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Ok, my cousin just said something that REALLY pissed me off!!!
She's 18, just turned she's my best friend and has been like a sister to me since she's an only child and I only have a half brother..
We grew up together and I LOVE her to death and the pregnancy was a huge shock for her because she didn't even know I was having sex!
But she's been with a guy for acouple months now, He's 20 and already has a kid who's like two or so with another woman.. He shares custody of the kid and I guess trying to get full custody I don't know the whole story..
She said his son already calls her mom and stuff and she watches him and stuff..
Like a week ago she texted me asking how I knew I was pregnant like what kind of symptoms I was having and stuff.. I was like... Whyyy?
She said she's gained like 6 pounds and has unexplained headaches and lower back aches.. Her AF wasn't even due yet so I told her to just wait and see if it comes..
Today I asked if she ever got her AF she said not yet and that it's due sometime this week.. She said she doesn't think she's pregnant though because she doesn't feel bad anymore.. So I asked what kind of protection she's using..
She said she's not using any....
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I went off on her saying how she should be using protection and stuff.. She said she knows and that they don't like condoms because neither can feel anything and that she's not on BC right now because she has to go to the doctors and she doesn't have time for that..
I'm just really disappointed in her, She knows better and she's gonna graduate this year and try and become a nurse.. Yet she's being so stupid and careless!!
I told her if she doesn't have time for BC then she definitely doesn't have time for a child! Not to mention condoms have 100s of different types for a REASON but she's like well when your in the heat of the moment you're really not thinking about that sorta thing... Which I can relate to
She started getting a little aggravated I think because she's like ok MOM I think I know more about that sorta stuff then you! (Because she's older she's always hated when I talk down to her about anything even if it IS something I have more experience in..She even gets annoyed if I call her hun!)
I told her she shouldn't let him near her until he wraps that thing!
I honestly don't want her making the same mistakes.. She knows better and she's like well he pulls out and stuff.. Pulling out DOES NOT work.. My L/O is proof of that!
I hope she understands what she's doing and starts using protection..
I've seen girls on here say the similar things and we b*tch them out about it.. But now that it's someone so close to me.. Gah!
It's such a shame the way some girls (and guys) don't realise how important it is to use condoms, You don't want to be tied down with a L/O just yet!
She's 18, just turned she's my best friend and has been like a sister to me since she's an only child and I only have a half brother..
We grew up together and I LOVE her to death and the pregnancy was a huge shock for her because she didn't even know I was having sex!
But she's been with a guy for acouple months now, He's 20 and already has a kid who's like two or so with another woman.. He shares custody of the kid and I guess trying to get full custody I don't know the whole story..
She said his son already calls her mom and stuff and she watches him and stuff..
Like a week ago she texted me asking how I knew I was pregnant like what kind of symptoms I was having and stuff.. I was like... Whyyy?
She said she's gained like 6 pounds and has unexplained headaches and lower back aches.. Her AF wasn't even due yet so I told her to just wait and see if it comes..
Today I asked if she ever got her AF she said not yet and that it's due sometime this week.. She said she doesn't think she's pregnant though because she doesn't feel bad anymore.. So I asked what kind of protection she's using..
She said she's not using any....
...................
!!!!!!!!I went off on her saying how she should be using protection and stuff.. She said she knows and that they don't like condoms because neither can feel anything and that she's not on BC right now because she has to go to the doctors and she doesn't have time for that..
I'm just really disappointed in her, She knows better and she's gonna graduate this year and try and become a nurse.. Yet she's being so stupid and careless!!
I told her if she doesn't have time for BC then she definitely doesn't have time for a child! Not to mention condoms have 100s of different types for a REASON but she's like well when your in the heat of the moment you're really not thinking about that sorta thing... Which I can relate to
She started getting a little aggravated I think because she's like ok MOM I think I know more about that sorta stuff then you! (Because she's older she's always hated when I talk down to her about anything even if it IS something I have more experience in..She even gets annoyed if I call her hun!)
I told her she shouldn't let him near her until he wraps that thing!
I honestly don't want her making the same mistakes.. She knows better and she's like well he pulls out and stuff.. Pulling out DOES NOT work.. My L/O is proof of that!
I hope she understands what she's doing and starts using protection..
I've seen girls on here say the similar things and we b*tch them out about it.. But now that it's someone so close to me.. Gah!
It's such a shame the way some girls (and guys) don't realise how important it is to use condoms, You don't want to be tied down with a L/O just yet!
its my birthday yay heehee
