*** Positive Mental Attitude TTC - Anyone joining us? ***

[lilesMom]

hi guys xx
smiler when its such a small difference, no reason why it should come against u surely, best of luck in persuading mw xxx
simon doesnt sleep 8 hrs every nt but does a few nts a week so i get a good break
great boy

we had hosp app yest, they reckon he has heart flow murmur now too, could be innocent meaning harmless but they wanna check it out.
as if he hasnt enough coming against him but anyway, fx its one of the harmless ones xx

hi amy how u doin hon? xxxxxx

hi and hugs to all xxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

Hi girls!!!

Hi Laura :wave: Im so sorry to hear about Simon's murmur but Impraying for you both and hope that its realy nothing. I dont know too much about it but I believe that you have your angel watching over you guys!

Disco, your walk sounds like it was amazing! Did you ever take any pics?

withlove, how are you doing babe?

Smiler, whats happening with you? Any word on your iron and if you are good to go?

:wave: to everyone!

AFM~ I started to have the slightest tinger after my temp drop yesterday but FF isnt ready to call it CD1 just yet. Im thinking that the spotting will become heavier this afternoon... hopefully. When it does get hevier, then I will change it to spotting and then maybe it will show as CD1.

 

[DiscoRia]

Hello Ladies

Just a little update from me. I decided not to take the camera (also a DSLR that was a present from the in-laws and I love it!) but I took a few pics on my phone. We found several patches of fragole di bosco - forest strawberries - that delayed our trip for over an hour and ended up with us getting a little greedy and both getting stung by the same wasp! The strawberries were so yummy though and the walk was taxing but relaxing and made us feel great

LilesMom, I really hope Simon is ok and that his murmur is harmless. You three are in my heart xx Also, it's totally ok to ask We'd planned on starting ttc straight away. Or rather, ttc in the relaxed way we were before the mc, but it turns out that dh is going to be in Germany during my likely fertile period, so this month is a no go. It makes me feel sad that we're missing out on a month. Especially when so many people conceive soon after a mc... BUT it's ok. It just means I have another month to focus on me and be stress free and not counting days and stuff. Good prep for going back to relaxed ttc

Withlovemom, Holiday is really relaxed so far, our friend is over at the moment and we went to the most beautiful lake today. I want to go back asap with my bathing suit so I can jump in. Today I waded in as far as my shorts would let me and it felt so good

Smiler I really hope your mw is on board. With such a small difference, I agree with your GP. Stand up for what you want

MommyLov, I hope AF is in full swing for you soon xx

I hope you ladies are looking forward to a wonderful weekend, Take Care xx

 

[mommylov]

Awww so sorry to hear about the wasps but Im sure they were worth it for the strawberries!

AF arrived this afternoon in full effect!!!! Offically trying to conceive my miracle!!!!

 

[DiscoRia]

Here are what little pics I took in our walk last weekend, they basically tell the story if excited to find a few strawberries, uber excited to find more, then the mission that became my husband clambering up the side of the mountain to get more. So much fun

The other picture I took today at the lake we visited. I'm so excited to have found a closer alternative to the sea side

xx

 

[lilesMom]

hi guys xxx

disco ria ur walk , pics and strawberries look lovely xxx
everything does happen for a reason even if we dont know what
so maybe another month wait is needed and conditions be perfect for u and bub next month xxx hope ur ok about it, i know waiting is hard xxx
my OH went away fpr over 5 weeks after my mmc , just as we would hve been allowed try, was hard at the time but better in long run xxx

amy hurray for af and ttc xxxxxx

hi and hugs to all xxx

we r better today, news has sunk in and i know things can be fine with his heart, its more often not harmfull so il keep that in mind xx

 

[Smiler82]

Short post as am on phone!

Lilesmom I'm so sorry about the heart murmur poor little mite been thru enough already. I know kids who've had them tho and not been a problem so FX is the same for Simon. Sending him lots of cuddles xx

Discoria lovely pics Sorry your Dh is away at the crucial time tho is so frustrating to feel you're missing a chance but could be for the best, extra time to heal and get yourself back to full strength ohysically and emotionally xx

Yay for AF mommylov!!!

AFM am good to go on a home birth xx

 

[withlovemom]

Hi ladies..

Lilesmom...hope Simon is feelin better n there is nothing to worry about..It is so hard to imagine little kids havin any troubles...I wil keep him in my prayers...

