Juniperjules
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Same problem here, although not as severe. At least half the time, he doesn't finish, and when he does, it takes 30+ minutes, and that's if he doesn't get a sex headache and have to stop. He has no trouble finishing on his own, which makes me wonder if it's me, even though in my head I know it's not. We're going to IUI next month, but as far as trying at home, I now keep cups and a few 10ml oral syringes around, just in case. He was a little uncomfortable with it at first, but now, no big deal. We can have fun together, and if he needs to finish on his own, he can and I won't be insulted, and his guys get where they need to be one way or another. LOL. Not very romantic, but you've gotta do what you've gotta do.
Wow, Siensasmama, our stories are so similar, except my DH has never finished during sex. He's FINALLY seeing a specialist about it, but in the meantime, we're doing IUI.
Best of luck to you!!!
Well I'm right there with you both girls. My OH isn't able to finish during actual 'intercourse'. He IS able to finish afterwards with a little help from me & helping himself (IYKWIM)... In all the years we've been together we used the 'pull out' method, & it's like now his brain/body is stuck & it's difficult to reverse it.
So for now were doing our own AI. But I'm going to see my Dr this week to start getting some testing done, & I'm going to bring this 'issue' up with her. Bcos im wondering if maybe IUI would be an option for us too??? But I don't know if his particular issue would be enough for us to be considered for IUI? And although he is happy to have all the initial testing done, I dunno how comfortable he'd be with the idea of actually talking about his 'problem'...
Can I ask wot kind of specialist ur DH is seeing?
Good luck with the IUI... Would love to hear from you wot the process is like...