So I really tried doing the bed rest thing today. My kids and husband were freaking out without me there helping them with everything. Its frustrating because they get frustrated with me. My Dr. Doesnt know much about SCH. I mean he just knows Im bleeding and goes off that and says this will heal or it wont. I asked about bed rest and he said If you miscarry you will whether you are on bed rest or not. But having a SCH doesnt mean you are miscarrying at all!! But I know from reading that bed rest helps. But, my husband on the other hand wants to listen to my Dr. He gets mad when I try to tell him about what I have read online. He says,"You think they know more than your Dr!" Omg, I am so frustrated right now! For those of you who dont know I first started bleeding at 7 weeks, I had 1 day of period like bleeding, followed by 4 or 5 days of spotting that eventually turned brown. I then had nothing for about 10 days then started with very light brown spotting which the next day turned into period like bleeding for one day(this at 9w2d). It then went to very dark red almost blackish heavy spotting for a couple days, then went to a bit heavier again. More than spotting, but not heavy bleed.(kinda like a light period) and what was coming out that was was still very dark red, blackish blood. It almost looked like it was concentrated and thicker than normal. Also it has kinda stringy stuff like tissue in it. I felt it and it was like tissue. Anyways this type has been happening 3 days now, though today Im back to spotting. So I thought to myself bed rest, because I really really hope this heals by the end of the first trimester. Now, I havent been doing much anyway. I have had bad MS so I literally sit around almost all day and hardly ever get out. I also sleep a ton like 12 hrs a day, and would probably sleep longer if my kids allowed it!! So in no way am I close to being active, but still I thought I'd give the bed rest thing a try, but now I just think it will cause huge problems here in the home. Should I even be on bed rest? Is what I am doing enough with the sitting around? I really am a bit lost. How long should I be on bed rest if I do it?
I am dead bored after 13 days in bed, but I feel safer this way. If I was you Inperfected, I would stay in bed for the weekend, and if you are willing to get up and see what happens, at least wait for the bleeding to turn brownish. Did you ask the last time you got checked if it was the same to stay in bed or not? Did the give you any advice?
it's definitely not an easy journey though 
hope it stays like that and it goes away eventually or that at least you see no more red bllod.
