Resisting the title Wonky Cycles R Us....boarding the Maca Train to BFP Central!

everything happens for a reason. perhaps this happened to open your eyes and realize she isn't the doctor for you and you should go back to the doctor that got it done the first time. i hate people that sugar coat so he seems great!! she should have DEFINITELY told you. maybe she was exaggerating and he can get the answers you need.
 
everything happens for a reason. perhaps this happened to open your eyes and realize she isn't the doctor for you and you should go back to the doctor that got it done the first time. i hate people that sugar coat so he seems great!! she should have DEFINITELY told you. maybe she was exaggerating and he can get the answers you need.

ya im hopen she is wrong. I love people that tell me like it is! My dad was like that and I prefer to be told the honest truth even if it hurts! He will def tell me if she was exaggerating or not and whether we can proceed. He's the one that said I wouldn't have probs getten preg even with endo and for me to quit worrying. Which he was right. So we might just do all this at home without dr's help with IUI. Worked first time around. But he will prob do buncha tests to make sure we can.
 
see girl - you've got it figured all out! it can happen and it will and hopefully on wednesday you will get the hope you need!
 
:hi: everyone

First of all I want to say I feel really lucky to have found this thread because you are all such a lovely supportive bunch. I love that the support and sharing in this group happens with the not so good times as well as the good times! :hugs::hugs:

TTC - sorry to hear AF got you. I think it's completely normal to feel the way you do at the moment (or at least, I tend to feel like that every time AF comes so I hope it's normal. If not then hopefully you'll be comforted in knowing you're not alone in feeling like this! :hugs:). Remember, it feels so crappy because this is so important to you. Because it's so important you will find the strength to keep going. And, if you're anything like me then in about a week or so as your hormones change then you'll start feeling more positive about the next month. I agree with the others that maybe it's worth looking into getting some tests done. I think I remember from other posts that you've been trying for about a year, the same as me - is this right? And, would this be your first baby? I've heard it normally takes about a year when it's your first pregnancy so this would be pretty normal. Not sure if I mentioned this before but when I saw the fertility specialist at the alternative health clinic she said one theory is that people who are deficient in Vitamin D can find it hard to conceive. I've started taking fertility supplements that have got this in, just in case. Fingers crossed for you for next month, hon :hugs::hugs:

TNT - that's shocking that the Doctors are only telling you now about the cysts. I can understand why you'd feel upset and angry. I think it's good you've found out though, because it might have been that you would have got pregnant again and had another m/c. One of my close friends had 3 m/cs and it was after the 3rd when they realised she had cysts. She had a procedure to get them removed and then got pregnant a few months later with her lovely daughter. She's now nearly 8 months pregnant with her second baby. Don't lose hope, hon :hugs::hugs:

Kiki - definitely stop using the maca now - like the others say there's not enough evidence to say whether it's safe in pregnancy. And the cramping is definitely normal - it's your uterus expanding to make a lovely home for your little bean! Also, I've heard that some women said they felt for months like AF was just about to come so this is totally normal. :thumbup:

Linny and Celtic - not long for you both to go now. Must be lovely and a bit scary too to know that the 2nd and 3rd maca babies will soon be here!! :happydance:

Never - I'm not normally an anxious person, but you're playing havoc with my nerves!!! I can see why Linny is feeling like she might go into early labour! I've got everything I could possibly cross crossed for you!! 6 days late. Wow. :test::test::test:

Dandy - any signs of O yet? What methods are you using to track it? I've started using the clearblue fertility monitor and find this really helps as it shows the 3 days before the LH surge so shows the 5 most fertile days of the cycle

Delilah - when do you think you'll O this month? Mine will hopefully come on Saturday or Sunday next weekend so we've started BDing every other day in the hope to catch that eggy!

SBB - how are you hon, hope all is going well?

Hi to everyone else, Yazzy, Char, Kel and anyone I've missed :hugs::hugs:

hey, has anyone heard from Welshie - she's not been around for a few weeks!
 
Hey Leeze :hi:


hey, has anyone heard from Welshie - she's not been around for a few weeks

yep I have- briefly but I have- I know she is at least OK.....
 
Linny & Yazzy- Thank you for the input about the cramps! That makes me feel better! They seem to be gone right now but they come and go.

ttc- I'm so sorry AF got you.. :hugs:

Never- How are you doing? There is still hope so don't give up yet!

