S T M ( Single Teen Mummy & Mummy-to-be's )

I know breast is best for baby, and I don't want to be selfish, but I feel like im not so tied down to him if I FF , like I can go out for a few hours or have a few drinks with friends.
I don't know what to do now
 
I know what you mean some people are really funny about it all though theres been alot of threads about the advantages and disadvanges ages ago for both and people tend to get abit snappy about it .. its down to you dont let anyone force you into anything you dont want to specially when people say all the advantages of BFing cause thats what my midwife did to me even though she was like its totally down to you what you want to do though..
 
Becy, I wonder how close are babies will be. lol cause we are only a week apart. lol and one or both can go early or late. lol
 
Hi all, this is my first timee posting on here so hopefully it works. Anyways my name is Antoinette im 18, I live in Arizona & im due May 9th 2010. Im highly hoping for a girl but have names in mind for both genders! Uhmm im single & pregnant will be single mommy as well, maybee I been talking to this guy & I really like him & he likes me too! The father is in denial and doesn't think its his because he doesn't realize its based off our last cycle & not the day we had sex. But he wants me to keep him updated on stuff, I don't really like him & we don't get along because when I first told him I was pregnant he automatically denied it being his & said he couldn't get girls pregnant. Soooo immature. He doesn't want me to have it but obviously I am. Ill be 18 weeks tomorrow & I find out gender & see if baby is developing well Dec 10th & I cannnot wait. Anyways. Helloo to all single moms & moms 2 be.
 
Becy, I wonder how close are babies will be. lol cause we are only a week apart. lol and one or both can go early or late. lol

Lol! wel at my 4D scan the doctor was a specialist who scanned me! and he said i was 34weeks not 33weeks! and told me to expect baby from 15th-22nd january so now im abit worried lol but tbh i think ill be overdue a few days if it goes by genes i will be lol!

Least well be able to show off our babies around the same time! will be really good spesh if we wana know stuff aswell like see what each other do with feeding and all that kinda stuff :D
 
i am now a single teen mummy to be! hello everyone, : )

Hey welcome :)! :flower: xx

Hi all, this is my first timee posting on here so hopefully it works. Anyways my name is Antoinette im 18, I live in Arizona & im due May 9th 2010. Im highly hoping for a girl but have names in mind for both genders! Uhmm im single & pregnant will be single mommy as well, maybee I been talking to this guy & I really like him & he likes me too! The father is in denial and doesn't think its his because he doesn't realize its based off our last cycle & not the day we had sex. But he wants me to keep him updated on stuff, I don't really like him & we don't get along because when I first told him I was pregnant he automatically denied it being his & said he couldn't get girls pregnant. Soooo immature. He doesn't want me to have it but obviously I am. Ill be 18 weeks tomorrow & I find out gender & see if baby is developing well Dec 10th & I cannnot wait. Anyways. Helloo to all single moms & moms 2 be.

Welcome to you too :)!
rant about FOB all you want this is what this thread is about get it all out :) Hope you get a little girl that you hope for have to keep us updated! :D x
 
i am now a single teen mummy to be! hello everyone, : )

welcome, i seen you around the teen fourm,I wanted to ask you when baby is old enough will he/she also be vegan?

yep baby will be vegan. i plan to BF however if i decide not to/cant for long enough at the time, i will feed baby a totaly vegan brand of soya formula. : )
will be vegan from birth, till it can make his/her own mind up.
 
i am now a single teen mummy to be! hello everyone, : )

welcome, i seen you around the teen fourm,I wanted to ask you when baby is old enough will he/she also be vegan?

yep baby will be vegan. i plan to BF however if i decide not to/cant for long enough at the time, i will feed baby a totaly vegan brand of soya formula. : )
will be vegan from birth, till it can make his/her own mind up.

hmm I always wondered that
I'm not vegan, I still eat eggs and dairy but I haven't eaten meat in 7 years
 
beccy
how was the scan!!

im not gunna breastfeed..
cus after afew weeks of giving birth i no ill need a night out to let my hair down.
plus i wouldnt want to wip my boob out in public lmao
ive always been self concious
and just wouldnt feel comftable
my midwifes tryin to force me tooo xx
 
preggo did you think of pumping for breast feeding i dont want to sound pushy but that way you can breast feed and still be able to drink once in a while all you have to do is pump that milk and toss it and your can pump and let someone else watch your little one that is what i did and loved it because i was giving my son the best begining and i still got freedom to go out for a while
 
BF'ing...

