***September testing group***

[AlwaysTheAunt]

@happyface82 oh praying your next test is more than a shadow and it is actually something! Hope your apt went well

 

[Suggerhoney]

Thanks @Suggerhoney, @jellybeanxx and everyone else. It's just got such a regular occurance now it's getting daft... People even insist I must be even when I say I'm not!!! The next person who says it might get a slap in the face not going to lie!!!

It’s so bloody rude and they need to shut up. Im so sorry love. I used to work behind a bar in a 4 star hotel year ago. I absolutely loved it. We used to get our regulars that were all so lovely. But we also got really posh business men staying and they were so rude. Like wouldn’t even say please. Propper stuck up men they were. But I loved working there and always had a good giggle esp when we did big wedding and functions, there would be 3 or 4 of us working behind the bar and we would be so busy but always had a giggle. I got chatted up by the 80 year Italian man. There was over 300 people at that wedding because it was a big Italian wedding but he was constantly at the bar chatting me up. Much to the amusement of my fellow bar staff. Gosh we laughed so much that night, I actually miss it and I think when I go back to work I would consider bar work again, maybe a pub as we have 2 just up the road,
How’s ure opks today love. Really hope u get your peak soon. I’m 1dpo today so I’m sure you won’t be too far behind me. Fx for you sweety.

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@PinkCupcakes im so sorry hun. I was really hoping you wouldn't need to go theough ivf. Big hugs xx

@motherogdogs congrats!

@RosaFlor123 good luck for the answer you want.

@josephine3 oh dear that must be horrible! I know whenever i get asked now if we are going for #2 i say we've been trying for a while and its not happening, although usually people ive known for a little bit not complete strangers. I remember before my daughter that question would upset me so much. I wanted nothing more then to be a mum and it killed me inside even the mention of a baby. I almost want to snap back at them so they might stop commenting on other women

@littlewitch yepp, after trying almost 2 years i definitely feel it likely will never happen. At least when i had chemicals i felt like i had hope to conceive again but now negative tests only i feel like i cant even conceive the poor quality eggs

1dpo today and we managed to BD on O day and both the two days prior. So actually feel like i might have a chance this month! Please please let this be the one!

great timing love. Ure one day ahead of me. I am 1dpo today.
Ure using the exact same opks I’ve used this cycle hehe. How strange it’s still peak. I’ve had 2 days of peak a few times and always ovulated the first peak, I really hope it’s a good sign for you love. Praying this cycle is the one.

see it’s weird because even tho chemicals and miscarriages are heartbreaking. I’m kind of glad I’ve had the 2 losses since we been trying because I wasn’t sure if I was still fertile anymore. So I’m happy I am
Still fertile esp at my age.
I was told back when we started trying by a nurse. That as long as I’m ovulating every month then It is possible to have another baby and you are ovulating perfect love so I’m sure ure still fertile just need to catch and for it too stick,
I want you to get your BFP so badly. I want everyone to get there BFPs but there are certain people I root for the most and your one of them love.

Having cramps off and on today so pretty sure AF is around the corner

Oh no I’m so sorry lovely I was so sooo hoping so badly you wouldn’t need IVF. It’s so painfully sad to see ladies like you going through this. It breaks my heart.

AlwaystheAunt---sounds like you really covered the bases well this month! I looked back at both my chemicals and we DTD peak-1 and peak-2, so two and three days before O. For me, getting it in early seems to be the trick.

Suggerhoney--your story gives me hope. And I know it might sound silly, since we don't know each other in real life, but you are always so kind and supportive. I appreciate you.
I am trying to find peace this cycle, in case my husband gets cold feet in my fertile window. I am only CD 4. I am hoping that he really will be okay with some serious NTNP this cycle. Every time I try to convince myself that I can live without another one of his babies, my heart pulls me back into the journey.
I hope that you do get your rainbow, Suggerhoney.

Awwww bless you sweety I actually got emotional reading this. Thank you so so much for your kind words. It really means a lot, I’m so happy my story has given u hope love. When u go through recurrent loss u feel so alone and like your the only one and there has to be something wrong, so I just had to share my story. Hope you ovulate soon love and keeping everything extra tightly crossed for you.
Hugs

Thanks @Suggerhoney and @tdog

Rooting for everyone!

Ure welcome love.

Girls!! I’m off to the IVF specialist in 30min. There is a shadow. Only a shadow but I’ve never had a shadow with these. It’s always stark white. But then did a baby plan test as well and it’s a negative. Probably an indent? Will have to wait to test again.
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ooow love I really hope this gets darker. That would be absolutely amazing. I’ve heard so many stories of women going for ivf and then falling just b4. I really hope your one of those, I’ll be so made up for you.

I've just finished a night shift and got a few pages to catch up on x

I had to catch up on about 6 pages the other day. You can’t turn your back for too long because these ladies move fast. Haha.

1dpo and had a terrible bad head but not unusual with me as I do suffer with headaches and migraines sometimes. I’ve had too take strong pain killers because the pain was making me feel sick.
They have kicked in now so my head is feeling so much better,

I know we have chatted about Stranger Thongs on here. How brilliant was season 4 by the way. I cried my eyes out nearly the whole way through the last episode. Like was sobbing it was so sad. Can’t wait for season 5.

season 5 of Cobra Kai starts on the 9th September on Netflix and thats another show I love so I’m excited to watch that.

