Sorry everyone I know I'm being very selfish but I'm a little short for time
Sparkle good luck - so excited to see baby sparkle!!
Linny - go to boots and have a look at the nipple shields, some are huge, just see what you think will fit snugly over your nips! And get the lansinoh cream, and use it straight away, even if it doesn't hurt straight away. And rather than waiting for it to hurt to use the sheilds try them every third feed or something to give your nips a break.
Also, if you really find it too painful the medela swing pump is fantastic! I have pumped loads and will freeze it. But better to pump and give to baby than to give up because it hurts too much.
I don't want to put you off. It's totally bearable honestly and it doesn't hurt everyone that much... Hope you will be ok with it
Char a very brief rundown of my birth:
Had a sweep 8pm Friday, contractions immediately, went in 4am and they kept me cos of high bp. 2 or 3 cm dilated.
Was left to it for ages and eventually had my waters broken about 4pm Saturday. 2 hours later no change so they put drip in, but as she did it (and cut me so I bled everywhere) my contractions came properly so didn't connect the drip. I had some sort of injection (meptid?) which didn't help with the pain!
After that I was sick everywhere, maybe from the gas and air... It's all a blur but I was pushing for an hour and a half or 2 hours, but baby wouldn't turn his head and his heart rate dropped or even stopped and all of a sudden there was about 7 people rushed in with recuss trolley and forceps and they cut me (episotomy) and pulled him out with the forceps. Was awful, OH was in tears cos he thought we'd lost him. I was trying so hard to push him out but couldn't. They thought the cord was around his neck but it wasn't, and thank fuck he came out and cried. They put him on me I think, or maybe they had to take him off first, I don't remember exactly. I was just so relieved and asked about a million times if he was ok! And kept kissing his head...
They had to stitch me up then which was horrible, I couldn't stop shaking I just wanted it over with. But at least I had sammuel and me and OH had a bit of a cry - but happy cry.
It's incredibly emotional, and although happy at the end I was in TOTAL shock - for a while. Didn't even let my mum know for 45 mins we were just in such shock. That lasted a while!
That's it really....
X x x