Yep - it measures both estrogen and LH, as well as using info from previous cycles to tell you the best time to DTD.Is a cbfm a digital OPK?
Oh, and the has turned up so I am onto another (my 7th) cycle of TTC...
OH and I talked this evening about TTC and the fact that we've done 6 months. We have agreed to try naturally for another 3 months. I am hoping that having these honest conversations will help him understand the importance of more BDing!
Yup - twice in the "window" I would consider a good month too! Fingers crossed Katherine for your BFP.Ive been having similar conversations with my OH and this cycle we DTD twice, cd12 and 14 That is good for us.... I hope that's enough
OH and I talked this evening about TTC and the fact that we've done 6 months. We have agreed to try naturally for another 3 months. I am hoping that having these honest conversations will help him understand the importance of more BDing!
Ive been having similar conversations with my OH and this cycle we DTD twice, cd12 and 14 That is good for us.... I hope that's enough
OH and I talked this evening about TTC and the fact that we've done 6 months. We have agreed to try naturally for another 3 months. I am hoping that having these honest conversations will help him understand the importance of more BDing!
Ive been having similar conversations with my OH and this cycle we DTD twice, cd12 and 14 That is good for us.... I hope that's enough
That is a good month, same as me last month, then CD 17 which I think was too late (reckon O was CD16).
Kelly, funny you were asking about symptoms because I know they don't mean anything, but was starting to wonder.... So looked back to last month's when I had a bit of a rant, and they were: Nausea, loose bowels (sorry TMI!), "soapy" taste in mouth, sore boobs (kinda burny) and last few days nipples too, and indigestion.
This month I have occasional nausea, light-headed, funny taste in mouth, sore boobs (kinda burny but this time shooting pains too) and last few days nipples too. Not feeling PMT now which is normal for me just before period, actually feeling quite chilled out (although start to get stressed when go to toilet in case get nasty surprise!). I think my "symptoms" are PMT. I am CD 29 today, cycle usually 30 days plus last 2 months so early days yet. I reckon AF will come tomorrow or Sat.
It's horrible playing the waiting game, so my mantra for this months is "I coped last month so I will be fine this month if I get AF" and that seems to make me feel better!
Kelly and HP you have given me hope!
How's everyone else? I see Green has disappeared off the scene again??!! Green are you there???
SJ
we need some more bfp oh and i need a bump buddie x
Sorry Katherine, I left you off my message. How you doing? (to quote Joey Tribbiani)we need some more bfp oh and i need a bump buddie x
I sure hope so Kelly ....wishing lots of BFPs so we can all join you
Sorry Katherine, I left you off my message. How you doing? (to quote Joey Tribbiani)we need some more bfp oh and i need a bump buddie x
I sure hope so Kelly ....wishing lots of BFPs so we can all join you
Here I am Sara! Im sorry for having gone AWOL. Im so up and down about the whole baby thing, I kind of got fed up with thinking about "Am I, arent I"? It seems we BD'd at the right time this month but I didnt get a positive OPK (only used the cheapy sticks which have never really given me a positive.) And then my CM seems to have been all over the place each day so no helpful signs there. Had a really short cycle last month so not really sure what to expect this month. Too many variables! Dont feel pregnant in any way really except an odd pain in my right hip and side for about 30 mins yesterday morning. I wondered if that might be a sign of implantation but boobs not tender AT ALL despite me pressing them quite hard to check!
And work has been quite stressful recently, we are buying a new house so although I think that has actually been pretty smooth, it is still on my mind a lot. I probably drink wine too often (I did last night for instance despite my plans that I would stick to soft drinks) which makes me wonder about my dedication to the project. It will be about #12 of TTC for us too after this month which seems a long long time. Is a baby something I just have to accept might not happen? OH going for a sperm test next week (convuluted process and he is worried about having to get 'it' in a pot to a time and then drive the sample 40 mins to the hospital all within an hour!) and then I guess, if he passes, its back to me and maybe looking at my tubes.
Sorry, Ive opened the flood gates! Sara, any news on the ? Kelly, how are you feeling? Viccat, still relaxed?
Apols again. I will try to keep more in touch. I have been lurking but not joining in. Which is bad. sorry.
xxxx
Here I am Sara! Im sorry for having gone AWOL. Im so up and down about the whole baby thing, I kind of got fed up with thinking about "Am I, arent I"? It seems we BD'd at the right time this month but I didnt get a positive OPK (only used the cheapy sticks which have never really given me a positive.) And then my CM seems to have been all over the place each day so no helpful signs there. Had a really short cycle last month so not really sure what to expect this month. Too many variables! Dont feel pregnant in any way really except an odd pain in my right hip and side for about 30 mins yesterday morning. I wondered if that might be a sign of implantation but boobs not tender AT ALL despite me pressing them quite hard to check!
