Ah, thank you. I think my worry is when my 'symptoms' seem to disappear for a few hours and I almost feel like I'm not even pregnant at all- just exhausted. But then my 8y/o will give me a big bear hug and I'm like "oh, ouch, yeah they are tender after all!"
I'm not sure if we'll find out baby's sex at scan or wait until the birth to find out. I asked OH about it and he's easy either way
With my first, I didn't find out but honestly I was so utterly convinced he was a boy, that I almost forgot I didn't know for sure! Then with my second I wanted to find out so I could tell DS1 if he was getting a brother or sister. This time I can see the pros and cons either way.
Tbh at the minute I'm just so focused on getting through first trimester with my sanity intact, anything beyond that just seems like a dream!