I don't feel comfortable telling my nephews yet, but kids are so much closer. You would know them best! My losses were all before heartbeat too, so we are in terms same boat - uncharted seas!
Both of my losses were around 6 weeks but not discovered until 10 & aa weeks so I would still be very cautious about telling anyone. When do you have another scan scheduled for?? My 1st one is 12 May im going to try and get they to scan me every 2 weeks after that to 12 weeks xx
Had my first scan at 5 weeks, second at 7 weeks (just this last monday), and the next one is at 9 weeks. I don't think I'll be getting many more after that, but who knows. I'll be meeting my OB soon apparently - normally you wouldn't go to an OB until later, but because I'm high risk (from multiple losses) they transfer me over sooner. So that's kind of neat. I don't mind the extra care at all!
We are definitely pretty closed mouth right now. Wouldn't have even told my parents yet - but my doctor let it slip! Whoops!! Probably going to tell my mother in law around mother's day, and then the news will be pretty gradual from there. Only people I'd want to know if there was a loss, you know?
) so we are really waiting as long as we can.
i have my "official" OB appointment next thursday at 9w5d, but if baby is still measuring 5 days ahead, i'll be more like 10w+some change. we MIGHT tell after that. not really sure...will also kind of depend on when the next appointment will be and whether we can confirm a heartbeat at that appointment. we've kept it this long, seems sort of easy just to keep it our secret a little bit longer...though, it's getting harder and harder to pretend to feel okay when in reality i feel so crappy!
im so excited
Congrats on your BFP!