And work has been quite stressful recently, we are buying a new house so although I think that has actually been pretty smooth, it is still on my mind a lot. I probably drink wine too often (I did last night for instance despite my plans that I would stick to soft drinks) which makes me wonder about my dedication to the project. It will be about #12 of TTC for us too after this month which seems a long long time. Is a baby something I just have to accept might not happen? OH going for a sperm test next week (convuluted process and he is worried about having to get 'it' in a pot to a time and then drive the sample 40 mins to the hospital all within an hour!) and then I guess, if he passes, its back to me and maybe looking at my tubes.
Sorry, Ive opened the flood gates! Sara, any news on the ? Kelly, how are you feeling? Viccat, still relaxed?
Apols again. I will try to keep more in touch. I have been lurking but not joining in. Which is bad. sorry.
xxxx
Don't worry about joining in! I have spells when I am in the mood, and others when I just feel a bitAnd work has been quite stressful recently, we are buying a new house so although I think that has actually been pretty smooth, it is still on my mind a lot. I probably drink wine too often (I did last night for instance despite my plans that I would stick to soft drinks) which makes me wonder about my dedication to the project. It will be about #12 of TTC for us too after this month which seems a long long time. Is a baby something I just have to accept might not happen? OH going for a sperm test next week (convuluted process and he is worried about having to get 'it' in a pot to a time and then drive the sample 40 mins to the hospital all within an hour!) and then I guess, if he passes, its back to me and maybe looking at my tubes.
Sorry, Ive opened the flood gates! Sara, any news on the ? Kelly, how are you feeling? Viccat, still relaxed?
Apols again. I will try to keep more in touch. I have been lurking but not joining in. Which is bad. sorry.
xxxx
Oooo I am in the exact same position. I reckon there have only realistically been 2 or maybe 3, months when we've actually DTD anywhere near the right time. So I am giving it another 3 months and a lot of determination, CoQ10, fruity tea bags, mooncup, pestering and fail-safe lingerie.Good like with OH test. We haven't gone for any tests yet, and haven't even discussed it as I think the Dr would say we need to have a good 6 months of proper trying (we've only had 3 I would say). If we have no joy in a few months I think that will be the next step for me and I will see what the doc says.
Awwww, you guys. thank you. Katherine I think I am CD21 today and I am lucky in that I have a pretty short cycle so at least I will know pretty soon either way. As I say, no symptoms so I wont be very surprised if/when AF turns up. Sara, I am so sorry to hear of your experience. Do you think your OH was surprised by how upset you were? I just think getting the timing right is so tricky. As I said, so many variables - they say day 1 of period is full flow but that is quite hard to judge sometimes I find, and then knowing when ovulation is happening. If you dont use sticks that often, you could miss the surge, counting 14 days back from last period to see when ovulation might have occurred last month and hoping you hit the right time this month.
And the drinking thing, a bit of me feels if it is meant to be, it will happen whatever and what difference can a little bit of alcohol make? But then you read other posts about women giving up alcohol (and lots of other things that are vaguely fun it seems) and then recommending that as a route to pregnancy. A friend of mine stopped drinking and ate more healthily and lost loads of weight and has gone on to have twins (albeit by IVF) so she was really motivated to the cause. I ate about 7 Hobnobs and the OH and me shared a big packet of Cheesey Balls - that was our breakfast today. Not exactly healthy eating is it!!
Sara, I had a bloodtest last December and then a 'probe' about 5 months and both of those suggest I am ovulating but that doesnt necessarily mean the egg is getting through does it? The GP suggested the next thing for me is to check my tubes which I hear might not be a very pleasant experience. My OH will be 50 next year. He has had children before so his 'men' were working once upon a time but 18 years on... is everything working as it should? For him and then for me?!
Well done for your philosophical attitude Sara. Are you really ok with there being no chance for BDing next month? How open do you think your OH would be to go for tests?
Thanks again girls. Your messages touched me.
Awwww, you guys. thank you. Katherine I think I am CD21 today and I am lucky in that I have a pretty short cycle so at least I will know pretty soon either way. As I say, no symptoms so I wont be very surprised if/when AF turns up.
And the drinking thing, a bit of me feels if it is meant to be, it will happen whatever and what difference can a little bit of alcohol make? But then you read other posts about women giving up alcohol (and lots of other things that are vaguely fun it seems) and then recommending that as a route to pregnancy. A friend of mine stopped drinking and ate more healthily and lost loads of weight and has gone on to have twins (albeit by IVF) so she was really motivated to the cause. I ate about 7 Hobnobs and the OH and me shared a big packet of Cheesey Balls - that was our breakfast today. Not exactly healthy eating is it!!