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[OPEN] 1st child due late July/August 2011

Never heard of either slapped cheek disease or Fifth's disease, but when I googled it, it came up as parvovirus,which I only thought dogs got.... weird. Sounds scary though!!! Glad you and little one are safe for now. Speaking of time flying, it's hard to believe you're already at 19 weeks, MissSazra!!
 
I don't know of slapped cheek/fifths disease either, but it certainly isn't anything like parvo from what I googled... Not sure where the parvo came form for you sideways, it's not mentioned in any of my google searches I did! lol!

But anyway, I hope you come back with an immunity to it!!! Would suck to stay off for too long, though hopefully they'll let you back soon even so...?


And yes! Miss Sazra, you're nearly half way already!!!! woooot!
 
Yeah it's parvovirus B19 apparently, not that it really means anything to me. Hopefully I'll get the results back today and be back in work tomorrow!

I can't quite believe I'm almost at the halfway point, time feels like it's dragged by, yet looking back, where has the time gone? I keep thinking the next bit will go slowly though, but will probably be the same and fly by!

Look at you two though, 25/26 weeks, you're nearly in the home stretch! :happydance:
 
lol, yeah I find that each day/week that is upcoming seems to take forever, but looking back, where on earth have the last 20+ weeks gone!? And each time it clocks over to another 'week', it seems rather shocking I'm this far along already! lol. Only a couple more weeks until third tri... now THAT is scary! lol!!!
 
Scary but exciting! I can't wait for third tri (but I may revise that statement when I'm nearer the time! lol)
 
Gutted! Just got back from the consultant and she has confirmed that I won't be able to have a water birth due to high bmi! I so had my heart set on that. They've said each room has a bath and I can labour in that, but it's just not what I wanted. I absolutely refuse to have this baby laying flat out on a bed with my legs waving in the air! lol
 
Gutted! Just got back from the consultant and she has confirmed that I won't be able to have a water birth due to high bmi! I so had my heart set on that. They've said each room has a bath and I can labour in that, but it's just not what I wanted. I absolutely refuse to have this baby laying flat out on a bed with my legs waving in the air! lol

Insist on having an active labor. Just because you can't deliver in water doesn't mean that you have to be on your back in bed. Many women deliver on hands and knees, or squatting or even almost standing up. Be firm about what you want! :hugs:
 
What is the reason for the high BMI=no water birth? I don't really get that either....
 
I have no idea about why high bmi means no waterbirth. Others have suggested it's to do with getting out if there's complications or that pools have a weight limit. Grrrrr, so annoying. I shall definitely mention wanting an active labour.

The consultant even booked for me to see the anesthetist in case I need an epidural or caesarean. Talk about thinking the worst. I have no desire to have an epidural as I'm terrified of them, but of course that may change when I'm in agony!

I just feel like I'm being written off just for being overweight, I haven't even put on weight since my bfp having been so sick, and have totally changed my eating habits now, but still I'm penalised!

Sorry rant over! lol
 
omg MissSazra, that's crappy!!!! It can't be a weight limit (you're allowed to labour in there, birth isn't gonna weigh the tub any more!!) and BMI doesn't really change if you can get out quickly or not...!? wtf? I'm so sorry hun.... :( Now I'm worried what they'll say to me! I'm (really really) overweight and was hoping for the option of a water birth (not decided on it, I want my options open, and if I feel like getting out then so be it!) so not sure if they'll get on me about my BMI.... though they haven't weighed me at all so I guess they can't really??? But yes, for sure don't let them force you into an inactive labour! You KNOW that laying on your back isn't good, so don't let them do it to you! Move around, walk, crouch, kneel; go with the flow and do what feels best. :hugs:
 
You might be ok flying as apparently certain hospitals over here are fine with it, just depends who/where you get. My midwife is going to phone me Friday, so I shall be asking her if that's really it, and what my options are.

So annoying to have an idea in your head and then be denied it!
 
Blah....another tire (the 3rd now) has a bubble on the sidewall...at 5500 kms. I need this new car with tires on it! The car seat does not fit in our other car. DH will be going to the dealership to complain tomorrow. I want all of the tires changed because I don't trust them anymore...
 
rducky oh my goodness!! I would be raising hell! What kind of car is it again?

As far as the water birth, I'm so sorry MissSazra. I don't see why BMI would be a factor, that sounds silly. What if you were slim, but heavy because you had a bunch of muscle (from weight-lifting and stuff)? That's why I think BMI is a bunch of hokey anyway, regardless of the context. I would look into this some more and if you really can't do a water birth with this place, can you shop around? This is your birth experience, after all!

I feel like the lone person in the thread when I say I don't mind being on my back and drugged up with epidurals. I actually prefer it! Well who's to say at this point, this is my first kid after all, it's not like I've done childbirth enough to even develop preferences :haha:
But I am a big fat weenie when it comes to pain and will be requesting an epidural, but only close to the point where I would be too far into labor to have one. I would hate for it to run out before she crowns. Although... everyone says that birth plans are great to have but to not have anything set in stone because you don't really know what's going to happen during labor and childbirth until it happens anyway. So I'm trying to prepare myself for all possibilities -- epidural or not, vaginal or Cesarean, etc.
 
