OH performance anxiety - 6 BFPs so far!!!!

[SaraJewel]

lol green agreed boredom lol piap it is.
Yeah heres my website www.cannychicken.co.uk i have well over 100 hens i love my job hard work but was born to work outside.

afm day 4 so usually ov day 11 so happens ov takes place beddind went so well and i never got temp rise bloody typical im trying not to stress but everytime i think about it i feel sick wat a bloody nite mare

I am day 4 too Kelly, but don't ovulate (I think!) til later in the month. Hopefully will know more this month when I PIAP

I am sitting thinking about it, but this should be the least stressful time shouldn't it??? Don't have to worry about DTD at the moment, about OPKs or about being in the wait and worrying whether we've done enough!!!

 

[kelly1973]

yeah it should be but its all i do is think about it, am pleased your guna do opks this month that way you have the best poss chance things have been good this end bedding wise just pray it carries on ive bought some concieve plus too to give the swimmers an easy ride lol how are you lovely ladies

 

[greenjelly]

yeah it should be but its all i do is think about it, am pleased your guna do opks this month that way you have the best poss chance things have been good this end bedding wise just pray it carries on ive bought some concieve plus too to give the swimmers an easy ride lol how are you lovely ladies

What is Conceive Plus then? Is it a tablet? Does it have to be prescribed by a GP?
Do you ladies do the hips raising thing after BDing? Do you think it makes a difference?
Im very well thank you. Got the week off work and it's lovely!

 

[HPMINI]

I always made sure I stayed laying down after sex for at least 20 minutes - usually just with my knees raised.
Isn't conceive plus just a lubricant?

 

[HPMINI]

Just googled it - it's a fertility lubricant - sperm friendly - can get it though amazon - maybe at the chemist too. Bit like preseed.

Definitely worth a go!

 

[kelly1973]

yep used preseed in past but been told concieve is better so im armed and ready i just make sure i dont get out of bed for a while think if i started putting legs in air oh would get a tad stressed lol how are you all today

 

[SaraJewel]

yep used preseed in past but been told concieve is better so im armed and ready i just make sure i dont get out of bed for a while think if i started putting legs in air oh would get a tad stressed lol how are you all today

Hi Kelly,

I'm fine, much the same as yesterday, not much going on!

I think it's fine just to stay lying down for a bit after DTD. Like HPMINI 20 mins or so is OK. I just put my knees up too, not much comes out that way.

Last month was best yet. Only one DTD without finishing. That is a record! I really hope things stay that way.............. I don't want to get my hopes up, but it does look like things are going in the right direction, but we shall see.

 

[viccat]

Loving PIAP!. I tried it, but it was even worse when that went wrong than when POAS goes wrong

I think it's fine just to stay lying down for a bit after DTD. Like HPMINI 20 mins or so is OK. I just put my knees up too, not much comes out that way.

Last month was best yet. Only one DTD without finishing. That is a record! I really hope things stay that way.............. I don't want to get my hopes up, but it does look like things are going in the right direction, but we shall see.

Really pleased to hear things are picking up - I'll be keeping my fingers crossed for you. I really think using the OPKs will help. I am so much more relaxed during the rest of the month when I know I don't have to stress about TTC. I think my mood helps my OH chill out too.

Oh I just do the knees up thing too - I think if I stuck my feet up on the end of the bed that would just be too much TTC for him!

 

[kelly1973]

so glad sara things are improving me too hun hopefully this is our month xxx

hi viccat how are you

ok ladies when you say you put your knees up are your feet on bed as i think oh would freak if i put them above my head lol

 

[SaraJewel]

so glad sara things are improving me too hun hopefully this is our month xxx

hi viccat how are you

ok ladies when you say you put your knees up are your feet on bed as i think oh would freak if i put them above my head lol

Thanks Kelly,

yes, feet on bed!!!!

 

[kelly1973]

i had visions with me with legs in air and oh complaining he had no covers lol

 

[SaraJewel]

i had visions with me with legs in air and oh complaining he had no covers lol

Although, I have to admit I have done it when OH has left the room! Just the once tho, and don't honestly think there is any benefit in it.

How's things going? We are CD 8 now aren't we?

I'm having quite a nice weekend, very relaxing and things going well, although aaaaaaages til I ovulate.

 

[kelly1973]

yep same here im starting to get nervous as starting to get colour on opk are you doing them now? if so which ones are you using get yourself a signature like mine so i can see where your at. no viagra this month so down to luck i guess

 

[SaraJewel]

yep same here im starting to get nervous as starting to get colour on opk are you doing them now? if so which ones are you using get yourself a signature like mine so i can see where your at. no viagra this month so down to luck i guess

Yes, I started using them CD6, have Boots own brand, how bout you?

don't know how to do the signature, will have a look.........

 

[kelly1973]

use cheapies from internet till i get colour then boots own make not long now very nervous cant wait till the tww lol

go to ticker factory make your ticker up then copy the bb code go to your user cp up top scroll down to signature and paste bb code in to there and wala xxxx

 

[SaraJewel]

Do you stop doing them when you get a positive result, or do them all through your cycle?

Good luck!

 

[kelly1973]

i stop ok so just got a positive today tryed to dtd and failed totally upset will try again tonight how can we ever have a baby if we cant do it all the way

 

[SaraJewel]

i stop ok so just got a positive today tryed to dtd and failed totally upset will try again tonight how can we ever have a baby if we cant do it all the way

Oh I'm really sorry, I always find that so soul destroying. But you still have tonight and probably tomorrow too so don't give up hope.



How is OH?

 

[kelly1973]

hes really bad hates letting me down and gone all depressed how the hell am i guna get him in the mood now hes confidence is knocked ive stopped going on another thread i post on cause gets me so down when they dtd loads and are saying not sure its enough,hows your opk doing any signs?

 

[viccat]

Sorry to hear that Kelly ((HUGS)) Fingers crossed over the next couple of days......

CD6 for me, and just started this cycle of POAS.