling better today i'm hopeful for this cycle

 

[lvksa]

@cupcake.
I agree with you on that. As much as we can be totally bummed out during this process the thing that we can do for ourselves is to try and keep our spirits up as best as we can. It helps to have other positive people around as well

 

[jalilma]

Cupcake... Sendings hugs your way.

 

[cscbeth8421]

SO sorry Cupcake. Chemical pregnancies are the worst. But both Black and I had a chemical the same month, then got pregnant the following month! Perhaps this cycle is your cycle. Fingers crossed!

Ladies: I got a new phone and i DO NOT REMEMBER MY PASSWORD for baby and bump. I tried to re-set it by having them email me, but i never got the email. This happened to me last pregnancy too, i had to open a whole new profile. Anyone have luck changing their password?

 

[Angel5000]

Based on today's temp, FF is giving me dotted CHs but I don't buy it. I think today's temp is only as high as it was because of bad sleep. When I took it at 4:30am (30 minutes before I usually temp) I had been waking every hour or so for a few hours, so I'm not sure how accurate it is. I'll wait and see what tomorrow's temp is before I disregard it though. I haven't had a +OPK and I usually get one the day of or day before O. If it IS accurate, then we are out for this cycle, just haven't BD enough. Not really the end of the world, this cycle is not the greatest timing in terms of due date.


cupcake FX you get a lovely BFP next cycle like beth and black!!

beth I've never had to reset my password, but did you check to make sure it didn't go to your spam folder? and that they have the correct email for your account? Not cool that you had to create a new account!

 

[todmommy4568]

Beth I agree with angel to check the spam folder. I ended up making a new one as well but it had been so long for me that I didn't remember my username or the email I was using

So cd16 and I still haven't even done an opk! I will probably start with them tomorrow, just kind of feels like a what's the point kind of thing because DH is out of town until Thursday.

 

[Blackrain90]

My chemical was actually when TTC my son, but I did get preg not long after it.

Yeah Beth I would say spam folder or maybe request again?

 

[krissie328]

So cd16 and I still haven't even done an opk! I will probably start with them tomorrow, just kind of feels like a what's the point kind of thing because DH is out of town until Thursday.

I am kinda feeling this way too. I am counting this cycle as a wash. DH and I didn't even get any BD in this weekend. And the likelihood of doing it through the week is minimal. I still haven't gotten a positive opk and my temps are all messed up due to the time change and me being sick last night. And if I am honest I am not sure I even want to be ttc right now. I was so exhausted in my first trimester last time and I just don't know if I can handle that and work right now. But of course when I tried to explain that to DH he just accuses me of not wanting to try at all. He is so convinced I just want one but I really do want two.

Sorry ladies. I had a very hormonal/emotional weekend. And nobody to talk to.

 

[todmommy4568]

So cd16 and I still haven't even done an opk! I will probably start with them tomorrow, just kind of feels like a what's the point kind of thing because DH is out of town until Thursday.

I am kinda feeling this way too. I am counting this cycle as a wash. DH and I didn't even get any BD in this weekend. And the likelihood of doing it through the week is minimal. I still haven't gotten a positive opk and my temps are all messed up due to the time change and me being sick last night. And if I am honest I am not sure I even want to be ttc right now. I was so exhausted in my first trimester last time and I just don't know if I can handle that and work right now. But of course when I tried to explain that to DH he just accuses me of not wanting to try at all. He is so convinced I just want one but I really do want two.

Sorry ladies. I had a very hormonal/emotional weekend. And nobody to talk to.

I am so much more relaxed now that I know there isn't a deadline on TTC. Would DH be okay with NTNP for a month or two? It will happen when it is supposed to happen even if the BD timing isn't the greatest think of all these women who accidentally get pregnant having sex a week before they ovulate, just meant to be. And when it does happen life will balance itself out. Your track record for getting through hard times is 100%, you are still here fighting for what you want!

 

[cupcake.]

SO sorry Cupcake. Chemical pregnancies are the worst. But both Black and I had a chemical the same month, then got pregnant the following month! Perhaps this cycle is your cycle. Fingers crossed!

Ladies: I got a new phone and i DO NOT REMEMBER MY PASSWORD for baby and bump. I tried to re-set it by having them email me, but i never got the email. This happened to me last pregnancy too, i had to open a whole new profile. Anyone have luck changing their password?

Hoping you managed to get your password situation straightened out!

And thanks let's hope my bad luck is followed by some extra good luck this cycle.

But i mean can't say i wasn't right the beginning of october when i said i just decided that it will be the month we catch the egg! Haha guess i'll have to be a bit more specific: this cycle we will catch the egg and get our STICKY BFP!

Let's hope it works again

And i'm sorry krissie i'm with todmommy, maybe ntnp for a cycle or two?

 

[krissie328]

I am so much more relaxed now that I know there isn't a deadline on TTC. Would DH be okay with NTNP for a month or two? It will happen when it is supposed to happen even if the BD timing isn't the greatest think of all these women who accidentally get pregnant having sex a week before they ovulate, just meant to be. And when it does happen life will balance itself out. Your track record for getting through hard times is 100%, you are still here fighting for what you want!

Yes, DH is just fine NTNP. He actually suggested doing that. Crazy man has figured out all my ttc lingo. I am kinda thinking of just tracking temps to see if I even ovulate and not worrying to much either way. But that is so much harder to do than I thought. I know I don't want to go on hormonal birth control it just makes me so miserable along with other unpleasant side effects. So I guess we can just NTNP and I will temp to see if I am even ovulating. At least that way if we make it to May (1 year) I can present that to my doctor. We conceived DS on our first round of Clomid so maybe we will get lucky again if it gets to that.

And you are so right. Life does sort itself. With DS we were not in a position to get pregnant but by the time he got here we were doing quite well. And we bought a house when he was 9 months old and have plenty to spoil that child with!!