Hi ladies, we have our 20 week scan tomorrow and Im a little concerned in case i recognise 'bits' and hubby doesnt! This is my third baby but the first with hubby so he has'nt done the whole scan thing before, the 12 week one was fine becasue nothing was visible. He doesnt want to know what we are having and Im fine with that BUT when my son was scanned at 20 weeks his bits were very clear, my worry is I will recognise them and know its a boy! Probably just being silly, these seven weeks kids holidays have been a real strain this year and Im knackered and over emotional! Watch this space as i will post after the scan,its really early on so we have to take the other kids with us, cant off load them on anyone at 8am!