I have been extremely tired, so I have not been on here as frequently as I would like. But welcome to the new members and that is great news rebaby!
Loraloo - do you have an EDD yet?
so, today, i took dinner to a friend of mine who just had her baby. i truly am happy for them - to be honest, it was really hard back in January when i had to go to baby shower b/c there was a lady there who had a similar due date to ours and she was showing off a gorgeous bump while we were reaching about rock-bottom of our mourning period, but that was months ago, and now i really am happy for them. i spent over an hour last night planning today's dinner and looking forward to bringing it to them today.
anyway, after i brought their food into their kitchen, my friend completely surprised me by asking if i wanted to hold her baby. now, two other friends who've had babies recently have never offered this to me, so i was caught off guard - i completely fumbled and turned her down - i was just like, i, i can't. i feel like an IDIOT. even though we're about six weeks away from what would have been our due date for Vincent Gianna, i feel like i should be really happy because we've been given another child, but for some reason i flaked out and just couldn't handle holding their newborn, then i felt like i needed to get out of there as fast as i could.
how have you guys been around newborns? i feel like an idiot.
so, today, i took dinner to a friend of mine who just had her baby. i truly am happy for them - to be honest, it was really hard back in January when i had to go to baby shower b/c there was a lady there who had a similar due date to ours and she was showing off a gorgeous bump while we were reaching about rock-bottom of our mourning period, but that was months ago, and now i really am happy for them. i spent over an hour last night planning today's dinner and looking forward to bringing it to them today.
anyway, after i brought their food into their kitchen, my friend completely surprised me by asking if i wanted to hold her baby. now, two other friends who've had babies recently have never offered this to me, so i was caught off guard - i completely fumbled and turned her down - i was just like, i, i can't. i feel like an IDIOT. even though we're about six weeks away from what would have been our due date for Vincent Gianna, i feel like i should be really happy because we've been given another child, but for some reason i flaked out and just couldn't handle holding their newborn, then i felt like i needed to get out of there as fast as i could.
how have you guys been around newborns? i feel like an idiot.
Rebaby: do you mind me asking, how much did your private scan cost you?
We are looking into having one done before our next NHS scan, but have no idea of the cost. Thankyou
xx
Not at all. There are loads of places near us but there wasn't much range with the prices really, between about £90 and £100 so we went with baby premier in the end, which was £99 (which includes a £30 non-returnable booking fee and then you pay the rest on the day) I know you can get them cheaper in other parts of the country though as when i was pregnant with Toby i remember ladies on here talking about private scans they'd had elsewhere costing £50/£60. Hope that helps