I agree, this forum is for everyone who's trying to conceive not just people who find it difficult
exactly! i was going to say that and you beat me to it! lol. thanks i appreciate the back up
I agree, this forum is for everyone who's trying to conceive not just people who find it difficult
I don't think it is unkind of her to say she gets pregnant easily, it's a fact of life that some women get pregnant easily and some don't. I thought I thought I would get pregnant easily too, but I am finding out I don't.
My ex and I used to use the pull out method and I never got pregnant, but now I know that I may have some issues that make it harder for me to get pregnant. That being said, DH and I got pregnant with our son fooling around before putting on a condom (despite my fertility issues), so I think it is definately more likely you would get pregnant from the sex before he pulled out, than from the spermy fingers, but if he had one little swimmer on his finger, it is always a possibility!
Thank you i appreciate it. And are you pregnant now or is your son born?
No not pregnant now... my DS is 8! We are TTC #2 and have been for 9 months. We got a BFP in July but MC'd in August.
I don't think it is unkind of her to say she gets pregnant easily, it's a fact of life that some women get pregnant easily and some don't. I thought I thought I would get pregnant easily too, but I am finding out I don't.
My ex and I used to use the pull out method and I never got pregnant, but now I know that I may have some issues that make it harder for me to get pregnant. That being said, DH and I got pregnant with our son fooling around before putting on a condom (despite my fertility issues), so I think it is definately more likely you would get pregnant from the sex before he pulled out, than from the spermy fingers, but if he had one little swimmer on his finger, it is always a possibility!
Thank you i appreciate it. And are you pregnant now or is your son born?
No not pregnant now... my DS is 8! We are TTC #2 and have been for 9 months. We got a BFP in July but MC'd in August.
wow 8! and im sorry =/ ive had a few of those. i wish you the best of luck and lots of baby dust!
I don't think it is unkind of her to say she gets pregnant easily, it's a fact of life that some women get pregnant easily and some don't. I thought I thought I would get pregnant easily too, but I am finding out I don't.
My ex and I used to use the pull out method and I never got pregnant, but now I know that I may have some issues that make it harder for me to get pregnant. That being said, DH and I got pregnant with our son fooling around before putting on a condom (despite my fertility issues), so I think it is definately more likely you would get pregnant from the sex before he pulled out, than from the spermy fingers, but if he had one little swimmer on his finger, it is always a possibility!
Thank you i appreciate it. And are you pregnant now or is your son born?
No not pregnant now... my DS is 8! We are TTC #2 and have been for 9 months. We got a BFP in July but MC'd in August.
wow 8! and im sorry =/ ive had a few of those. i wish you the best of luck and lots of baby dust!
Thanks to you too! I never thought I would have such a gap between my children, but hey that's life! Hopefully my Dr. has got my problem figured out and I won't have too many more months TTC! You never know, I may have to try sperm fingers this month!
I actually thought about spermy fingers last night lol...OH pulled out and put the swimmers on my stomach (SORRY TMI) and I know kinda weird when your TTC but were just switching it up trying not to make it feel like were not strictly in reproductive mode Anyways I chuckled to myself about scooping some up and sending them on their way ...
I actually thought about spermy fingers last night lol...OH pulled out and put the swimmers on my stomach (SORRY TMI) and I know kinda weird when your TTC but were just switching it up trying not to make it feel like were not strictly in reproductive mode Anyways I chuckled to myself about scooping some up and sending them on their way ...
hahahahahah lmfaoooo lol! How funny. im literally cracking up!
and no i get what you mean!
if you look up infertility you will see that it says "unable to sustain a pregnancy"; so she can get pregnant but can't keep it I personally think this is MUCH worse than not being able to fall pregnant, imagine FINALLY getting it and then it being ripped away from you. Those who fall pregnant easily and are ttc have just as much right to be here as those who cannot get pregnant. I personally loved that she asked this as I think things around here are filled with too much sorrow most days. I was personally having a crap day and was down about ttc and this thread gave me a good laugh and brightened my mood. So, OP, thank you for posting this and I REALLY hope that you get your BFP (as I do for everyone)!
BDawn- I really hope that you can feel better about ttc eventually. I understand how emotional this journey can be but keep remembering that the end result will be amazing and that we are all here for you (just like we are for any woman...and man if he so chooses to join us).
ok off my soapbox now
Sounds like someone is lashing out their anger and jealousy here!
if you look up infertility you will see that it says "unable to sustain a pregnancy"; so she can get pregnant but can't keep it I personally think this is MUCH worse than not being able to fall pregnant, imagine FINALLY getting it and then it being ripped away from you. Those who fall pregnant easily and are ttc have just as much right to be here as those who cannot get pregnant. I personally loved that she asked this as I think things around here are filled with too much sorrow most days. I was personally having a crap day and was down about ttc and this thread gave me a good laugh and brightened my mood. So, OP, thank you for posting this and I REALLY hope that you get your BFP (as I do for everyone)!
BDawn- I really hope that you can feel better about ttc eventually. I understand how emotional this journey can be but keep remembering that the end result will be amazing and that we are all here for you (just like we are for any woman...and man if he so chooses to join us).
ok off my soapbox now
Sounds like someone is lashing out their anger and jealousy here!
anger yes, jealousy nope.
Sounds like someone is lashing out their anger and jealousy here!
As for spermy fingers... this whole thing made me laugh so bad I am not TTC just yet.... but hopefully soon but I am going to be popping in here to see if "spermy fingers" worked
It would be out of order if ely had gone in the long term ttc forum and said how easy she gets pregnant but she didn't. Maybe if people are sensitive about seeing people getting bfp's quickly or saying how easily they have gotten pregnant they should stay in that section, just a suggestion.
I'll be so happy if spermy fingers work
go ely
this thread made LOL!!!! hope spermy fingers work when will u b testing il b stalking x