Hi girls,
Ive not posted in this thread since Oct/ Nov 2013 when I was around 9 wks pregnant & bleeding, bleeding heavily with not one but two SCHs. After 6 yrs of trying and an IVF miracle I really thought it was all over
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Ive not back read all of your stories (this thread is HUGE with a zillion posts), the only reason I post (now I finally have some time to post with my wee 13 week old sleeping like a perfect baby) is to hopefully reassure some of you that pretty much most SCHs end up with a positive outcome.
I know first-hand how frustrating the lack of convinced advice is forthcoming from doctors
they simply will not say either way whether or not the pregnancy will continue, they cover their backs by saying as little as possible. The absolute best advice I had was bed rest for 3 weeks (weeks 10 to 12) which to me made complete sense.
The bleed areas in my case were approx 4cm x 2.5 cm in 2 different places. I cannot tell you how upset I was having gone back a week after my first huge bleed when no 1 SCH was diagnosed (at 9 weeks) to be told there were now 2 of them!! Bed rest thereafter for 3 weeks was prescribed.
After 3 weeks of bed rest I had no more major red bleeds and returned to work but stayed off my feet as much as possible (I have a desk based job). Brown spotting, sometimes quite heavy, but most of the time just a few spots a day eventually thinned out to just a few times a week but continued to around week 20 after which my pregnancy progressed normally & I finally started to relax a bit.
It was a HUGE worry, especially given the fact my age (42 then, 43 when delivered) and that my boy was an IVF miracle (only 1 viable egg, 1st cycle I was successful!!).
Ladies, please have faith that despite everything and the vagueness of the docs your pregnancies are likely to go full term. I would say dont worry too much but I know from experience that is totally impossible.
Heres a pic of my chap today at 13 weeks
Good luck!
LLx
https://i732.photobucket.com/albums/ww326/Loopy_loti/13weeks_zps8ec782e7.jpg