Tnt- What?! That doctor is crazy! Please go back to your original doctor. She should have told you! Why wouldn't she do that? And you had one cyst in July and now there are all over? I don't think that's right. I mean I'm not the doctor and looking the cysts but I just don't think it can be possible to have cysts "all over" since july. I feel like she doesn't know what she's talking about or she's exagerrating. And if it is possible, why in the world wouldn't she have told you? I can completely understand why you are so upset and angry! Stupid doctors make everything worse!!

Leeze- Thank you for your advice! I did stop taking the maca yesterday when I found out. :) I don't want anything compromising this little bean!

I barely slept last night. My mind is racing a mile a minute. I'm so tired!

Hope everyone is doing good today!! :flower:
 
Never......WHAT......wait till the END of the week????? Oh jeez I'l be going :loopy: :wacko: by then. I'l just have to occupy myself with other things to take my mind off it :laundry: :dishes: :iron:.....now I'm on maternity that will be hard......:coffee: :rofl: :rofl:

TNT...so sorry your docs have been so crap hun! No wonder your sooo frustrated! I'm glad your getting in to see your old doctor this week though :hugs:

Char...oh the movement thing was really frustrating for me, I was so stressed. I didn't feel anything, no flutters or anything till 21+2 and it was the tiniest movements at first. I'd just eaten lunch and the first flutter was almost like an afterthought....like did I just feel that?? Then at tea time the same thing happened. Within a few days her movements were so strong OH could feel them so it progressed really quick for me. I did get told at my 20wk scan that I had a low lying placenta which was prob why I hadn't felt anything at that point! Its lovely feeling them....although not so much for me now when its major boots in the ribs :D
 
:wave: Leeze...I haven't quite got my head around it. Still thinking I'l just be pregnant forever :rofl:

Kiki...no worries hun :D

Kel....heya....missed ya :hugs:
 
never - still waiting :coffee:....

ttc - :hugs: sorry the witch got you :( this is our year, so keep the faith girlie

tnt...what the?! :trouble: def go bak to your other dr and see what they say maybe :shrug: :hugs:
 
:hi: Kel

thanks for sharing that you heard from Welshie, I was getting worried about her. Glad to hear she's ok :hugs::hugs:
 
Thank you all SO much!!!! You all deserve your bfps more than anyone I know!!

Char, Celtic, & Yazzy- Did any of you ladies have cramping in early pregnancy? I know I have read about it and it's totally okay but it worries me! Feels like AF is around the corner! Also, Should I stop taking the maca?

Thank you!

Kiki I know Im repeating what TNT said but yep cramps are normal your body is changing and adapting to the little bean inside I had loads of cramps and back pain on my first pregnancy:flower: plus this one! I stopped taking Maca as well and started pregnacare instead.

Hi Gals!

Celtic- I have been meaning to ask- are you just on insulin alone? or are you on anything else? Reason I ask- I am a type 2 diabetic. before my first m/c - my primary care doc took me off my metformin and put me on insulin. After my 2nd m/c and switching OB/GYN they told me that the next time I got pregnant- to stay on the metformin. no one was really clear on the advantages or disadvantages to either one.:shrug:

I started off just diet controlled for my high sugars, I had a monitor and checked them regularly so knew they were going up. when I changed hospitals (the one were I lived wouldn't listen or take me seriously) I had to go every two weeks have a fasting blood taken go eat and then an hour later have a repeat blood test, I was kept in my first visit because of high sugars, they then let me home to monitor my sugars and leave me diet controlled but I think it was 20 weeks I was put on insulin its called Insulatard a long acting insulin and novarapid which is short acting so have to inject and eat straight away. Im on 6 injections a day now hard going but soo worth it.
Now from what I know Metformin is for people with type 2 (non-insulin-dependent) diabetes. do you check your blood sugars regularly before and after meals? as to be honest I would and at least you know what levels your blood sugar you have. I have to aim for 5 (90) or below before eating and 7 (126) or below an hour after eating, they are very strict but this is best for pregnancy. To be honest I rather be on insulin even though I have to do so many injections a day, the only thing I need to worry about is lows and watching for (keytons but so far so good none of them) I do get lows some pretty bad ones but I know its normally from doing to much and not eating enough. hope that helps it might be worth your while talking to some one who knows about pregnancy and diabetes as the rules do change a bit I think, I say you would be insulin dependent very quickly in pregnancy and I do know some who take metformin in pregnancy and all is ok, just so long as you are testing before and after every meal and keeping a record. (which I'm sure you know about all ready) :thumbup:
some info on https://www.drugs.com/metformin.html wow it has some side effects!
Hey delia....I was wondering the same thing bout the diabetes. I recently found out I have high insulin levels. I'm on 2000mg of metformin right now and was told if I got preg again I had to take 1000mg a day during preg. I have never been told I was diabetic...am I? My insulin level was 54 and they would prefer below 17 but below 10 is better. I have no clue what all this means??

