Over 30 & still trying for baby #1

[flou]

Sorry the witch arrived highhopes at least you get start ivf soon! Good luck!

 

[Buttrflyl553]

Happy Halloween ladies! And happy scan day itsawonder! Look forward to hearing from you.

Sorry about AF highhopes but glad IVF is around the corner.
Next month needs to be our thanksgiving month full of BFPs!

Nothing new over here. Have just started BDing. Looking forward to the weekend!

 

[flou]

Buttrfly our cycles must be in sync. Me and my DH are bd'ing as i can tell its nearly that time. Let's hope we both catch the egg in the next few days!

Wonder good luck for your scan. I hope it goes well and you get a good look at your little one.

 

[Buttrflyl553]

Yes I hope so too flou!! I am CD 13 today.. What about you?

 

[ItsAWonder]

Hey ladies - just jumping on here real quick before I get to work.

HH - sorry witch arrived. And on Halloween of all days... ahhh, the irony... Hope IVF works this next time around.

My appointment went well this morning. I am 9+1, EDD still 6/4/14. Good heartbeat and little bean was moving all around! Will try to post a scan later today or this weekend when I have some time.

 

[MrsDuck]

Yay for being cycle buddies flou and buttrfly

HH I'm so sorry the witch got you, your symptoms were great

Itsawonder I'm so pleased for you and I can't wait to see your scan pic

 

[flou]

Buttrfly im on cd 13 too! Hopefully its lucky for both of us.

Wonder im glad your scan went well. Can't wait to see your scan pic.

 

[MellyH]

Hooray for good scan results!! I am excited to see a pic too. And thanks for the extra info - my employer's HR handbook is so bloody complicated. Sigh. It's also complicated because my husband and I have the same employer, so the FMLA gets split between us.

How cool that you guys are synchronised - come on BFPs in a couple of weeks!!!

 

[highhopes2013]

Scan sounds great itsawonder! Can't wait to see a pic.

Hope you both catch the egg this month flou and buttrfly!

 

[Buttrflyl553]

Hi ladies...been quiet in here. I hope everyone is well.

Any news/ scans for anyone?

I'm having a tough month. DH and I are psychologically having difficult time with BD and it hasn't happened as planned. Only CD 12 and 15 and maybe 19 if it works tomorrow. I'm almost certain it's not going to cut it for a BFP this month. My due date was dec 7 so this is the last chance I have to be pregnant around then.

 

[MrsDuck]

Buttrfly I'm so sorry ttcing is so stressful. Don't forget it only takes one spermy so you aren't out xx

 

[flou]

Buttrfly that doesn't mean you are out. The month i got a bfp we only managed to dtd three times that month as we both so busy. You just never know. Ttc can be so stressful. Ive worked out then when AF is due is near the anniversary of my mc so really not looking forward to AF this month if it shows. Just hope it doesn't!

 

[MrsDuck]

Aw ladies I'm so sorry you are all going through such a tough time of things at the moment I hope you get some good luck soon xxx

Did anyone have a nice Halloween party or go to any fireworks displays?

 

[highhopes2013]

Buttrfly I'm so sorry u r going through a tough time. The run up to the due date is really hard. And dtd with the pressure of TTC can be hard hard work! It only takes one time tho...u never know!

How are the rest of u ladies doing? How are the bumps?

I'm counting down the days to ivf now. Got to tell my boss and its a new job so she has no idea about any of my history!

 

[MrsDuck]

You need a ticker for the countdown HH

That's going to be tough for you telling your boss, do you need to or can you just book time off without saying what for?

my bump is coming along nicely thanks, I don't have many clothes that I can get into now

 

[flou]

Exciting times Mrs Duck! So happy for you that your little one is doing well.

Good luck with the IVF highhopes. When will you be starting?

I'm in the tww. Work is keeping me busy so mind is constantly thinking about babies! I got a letter from GP saying he had referred me and to make an appointment with the fertility clinic. So when i get 5 minutes during the day to phone them I should hopefully have an appointment date with the specialist. Hopefully i will have a bfp by then but i do feel its a step forward.

How's everyone else doing?

 

[highhopes2013]

I can't book time off as I'm a teacher so we don't get any additional leave without a good reason! So will have to bite the bullet and have a chat next week. I start ivf as soon as I get my next period - should be first couple of days in December!

FC for a bfp for you this month flou!

Mrs duck that is SO exciting! Have u bought any maternity clothes yet? Or have u got a bump band or those waist extender thingies?

 

[MrsDuck]

Flou and highhopes it sounds like its all systems go for both of you yay you will both have a bump before you know it

HH I hope your chat goes ok

I've bought a few bits of maternity clothes but I've still got a few work dresses that I can get in, I just need to wear a cardigan over them to disguise my bump

 

[Buttrflyl553]

Thanks girls...wish it was easier for us all. Hopefully the BD we did was enough. I am on CD 20... Same as flou I believe and also in TWW! Glad to have a buddy in it flou! Let's both get thanksgiving BFPs!

Good luck with the talk highhopes. And yay for IVF soon!

Mrsduck when will you tell your job? I can't wait to buy maternity clothes myself!

Itsawonder how are you doing?

Hope all is well Melly!

 

[MrsDuck]

I told work last week buttrfly but we haven't told many other friends/people yet