It's been a few weeks since I've posted so I've popped in to see how everyone is going!! I'm 23+3 weeks... baby is SO active and I'm really popping out the front (but everyone keeps saying I'm tiny as there's no weight anywhere else!). I love feeling her and it gives me reassurance each day. I have some problems with my lips cracking at the corners so I might have low iron or zinc levels, have to get that checked but no bleeding now for a month and no cramps (other than normal back pain and stretching/growing pains oh and baby kicking pains). I have a OB appointment thursday and a scan sat so I'm hoping they say the SCH is all gone and I'm dropped down to normal pregnancy again...
Lockzie - I have read that SCH is more common with girls for some reason might have something to do with the time of implantation relative to ovulation or something because girl sperm swim slower than male sperm so you are more likely to have a girl if you ovulate at the time of or after having sex as the girl sperm have had time to catch up to the boys and it is thought that SCH might actually have something to do with an implantation bleed/incorrect implantation.... but there really isn't enough research to know for sure!! It was one reason I thought I had a better chance of a girl (hubby REALLY wanted a girl!)
NewDad39- Stunningly beautiful name choice!!!
We are tossing up between Eloise Anne Millicent and Grace Anne Millicent (Anne is my maternal grandmothers middle name as well as my mothers and mine, Millicent is my paternal grandmothers middle name). But we are going to get our Dad to make the final choice with us when she is born because he is terminal with prostate cancer and we thought it would be lovely for him to be involved!
Mommyoftwo84, Mumtotwinnies - WONDERFUL news! I'm hoping for the same in the next two weeks!
Curioser5 - great to hear your bleeding has stopped and you've made it to halfway congratulations!
Kittykat1228 - Sorry I wasn't here when you first posted but it looks like you got a lot of pep talking from everyone else!! I'm glad to hear you are doing much better now!
Ginny83- Oh dear, that's so terrible. I feel for you so much. Worst nightmare. I'm so very very sorry
Have you got your blood test results back? It's possible the person doing the scan was hopeless... babies measure a few days off here and there all the time. I pray it's still ok
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SWmaniac- sorry you have had to join us but I hope everything improves!!
Kristah23 - I was diagnosed with low amniotic fluid and had two SCHs and it all turned out ok for far. Lots of rest and lots of fluids. Don't do any lifting, stretching, squatting, reaching, sex, exercise etc etc. I hope for the best outcome for you!! I know it's hard but there really isn't much they can do before 24weeks which is why you don't get much help! It's so hard but there's just too many women in early pregnancy who lose babies/have bleeding etc and not enough resources to give us all a lot of time!
Babyblueskye- glad to hear you are doing well too - all the best for the placenta praevia! Hope it moves up!
Paigeypoo- doesn't sound great but I had a lot of pain and no bleeding at times and all was fine (it was bruising and swelling/inflammation from the original bleed)... I was told if the pain is so bad you can't breathe properly then you should go to the ER. Baths and heat packs and lots of rest and fluids helped me when I was in pain.
Mightymom- great to hear a positive story! Thanks!