It's a Kia Soul. We love everything about the car except these tires. DH went to the dealer and they refuse to do anything for us. Looks like we will be buying 4 new tires and never going back to that dealership again....
 
There's nothing wrong with wanting an epidural Sideways. Like you say, having never gone through it, none of us know what the pain is going to be like. I'm just afraid of the actual procedure, not cos I want a natural childbirth experience. That's why I thought the water would be good, to really help ease off the pain a bit.

I have a referral to see the anaesthatist (again cos of bmi apparently) in case I want an epidural or in case of a caesarean, so that might put my mind more at ease, but I really doubt it, as they're still going to say it's done with a needle! lol
 
MissSazra, the procedure does sound scary to me. I just have been trying to imagine myself agonizing over awful pain of contractions and labor and not caring what they do to knock it out lol. It might be different, who knows? My hospital also offers water births if we desire. I had thought about it, but, not many people around here opt for water births so I don't have many people to talk to about it (except you guys!) But it does make sense that it would be a natural pain reliever. I mean, we use water therapy for sprained ankles, and if your back aches or something else, a nice bath always seems to do the trick. What temperature is the water in the birthing tub?

As a first time mom, I'm probably just going through this experience scared to death, know what I mean? I know that once I go through it, when we have more kids I'll have a better understanding of what's going on and may opt for something more natural and less narcotic LOL.

Either way good luck with your referral. Please keep us posted. :hugs:


rducky those Kia Soul's are sooo cute! I love those things. I know in America we have the Better Business Bureau; does Canada have anything like that? I'm one of those people who would take this to the top because this seems like a warranty issue. It's not like you're taking the car and driving it like you stole it (are you? :haha:), so with you guys having this many tires fail and this often, it sounds like a manufacturing defect. Do you know what brand the tires are?


As for me, DH and I are struggling to find a leather sofa we both like. Sometimes we run across some he likes and I don't, or vice versa, but mostly it's that the selection around here sucks. Or we find one that we like and the warranty sucks, or it has a good warranty but they want an arm and a leg for it. Ugh.... we'll continue to look I suppose. Other than that, not much going on at the moment. Pregnancy is going easily and I'm growing like a weed. :)
 
lol sideways, that's why I'm LOVING the hypnobirthing stuff; it gives me all the info I'm needing about HOW birth WORKS, without telling me how much it's gonna hurt! lol! I'm a "why/how" person, and in this case I want to know exactly what is going on in my body, what are contractions!? How do they work? How does it all happen??? If I can find out the whys & hows then I feel a whole lot more in control, allowing my body to do what it's blimmin well built to do! Face it, all creatures primary goal in 'life' is to procreate and make more of the same creatures. We're BUILT to reproduce and give birth, and it's not really supposed to be a horrible thing... I've been studying the whys and hows of it all and loving finding it all out. I'm actually looking *forward* to the birth to be able to go through that experience...! Yeah, it'll hurt somewhat or at least be uncomfortable, but our bodies are incredible at coping with the pain themselves if you let them, and our bodies won't do what we can't cope with. Or at least i have faith that my body won't hurt me more than I can cope anyway! So I intend to cope, to breath, and to let the contractions come when they will, and take the break they give me in between to rest, and when it comes to the actual birth, it'll happen whether I want it to or not, so I'll let my body do it's thing there to. And afterwards, I can't WAIT to meet my baby at last!!!

lol.
 
Flying, I can't wait to meet my little girl, too! I can't wait to hold her. :) I can't believe how quickly it's all coming up! Of course, it's coming up reallllyyyy soon for our 3rd tri friends! :) I love your avatar by the way, you look amazing!

Well lots of things going on around this house, and I need to get back to work. Just had to take a quick break :) I've been painting and working in the yard (it's 96 degrees out here, holy cow!) and now I'm about to do some electrical work since it's indoors!

Much love to everyone!
 
Hi all! Glad to find you all still here and doing well. Sorry I haven't been on it ages I was working 40 hour weeks and wasn't able to do anything else due to tiredness! I'm now on my maternity leave wahhhhhoo!!!

Our little boy is doing well I'm so excited to meet him. We had a bit of worry a while back as they thought he was measuring small but he has caught up now and is now measuring average so they are no longer concerned.

I may have to have a c section - they are going to decide when I'm 37 weeks (I'm a little bit scared about this!!) apart from that all is well (apart from the normal back ache etc) and I love being pregnant!

How's everyone feeling? I am pretty useless at the moment and don't want to do anything especially as the weather has been so hot! I've managed to dodge stretch marks so far but as I still have 4 weeks to go I'm guessing they will still come as I know my mum suffered badly with them!

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Sideways, the tires are called Nexen. Apparently they have a reputation for being crap. The dealership has said that they will not do anything for us, so we will be getting 4 new tires ourselves. I need to be able to rely on this car right now, since the car seat doesn't fit in our other car...

Turtle! Glad you're doing well! Why might you have to have a c-section?

I'm also dreading the stretchmarks...none so far, but they can arrive up till the last minute, so I've heard...
 

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