How is everyone else doing? @tdog hope your ok love and todays lines are darker.

Can’t wait to start seeing more tests on here. i normally cave around 8dpo but have never gotten a BFP any earlier than 10dpo, but I still test at 8dpo knowing full well it’s gonna be bfn lol.

Mite pee on a opk in a few days just for fun lol,

hope I’ve not missed anyone.

 

[Suggerhoney]

I still wonder about @Mummy23beauts i really miss her she was a lovely lady. I hope she is ok,

I miss @Deethehippy not being on here as well as also such a lovely lady, but I talk to her messenger sometimes and she says she misses everyone here but she is no longer ttc.

Anyway so sorry I’ve wrote a book lol.

 

[Suggerhoney]

I just realised I wrote Stranger Thong instead of Stranger Things. Haha lmao

 

[josephine3]

Lol @Suggerhoney stranger thongs lmao
@happyface82 oh I am totally seeing that line on there!!! Good luck for your next test!!
@tdog you must have done more today get them posted

 

[josephine3]

Oh here's my fmu opk so it's getting there! Unless it's just dark cos my fmu was quite dark I'm not sure

 

[tdog]

@josephine3 I didn't want to over load this thread with my tests but I'll post them xx

 

[tdog]

@josephine3 I didn't want to over load this thread with my tests but I'll post them xx

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[PinkCupcakes]

Morning ladies, BFN again, just waiting for AF now so we can start the birth control for IVF, then do some tests and then we do a mock transfer, then once the BC is done we start the injections

 

[josephine3]

Aww sorry @PinkCupcakes xxx what's a mock transfer?

@tdog they are looking amazing I love to see them!!

 

[PinkCupcakes]

Aww sorry @PinkCupcakes xxx what's a mock transfer?

@tdog they are looking amazing I love to see them!!

A mock transfer is when they do a fake IVF transfer to see how the body handles it.

 

[josephine3]

@PinkCupcakes how does that work? Sorry I'm intrigued!

 

[josephine3]

Evening opk from me!! I think it's nearly pos!! It might not get any darker than this tbf what do we think can I call it my positive?

 

[CakeBaby]

Hope you’re all doing well ladies, loving seeing all your tests @tdog
I’ve got a bad case of gastritis and a fever so I’m bed bound for now. Hope this doesn’t affect conceiving this month

 

[tdog]

Hope you’re all doing well ladies, loving seeing all your tests @tdog
I’ve got a bad case of gastritis and a fever so I’m bed bound for now. Hope this doesn’t affect conceiving this month

Awww so sorry love nothing worse than gastritis hope you feel better soon love xx

 

[happyface82]

Went to my IVF consultation. I guess it went well. They did an internal scan and confirm I’m not pregnant they see AF is on the way.

They have basically said the problems I have are from my autoimmune disease. It’s not just age related. Which makes things more difficult. We’ll start with injections in a few days after AF shows. I’m to go there on 2nd day of period for them to do an internal scan (!) and show me how to do the injections. I’m a bit confused about the rest to be honest. I think the transfer will happen the cycle after. It was all a bit much and emotional.

 

[josephine3]

@happyface82 wow that all sounds quite intense. Sorry they said af is on the way, I was really convinced by that line you had. What will the injections do then? So will it be ivf you are having?

 

[Mum2Be22]

Hi ladies,

After a long talk last night with DH, we have decided to go on birth control; so I have an appointment tomorrow morning to get the IUD put in for five years. We didn't want to do that, but with the twins we are so incredibly blessed with them and look forward to adopting them for good come next May; and two of them are perfect for us, we couldn't see adding an odd number baby. I have also decided to take some time from BNB focus on my life, my studies, work, DH and the babies...I wish you all the best of luck.

 

[jellybeanxx]

@Mum2Be22 wishing you all the best! I’ll miss seeing you on here but understand how hectic life must be with your twins! Go be happy!

@PinkCupcakes and @happyface82 wishing you both loads of luck with the IVF. You must be on fairly similar timescales? Fingers crossed you’re both PUPO soon and well on your way to sticky BFPs!

@CakeBaby get well soon!

@josephine3 that’s not far off what my OPKs are like at their peak!

@tdog those FRERs are darkening up nicely. Hope you’re manage to keep as calm as possible and work is treating you well. Must be feeling slightly harder with with a baby on board. Are you going to tell them early on so they can be more mindful of where you’re sent for work etc?

@Suggerhoney good idea with the OPKs, I might try that to stop me doing HPTs at 5DPO

I think I’m 2DPO now and temp is rising nicely. Hoping it continues that way! Going to try and wait another week before testing but we all know I’ll be at it by the weekend

 

[happyface82]

It’s IVF yes. The injections are to help me produce more eggs. They will then collect those, freeze them for 1 cycle I think and put them back in next month. Or smt like that. Trying to focus on one step at a time as the process sounds a little uncomfortable but then it will be worth it if it works!!!