stephtaylor86
1st m/c at 7 weeks 6 days
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Hi girls.
Just wanted to say hello as I think I am probably joining you. I had a MC in Oct last year a day shy of 8 weeks, was a complete MC that happened at home. I passed the sac which was grey in colour and quite firm, about the size of my palm (sorry if tmi but it relates to my next question!!)
Anyway, had a BFP on New Years Eve 4 days after my period was due. Has preggo symptoms like sore boobs and sickness which i didn't have with the first. On the 3rd I started spotting, which turned into period blood with clots. The biggest clot I probably passed was about 1cm in size. The bleeding is now very light and if I hasn't taken the damn preg test I would have passed this off as a normal period, just a week late! anyway, this has confused me as, even though I know I was only 5 weeks, surely there would still be something to pass like the first time? I have called the GP who didn't seem interested and told me to call back in a week if I was still bleeding. Called EPU who said they wouldn't scan til 7 weeks so take a test in 2 more weeks and if its still + come on in! (Grrr!) Do you ladies think I have had a chemical preg or an actual MC? I'm scared of retaining tissue and then causing more problems in the future.
The real kicker of this whole mess is that my boyfriend is 13 years older than me (I am 24 and he is 37) He has had 3 MC's with his ex-wife and they were referred for tests and he has no chromosone probs and his sperm is better than average. And now he has had 2 MC with me! feel so bad for him and understandably, he is getting to the point where he just wants to stop but I'm determined to be a mum!!
Sorry for the long post, but I have ghosted loads of MC forums but never got my story out...
Just wanted to say hello as I think I am probably joining you. I had a MC in Oct last year a day shy of 8 weeks, was a complete MC that happened at home. I passed the sac which was grey in colour and quite firm, about the size of my palm (sorry if tmi but it relates to my next question!!)
Anyway, had a BFP on New Years Eve 4 days after my period was due. Has preggo symptoms like sore boobs and sickness which i didn't have with the first. On the 3rd I started spotting, which turned into period blood with clots. The biggest clot I probably passed was about 1cm in size. The bleeding is now very light and if I hasn't taken the damn preg test I would have passed this off as a normal period, just a week late! anyway, this has confused me as, even though I know I was only 5 weeks, surely there would still be something to pass like the first time? I have called the GP who didn't seem interested and told me to call back in a week if I was still bleeding. Called EPU who said they wouldn't scan til 7 weeks so take a test in 2 more weeks and if its still + come on in! (Grrr!) Do you ladies think I have had a chemical preg or an actual MC? I'm scared of retaining tissue and then causing more problems in the future.
The real kicker of this whole mess is that my boyfriend is 13 years older than me (I am 24 and he is 37) He has had 3 MC's with his ex-wife and they were referred for tests and he has no chromosone probs and his sperm is better than average. And now he has had 2 MC with me! feel so bad for him and understandably, he is getting to the point where he just wants to stop but I'm determined to be a mum!!
Sorry for the long post, but I have ghosted loads of MC forums but never got my story out...