LittleBoo
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Hello lovelies! How are you all? SMA I love your pics! 'specially the kissy face 
Just been having a think about things, I'm so so excited to be a mum to a baby again! This might sounds bad but it's not meant to, with my first I feel I had little control how he was brought up. I was 17 and took advice from everyone, at first I stuck to my guns, weaned him on healthy, good food, only gave him water, no sweeties as I wanted him to develop a taste for good food before he realized the wonders of sugar unfortunately I had a very bad time and he stayed with his grandma a lot when he was 7-8 months, he went from eating tomatoes and loving it, to eating junk. Now, he wont touch veg, will only drink juice, asks for sweeties all the time, I don't give him any but the minute he goes to grandmas/dads he gets it, I spend so much time trying to give him good healthy food, drink water but it all goes to crap. With this baby, I wont be letting anyone give him anything I don't see as necessary. Any behavior issues in the future will be dealt with MY way, and there's going to be no confusion from outside influences. I feel like it's a second chance to parent the way I've always thought best, although I love my firstborn dearly, a lot of his behaviors are learned and even rewarded by other people. I try my hardest to make sure he knows that he has rules at home, he can be so SO good, but the minute he goes elsewhere he acts up, demands, screams for sweeties because he KNOWS other people give in to him. Where-as mummy is pure evil 
I just can't wait to be able to hide away with my little family
Just been having a think about things, I'm so so excited to be a mum to a baby again! This might sounds bad but it's not meant to, with my first I feel I had little control how he was brought up. I was 17 and took advice from everyone, at first I stuck to my guns, weaned him on healthy, good food, only gave him water, no sweeties as I wanted him to develop a taste for good food before he realized the wonders of sugar
unfortunately I had a very bad time and he stayed with his grandma a lot when he was 7-8 months, he went from eating tomatoes and loving it, to eating junk. Now, he wont touch veg, will only drink juice, asks for sweeties all the time, I don't give him any but the minute he goes to grandmas/dads he gets it, I spend so much time trying to give him good healthy food, drink water but it all goes to crap. With this baby, I wont be letting anyone give him anything I don't see as necessary. Any behavior issues in the future will be dealt with MY way, and there's going to be no confusion from outside influences. I feel like it's a second chance to parent the way I've always thought best, although I love my firstborn dearly, a lot of his behaviors are learned and even rewarded by other people. I try my hardest to make sure he knows that he has rules at home, he can be so SO good, but the minute he goes elsewhere he acts up, demands, screams for sweeties because he KNOWS other people give in to him. Where-as mummy is pure evil I just can't wait to be able to hide away with my little family
I know you probably have already, but have you tried gaviscon? It's a lifesaver for me, keep some in my bedside cabinet at all times 
can't wait !!!!!!
it still doesn't seem real that i'm going to have a baby around the house again.