To be honest, I think I'm gonna...
I've brought a breast pump and things so that
my LO can have the best start even if she won't
latch on. Won't do it in public though...
Will feel really awkward Lol.

How's everyone doing today? :hugs:

xXx
 
beccy
how was the scan!!

im not gunna breastfeed..
cus after afew weeks of giving birth i no ill need a night out to let my hair down.
plus i wouldnt want to wip my boob out in public lmao
ive always been self concious
and just wouldnt feel comftable
my midwifes tryin to force me tooo xx

Was really good :] got some good pics of him smiling and with his mouth open lol and my mum straight away saw he had my lips :haha: and we all said he looks like FOB in his cheeks cause hes got like high cheek bones if that makes sense lol.. was really weird to see him in 4D cause he actually looked like a real baby now unlike on a normal scan where you dont see eyes/ears and stuff lol :D i made a thread about it but think it was in third tri with few piccys but bet you havent been in there lol
xx
 
becy glad it was good!! :D

and welcome to veganmum2be & lilmama :hi:

just a brief update on things.. well not really cos its not really a "thing" but hey
my ex came round today (not FOB, my ex from like 4 yrs ago lol but i have always had a strange thing for him) he came round at 10 and didnt leave til 4 which was really nice i was expecting him to stay an hour or 2 tops but yea, it was really nice :) i dont think he is interested in me anymore, he is very mixed signally but idk :shrug: he said he would come round alot and stuff, and like he bought some food from the shop but didnt eat it in the end and just said "ah il just have it next time im round".
also ages ago when i was still with FOB he was like really weird about it cos he knew how bad FOB treated me and kept telling me to get out of there and that he would be a dad to my baby and stuff !? but dont know if he meant it or not.
anyway
i hope it goes somewhere :blush: but i think it is just wishful thinking on my part atm
xxx
 
awe, i hope it goes well:) sounds sweet
how long did you and your ex date?
 
awe I miss my ex like soooo bad and he misses me but hes not okay with me having someone elses baby:(
so it wont work

when is he coming over next?
 
i feel so dang confused idont remember if i told you all about how jared(FOB) wouldnt stop calling me and how one night i told him when you are sober and single call me well...... he is sober and he is moving out of his girlfriends and back with his dad who is like a father to me... i was planning on moving in with his fathers family after the girls are born but now i feel so conflicted because i more than anything want to be with him but as you all know he is such a dick about things and well i now know i wont move in with his fathers family because he is going back but i am scared that he will want to get back with me and i dont know if i really am strong enough to say no i love him with so much of my heart but he also hurt me i just am scared i guess that he will go back to his dads and we will be together again and then all the sudden he does the same shit again =/ anybody got any advice or just support to offer because i feel like crying right now


i didnt think he would leave her or sober up and now he is doing both i dont want to be hurt again but around him i dont care about anything or even think that he will hurt me again =( :cry:
 
i am now a single teen mummy to be! hello everyone, : )

welcome, i seen you around the teen fourm,I wanted to ask you when baby is old enough will he/she also be vegan?

yep baby will be vegan. i plan to BF however if i decide not to/cant for long enough at the time, i will feed baby a totaly vegan brand of soya formula. : )
will be vegan from birth, till it can make his/her own mind up.

hmm I always wondered that
I'm not vegan, I still eat eggs and dairy but I haven't eaten meat in 7 years
I was a veg head for 2 years!
Not as impressive I know.. :haha:
I could never be a vegan, I love my dairy..(Specially now that I'm pregnant and need the extra calcium I like live off anything dairy)
Just curious but what were your reasons for becoming a vegetarian and vegan?
 

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