greenjelly
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I have been to FF yes, because I wanted a chart at the bottom of my profile! But I couldnt get it work very well. I might have another go now...
I have been to FF yes, because I wanted a chart at the bottom of my profile! But I couldnt get it work very well. I might have another go now...
Hi Juniper!Nice to have another friendly face around the place - and so lovely of you to give us a bit of background. I feel like I know you already!
I am at CD6 and should ovulate in about a week. I've been a bit "meh" about TTC for the last week or so. I'm not quite sure why - although I've got a lot on with trying to pack up and move house. I've also been looking at wedding dresses and am quite attracted to a couple that wouldn't be able to fit a baby bump into them! (although I'd quite happily sell them on and buy something new if I do get pregnant!)
I guess I'm just becoming more aware this might not happen naturally for me![]()
You are SO right about this. Thank you for putting it so eloquently! Part of the reason for faffing about buying a house is that I am toying with the "why buy a 4 bedroom house just in case we manage to have a family?" dilemma! I have eventually come around to the idea of buying a 3 bed doer-upper and making that my project for the next year or so. If it so happens I fall pregnant, then greatIve become a big believer in not putting anything off 'just incase' I fall pregnant. Bcos then you are allowing it to rule ur life & that's misery making. My friend put off studying midwifery for 2 yrs while doing IVF, then decided to just go ahead and do it, & got pregnant WHILE doing the post grad mid course. I've let that be a lesson to me. I was tossing up my holiday in November thinking 'hmmm what if I'm pregnant by then?? How will I feel etc..' but again I've decided that if it happens I'll be Sooooooo happy that I'll just put up with anything! I'm also applying to go back to Uni again next year, & I figure if I get my BFP I'll just make it work. I'm just really trying to avoid putting my life on hold. So I say buy your favourite dress!!! Enjoy the process, & if u end up pregnant u will no longer care about the dress! ; )
Katherine - really hoping you get a nice birthday present!! Are you managing to avoid the worst of symptom spotting?
Greenjelly and Janey, sorry the witch arrived.![]()
Viccat and Juniper - I agree about not making decisions based on the possibility of getting pregnant at some point down the line. It's really easy to lose perspective - because of all this talk of being 'too old' yada yada I sometime find I think of myself as if I were an actual geriatric, which at 39 is just ridiculous.Viccat, your doer-upper plan sounds fun - my DH and I have just spent a good part of the last year doing the same thing
It's been a tiring journey but the house is starting to look the way we want it to, finally
As for me, day CD15 today and I notice EWCM this morning. Will do an opk this afternoon. Ov usually happens on day 16 and FF has predicted tomorrow for ov, so we will see. TBH I feel 'meh' about the whole thing this month - I think I've been listening to so much doom-mongering about older mothers (the British press seems to be full of it at the moment) that it's kinda putting me off. I know I shouldn't pay any attention to stupid sensationalist journalism but sometimes it's hard not to.Do any of you ladies ever feel like this?
Arrrrrggggg... I'm do frustrated right now!!!! I've used OPKS before & they always showed up 2 distinct lines one day then nothing the next- no confusion- it was very obvious. But right now I feel so confused about whether I've already ovulated or not.
I'm using the same OPKS (that I tried 2 yrs ago), but this time it's doing my head in. I used 2 on Tuesday & although the 2nd line wasnt very strong, there was a line there- twice. I've done it since & have gotten much lighter lines. But I'm starting to think they are all just evap lines!!! I used to ALWAYS get the 2nd line on 13dpo. This time it was only 11dpo.... And I only just got EWCM yesterday at 12dpo. And today so far it seems to be gone again. My last AF was also weird. Came 2 days early, was shorter than normal, & started with some CM & spotting that Ive never had before- ever...
I feel like crying today. I'm feeling like my body has suddenly turned on me when I've always been straightforward as far as AF is concerned. Last night I was feeling positive, but today I feel like I don't know what the feck I'm doing!!! It's at a time like this that I feel really bitter about not being able to BD for days like some couples do- at least then it wouldn't feel like we were gonna just miss the boat completely! We did AI on tues nite after I 'thought' we had positive OPKS... But I'm doubting that now. We might try again tonite.
I haven't seen a doctor at any point bcos I wanted to try for a little while. But It all feels like speculation & guessing & I'm feeling like I should just go get everything checked out rather than keep wasting time...
Now I have to go to work and try to concentrate : (