hahahahahahaha....
I would love to know the outcome of this.... I mean if you get pg from
fingers then hell, there's hope for all of us.
And I will back you up and say I seem to fall pregnant easily too, and have 3 beautiful children but I have also had 2 MC's now and my 3 children are from an ex partner, and with my new partner things could be very different. It doesnt mean we dont need support while we ttc, just because we have kids.
My need for a baby with my OH now is as strong as when I wanted my first...
Keep us updated!!
Elle x
LOL I will def keep you guys updated. And thnaks for the back up! This is kind of last chance thing for me. We had sex and spermy fingers (lol) right before he horribly dumped me. Love of my life. Im sufferring pretty bad. Anyway we had been talking about maybe making a baby but before we could he just left out of nowhere =( So I dont want to be preggy to keep him ( i KNOW that does NOT work, it COULD but def not a reason to have ababy). I just really would love to have this baby ive been wanting for a year now. I definitely understand you on having the same urge on this baby with your new love as you did your first 3 kids. BABY DUST! =)
Honey
Thats awful..what a ******* (sorry). I actually think sweetie that your hoping your pg, in the hope of hanging onto to part of him.
How old are you? Are you sure this is going to be your last ever opportunity to have a baby? Because if time is on your side, then honey wait for that man, who is out there that wants a BFP with you and treats you like you deserve.
Sending you lots of
sounds like you need them.
Elle x
Thanks =/ I actually really just want this baby. Obviously deep down itd be an amazing plus for things to work out later on but I am a single mom to my son and i KNOW how hard things can be. I wouldnt want to add another baby to my life if it wasnt something I was absolutely sure about. Its actually quite a complicated story but Im a hopeless romantic that despite my age has been through ALOT of relationships and ALOT of idiot guys who caused me ALOT of pain just in search of my soul mate.. what i was looking for i knew that i would KNOW when i found it and i did with him. And trust me i know how things sound reading this from your point of view. I can easily say that if i heard this story from someone else id say "its not over, theres plenty of good men out there, you're young" but i dont think real love has age. Everyone has a passion and calling in life and unfortunately mine happens to be love... and i love HARD. But with him he literally took my heart. I gave myself to him 100% and we were very serious. I even lived with his mom for a while! That relationship was as real as it gets and in a 2 days fight he just changed his mind. I dont know how t o explain its very complicated and i KNOW how it sounds. I am turning 23 in december and its not this this is my last chance for a baby, because i know i can have one if i wanted to, its that after having my heart crushed by my soul mate i am 100% done with "love" and relationships
. I choose to work on myself and my career. So since i am done with guys i kind of need one for a baby lol. SO yes it is last chance for me. i know how it sounds and if u were to keep in touch and ask me 8 years from now have i dated or fell in love again or had a baby, you would hear a NO. anyway, I want and would love this baby with or without him. Definitely not a way to trap him or keep him, because like i said, being a single mom, i know things dont work that way.
Thanks for the baby dust! Pour it on me!!! lol. These next 6 days are going to be so slow. Im in Miami FL and the weather has been SO disgusting!! Very gray and gloomy 24 hrs a day. That does NOT help my mood! lol