Hi everyone,
I found this group and would like to join. It is good to know that I am not alone with this, and I have read through some of this thread and seen some success stories. I am terrified, and I love the success stories! I first started bleeding at 6 weeks. It lasted a full week of bright red bleeding on and off, cramps, and passing small clots. It was awful. Of course, I thought I had miscarried. It was shocking when I went to my OB at 7 weeks, and there was a tiny little fetus with a strong little heartbeat. There was also a large bleed. I believe it was 4x3 or 4x4 cm at the time. It was over my cervix, and I was given that awful 50/50 chance. After that things calmed down. I started spotting brown, with some small brown gushes for the next 3 weeks. Then it just stopped. I went in for a nuchal translucency scan at 11 weeks, and the bleed seems to have gotten larger. I am devastated! The doc wouldn't even give me the dimensions, but I was paying attention when the nurse measured it, and the largest measurement is 7 cm! It also appears to have changed shape and moved. At first it looked just like a blob, and was over my cervix. Now it is crescent shaped, and has moved upwards so that baby is now over my cervix and it is above and to the left somewhere. The doctor just didn't seem concerned, but I am terrified! He said there is no "active" bleeding in the SCH, and the baby is unaffected and doing fine. I asked him if this clot could release and take the baby with it now that the baby has moved over my cervix. He said he doubted it, but I don't know that he is correct. The day after that I started spotting brown a little again, and then again it just stopped. I am now 12 weeks, very scared, and in need of any advice anyone can give me. I had a miscarriage in April, and am terrified that another one is on it's way.
Is this a normal thing for the SCH to move, change shape and grow? Also, is it good that the bleeding is not "active", or does that mean very little in the grand scheme of things? Thanks for listening, and thanks in advance for any advice or knowledge you can pass on!