Well I spent yesterday in Christchurch Women's Hospital after I woke up at 3:30am Monday for a pee and found I had had a big red bleed. As soon as I sat on the loo (sorry if TMI) I passed a pingpong ball sized clot and some more blood. Luckily after that it stopped, but I was shaking so much I couldn't even type the numbers in the phone to page my midwife, hubby had to do it and she got me referred to the hospital first thing in the morning. They did another scan, bloods, urine test etc. Bloods and urine ok, and they couldn't see anywhere obvious on the scan where the blood was coming from (they said that was a good thing), though they did find the remains of my SCH hidden at the edge of my placenta - she said that it wasn't surprising that it had been missed at the last scan, but it was very small now and not to worry about it. I've been told to expect more bleeding and put on iron tablets and told to take it as easy as I can (with two toddlers!), so now I need to see about getting my daughter into preschool at least a day or two a week and find out what else I can do to ease the load. I had no more bleeding yesterday, but at 5:30 this morning I had a bit more red and again just from walking around trying to sort out the children this morning. Hubby is now at work trying to sort out if he can do as much as possible from home for the next week or two while we sort out alternative childcare arrangements.
Bella'smummy - I'm so sorry things are no better. I'm not surprised you are scared, even the much smaller bleed I had this morning had me shaking again. How many weeks are you now?
I hope your midwife is more helplful than mine. I'm just so glad I am under the hospital's care now too. I will still see my midwife, but can call the hospital and talk to a Dr if I am worried at all or have any questions, or even just turn up if I have a big bleed and they will look after me. I've also been warned that it is likely that I will end up hospitalised at some point if I do get a big bleed, so another reason to get alternative childcare plans in place.
renee23 - turns out my midwife didn't know what she was talking about regarding the planned CS - I told the Dr my worries about that yesterday and she said what I was told about 39 weeks was absolutely not true and every case was judged individually. I will have a growth scan at 28 weeks and another appointment with the Dr to discuss where things are. Oh, I just realised my typo in my last message - my son was born at 39+1, not 36+1!
The sonographer yesterday also seems quite convinced my placenta wasn't going to move either, I'm not entirely sure why, but both have seemed to think it is firmly in position - not very reassuring.