MizzDeeDee
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I don't think any of us here judging the Duggars would judge a woman for taking risks to have her first child, or even her 2nd or 3rd. But when you have 19 already, you have a lot of responsibility to those 19 kids and taking unneccessary risks IS selfish. (driving a car is an unavoidable reality, so is eating food that could potentially be contaminated etc)
I think I would understand if people said it was socially irresponsible because of the population being so blown up....but saying that because she had a premie last time or preeclampsia- which I am pretty sure that you can't say 100% she'll have again, just like you can't say people who had GD will have it again.....it's just not something I would hold against her.
I would have more of a problem with her using those kids just for religion sake or the carbon footprint that family is leaving.. not because she has health issues that might kill her or the baby- that could have been any one of us.