TNT Ive been meaning to answer your question! to be honest I'm a little confused high insulin levels is different to high sugars!
https://www.carbs-information.com/hyperinsulimia.htm
were as high blood sugars would mean you are diabetic esp if you are on metformin what way are you measuring your blood sugars do you use mg/dl tor mmol/l I use the mg/dl so would go by single numbers up to double so if I got 54 I would pass out with the shock as that would be very very very high and not just type 2 diabetes but to me type 1 !!!:wacko: (well as far as I guess any way) but if your doc is using the mmol then 54 is very low to convert that would mean a hypo for me as in 54 = 3 here is a conversion link https://www.soc-bdr.org/rds/authors..._and_genetic_dictionaries/e5184/index_en.html
I hope I'm not confusing you now :wacko: so I think you need to get your doc to check that out as well when you see him, that other doc sounds wrong when she said you had loads of cysts :growlmad: I'm so annoyed she has you so upset and cant remember your situation dope! PS metformin has been also used to tread POCS https://www.advancedfertility.com/metformin-pcos-pregnancy.htm which as you know means you would have cysts so if you are on it then I cant see how you have loads of cysts if I am making sense!!:flower: well as far as I can make out any way! :hugs: hope you get answers and can get to Try this cycle :hugs:

Morning ladies I can't wait to be at a proper computer to catch up right now I am using my iPhone it is a pain but at least I can see what is going on.....af got my this morning and it really sucks I can't help but to think something else is wrong with me. Anyway sorry for the selfish post but I had to vent I am just so frustrated.....I hope everyone has a good day


TCC Im so sorry the stupid AF came on, Please dont feel bad or feel selfish we so understand :hugs:

Kel thanks for the update on Welshie, I hope she is ok and she joins us again soon and how are you hun:hugs:


Never no AF yay!

ok so hello to every one else :hugs: I know Im missing loads more :haha: I will come back and think of more just wait!

Today I started getting things ready for baby, Ive started knitting and have two hats and booties made and a lovely cardigan Im so happy with it, Im doing a blanket and a hooded cardigan now. I put a deposit off my buggy and got some clothes so excited now, 30 weeks this week and I know I said 10 weeks left yesterday! which is correct to my due date, but when I take in to consideration I will be induced early Ive at least 7 weeks left at most 9 :dohh:


hugs to every one :hugs:
 
thanks for sharing that you heard from Welshie
nooooooooooo prob sweeite. I was getting very worried about her too..

Dandy still no positive OPK yet? i bet you do soon.....I THINK I may have the week before Christmas.... my temps have been pretty steady and they are higher then before but because I was so sick my temps were WHACKO and now I am getting pretty crampy today and had LOTS of creamy CM the past 2 days

Celtic- I am doing good... just chillin and taking the relaxed approach- aww starting to knit.. I wish I knew how to do that- my gram tried but I have no patience.. LOL

ETA- dang having all these new threads in here makes it difficult to find this thread now :rofl:
 
thanks for sharing that you heard from Welshie
nooooooooooo prob sweeite. I was getting very worried about her too..

Dandy still no positive OPK yet? i bet you do soon.....I THINK I may have the week before Christmas.... my temps have been pretty steady and they are higher then before but because I was so sick my temps were WHACKO and now I am getting pretty crampy today and had LOTS of creamy CM the past 2 days

Celtic- I am doing good... just chillin and taking the relaxed approach- aww starting to knit.. I wish I knew how to do that- my gram tried but I have no patience.. LOL

I have my mum who is an expert so tapping her for all her help :haha: plus I should be doing great by then and will happily knit you something special :hugs:
 
hee hee hee hope soo...

I totally forgot to tell you guys... TnT and AJ know

I am NO LONGER a blonde............ I am now a Dark Auburn chick- almost back to my normal hair color
 
Thanks ladies u all have made me feel better. I am at the borgata with brad having ice cream while he plays poker trying to get my mind off of things. I have had only prelim testing done on me and brad with my normal gun I guess a fs is the next step. I know I am ovulating and that brads stuff is perfect. So I will continue to use my Cbfm for two more months and then make the fs appt I guess I am just disappointed as I thought I would have been pg by now.

TNT that is crazy I would call them back and ask why you weren't told......sorry Hun I know you r on a time limit.

Leeze I am in the Bahamas but would have to do all fs cstuff in the US
 

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