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[mrscletus]

Tod your temps are very confusing.. Along with that pos OPK.. But I don't think extra bd'ing will hurt. I would give it a go and see what happens.

Cupcake- I know the feeling. DH has the same problem sometimes. I put on a great face and tell him not to worry, but with only a short window of chance it's crushing to not be able to make the most of those fertile days.

 

[Angel5000]

The extra BD can't hurt but if you aren't into it I wouldn't stress too much. Lol. Maybe just try every 2-3 days as the mood allows without forcing it.

 

[MsRipple]

Awseome black! So happy all is going well!

Cupcake O minus 2 ain't bad! And I'm kinda obsessed with studies, and some say O minus 2 is actually ideal or there is not a huge different in conception rates for O minus 2 or O minus 1.

As for me I either ovulated early this am or expect I will soon. Third day blinking smiley at 8 am, pain in ovary area early am, and a close to positive opk around noon. I would have assumed due to o pain it already happened but then I would have expected solid smiley this am. jIf it was this am, I got in my bd just in time I hope.

 

[cupcake.]

Thanks ladies
I'm hoping you're right. And anyways, it's only if i did O and while i do want great timing, i also want to finally confirm Ovulation for this cycle..
We managed to squeeze in another BDing, even though OH is super busy cause he has to leave in about half an hour. So fingers crossed that it may still count.

 

[lvksa]

Hi girls I've been MIA awhile.

AF came and my mother in law stayed with us for a week. Then we traveled back to his hometown for the weekend. Came back to our city and my husband traveled to Canada this past Thursday.

So now I am home alone and finally with a little free time. I'm not sure what I've missed, but I'm back for a bit.

No chance of trying really this cycle for me. Husband is gone for two weeks in the middle of my cycle.

Wondering if anyone has had this with FF. I have a bunch of open circles, but my BBT times are only off on the weekend. I've checked them and they are all 6:00 am.

 

[Angel5000]

Ivksa - welcome back! I was thinking about you yesterday and wondering how you were doing!

FF will base your "normal" BBT time off the first time in the cycle I think. So check what time the day in the cycle is marked for and see if that makes it way off.

Sorry that you won't have many options to try this cycle. There's a chance O will come early or late, maybe.

 

[cupcake.]

Welcome back ivksa

Afm, seems like i didn't even O yet.. i'm actually really fed up with this cycle and tbh, almost think it might end up anovulatory again. I knew before ttc that my cycles weren't the most regular, but i did not imagine they were this bad

 

[krissie328]

Welcome back ivksa.

cupcake. It is so frustrating.

 

[Lawes1987]

Hey ladies! Sorry about being MIA, I've had a lot going on. I'm CD14 ATM, first day of my 7 day fertile window and I don't want to BD. My OH is being a neglectful jerk ATM and totally taking me for granted and it doesn't make me wanna jump on him. Far from it. If I could just pass him a cup and a pipette, I'd let him have his fun alone and just take what I needed, argh! This is month 3 of trying and I'm starting to worry that my age or my weight may be causing issues. I think I'm actually trying to put myself off wanting a baby as a fail safe cause I'm convinced it won't happen.

 

[todmommy4568]

Sorry cupcake

Good to have you back ivksa! Sorry there won't be much of a chance this month

Lawes it definitely is frustrating, hopefully things will start looking up soon 3 months is still very early!

Afm thinking the other day may have been O. I had some drinks the night before that huge temp spike so I didnt really trust it but since today's was still up there I am seeing a little bit of hope haha

 

[krissie328]

tod- that temp spike does seem promising. Fx it stays elevated for you.

Afm, not much to report here. Just trying to focus on the holidays, losing a bit of weight and waiting for February. I am trying to hard to get DH to work on some home improvement projects with me so hopefully that will keep my mind off things.

 

[Angel5000]

tod that spike looks good!! maybe it really was O!

Krissie - good luck on the weight loss. I'm working on weight loss and health atm too. Good luck.

AFM just waiting for O. I've got a ways to go. :/ Blah.

 

[cupcake.]

I started spotting this morning.. so i'm guessing it really was another anovulatory cycle. Could it be something to do with the chemical i had last cycle?
I'm getting quite worried tbh, but we decided that we will keep going and see a doctor in march if it hasn't happened then and especially if i have any more anovulatory cycles (might have said that already haha)

I ordered vitamin D, because my multivitamin doesn't have it and i've read vitamin D deficiency can be very much related to infertility, and with not being out much we are probably both deficient. It definitely can't hurt and may even help so it's worth a try.

 

[todmommy4568]

Krissie - hoping the holidays can keep your mind off things!

Angel- hopefully O will happen soon enough! Maybe the holidays will distract you from all the waiting!

Cupcake - definitely worth a try with the vit D!

Well I have new crosshairs, ff says that I am 4dpo. If I really did just O I think I am 5dpo with a slow rise but whatever so I guess now I am not expecting AF until December 11 which just seems crazy!

 

[cscbeth8421]

Well that is good! YAY for Cross Hairs!

 

[Angel5000]

cupcake - sorry about the anovulatory cycle. How long ago was your last anovulatory? I have read (I think) That the cycle after a CP could be odd and some women reported it being anovulatory. My O was about a week late after my CP. Hopefully the VitD helps. I hadn't heard it could affect fertility but I do know it's very important. My dr told me to start taking 1,000 of VitD because I am low too.

Todmommy - Wow!! Yay for CH. But what an ODD cycle!!

 

[Blackrain90]

Hey ladies, please pray for me/keep your fingers crossed. Bleeding this morning, waiting in emergency right now. No pain or anything besides the blood so not sure what is happening.

 

[krissie328]

Black- massive hugs hun. I hope everything is alright.

Tod- Yay for crosshairs!! I also thought 5 dpo looking at your chart.

cupcake- Vit. D is great for fertility. I think before I got pregnant with DS I was taking 5000 miu because it is one of the vitamins PCOS women are low.

Afm, we are expecting a big winter storm with 5-8 inches in our area expected. I am not sure how this is going to impact our plans. DH is trying to get tomorrow off so we can leave in the morning. If he doesn't we might end up not going.

 

[cupcake.]

Massive hugs black! Hope everything turns out okay

Angel, last one was in september, then my chemical pregnancy cycle and now anovulatory as well :/ maybe it has something to do with the chemical, still doesn't really look too good i guess.

Thanks for all the vitamin d input. It can't harm and with my inside job and i'm not really the outdoorsy type i bet i'm deficient anyway. Hoping it'll be delivered by tomorrow

 

[todmommy4568]

black...hope everything is okay!