Discoria...lovely snaps..n m so happy u r havin a relaxed time.. I know it probably could b a bit frustrating to loose a cycle...my DH did not want to TTC for 6 months after my MMC in June 2012.. just somethin that had got stuck in his head that the year 2012 was not going well for us n MMC just made him feel so even more..n they wr d hardest 6 months for me..but he was lovely n supportive throught out.. Knowing d kind of positivity u have towards everything in life, I m sure u wil take ur month long wait in a right spirit..

Mommylove...yeppie AF is here...so now d TTC countdown begins..FX for u hon..sending lots of baby dust ur way...

Smiler... I m so glad u r getting to go ahead wid home birth.. afterall, it is somethin that u have always wanted...m sure all will go well..r u gettin little anxious now that u r so close??? ur little bundle of joy is on its way soon m so excited for u dear..

AFM, all is goin ok so far..baby is pretty active these days.. it starts wiggling n moving a lot after i eat somethin sweet... DH loves to feel d baby roll around..n it feels pretty awesome to see d movements on d outside on my bump.. we both r enjoying every bit of it

 

[lilesMom]

hi again

smiler hurray, congrats xx happy pushing
would def have loved to be allowed a home birth, imagine tellin ur Lo later they live where they were born, something very speacial about it xxx

withlovemom ive abig smile on my face from ur description of bub moving
it is great isnt it xxxx enjoy every second xxx

hugs to all xx

 

[babybemine]

hey everyone. Not a lot of bd done this month but a few were done at the right time so fx for this cycle. Did not do anything special this cycle. Will know by the end of the week if things worked.

 

[lilesMom]

babybemine xxx

 

[withlovemom]

Fingers crossed for u babybemine...
Sending lots of babydust ur way..

 

[magicwhisper]

Hello can I join in.

I am 21 my oh is 20 we are try number one and have been doing for 4 months

 

[lilesMom]

hi welcome, best o luck in ttc xx
2 days till ov happy bd-ing

 

[magicwhisper]

Hello thank you xD

 

[Smiler82]

Hey everyone

welcome Magic Whisper hope you find the positive attitude on this thread helpful

How is everyone doing? I know I could click back to read but my brain is frazzled and I'm tired and a bit grumpy haha. I can't remember where everyone is but I hope you're all ok. Lilesmom I can't remember if you said you have some appts soon for Simon - if so good luck I really hope he stays well and you get nothing but good news from your docs xx

withlovemom how are you feeling? Do you have any more appts coming up or anything?

Everyone else hope you are all happy and healthy xxx

Not much news from me - though getting annoyed with the MWs as they keep ringing me up about my iron and nagging me. The MW DH spoke to who said I was fine for a home birth rang me a couple of days ago just to say I would be "in serious trouble" if I bleed a lot after birth. Well dur - anyone who bleeds a lot after birth could be in trouble. It's only an IF it's not a certainty. I spent a couple of days being really annoyed over it but I'm too tired now! We've got the pool, my GP said my levels were fine, so we are happy. Then the MW said I'd have to sign a disclaimer so I think all the hassling is just making sure I don't sue them or something!!

I feel ready now. I didn't think I was but now I'm happy for bubs to arrive when he wants to. I've not had any signs or anything, and part of me still can't really believe I'm actually going to have a baby! But at the same time I feel quite relaxed about it, not scared for labour or anything which I think is the hypnobirthing coming into play I've been having some serious hot flushes today which is annoying, guess it's just hormones going a bit crazy!

xx

 

[magicwhisper]

Hello ash I bet you are excited to see your lo!

 

[mommylov]

Smiler.. I really hope the MW's let up on the phone calls! I cant believe your time has come. Youre going to be an earth mommy any day now!!!!!

 

[babybemine]

Boo for this cycle AF is here. Have to get ahold of the doc and see where we wants us to start now since we have been on break since the MC.

 

[withlovemom]

Hi Magicwhisper..welcome to this forum..

Smiler...take d well deserved rest hon.. n i hope n pray tht ur MF goes ahead with whatever u want without creating too much hassle..yes I had a check-up 3 days back..n it was a routine one..things r progressing fine by God's grace..

Babybemine..oh hon..sorry AF is here...
So u gonna meet doc n discuss how to go further??

Hi n hugs to everyone else..