***September testing group***

[Suggerhoney]

Hi ladies
I’m 9dpo and got this. I don’t know if any of you will be able to see it as it’s vvvv faint and hard to get a photo of.
My symptoms have all gone so I’m feeling very nervous as I had no symptoms with the miscarriage.

I did have sore boobs but not sore anymore.
I did have on off very mild cramping/sharp pains in ovary area, had that on and off since 5dpo but nothing today.
No more metal taste. Had it slight yesterday but not sure if it was my gum or blood in my mouth somewhere.

I expect no one will be able to see this but there is a faint line on both irl and at my neighbours and she can see it too.
She thinks it’s the start of a BFP but I’m not sure.

Bag of nerves now. Those tests with the white handle are normally stark stark white when negative.
Oh I hope if this is it this one will be my take home sticky healthy rainbow baby.
So so nervous.


Will catch up on the rest of the thread in a minute.

 

[HalfricanMa]

I think I can see it very faintly on the bottom one @Suggerhoney !! FX!!

afm, it’s my first month temping which has been fun and interesting. Idk who uses ff app but Ff interpreted my chart as Triphasic now! 179% more likely to be pregnancy chart than not! That’s exciting. And analyzed my pregnancy signs at 80pts.
Cd25 but im still getting vvfl and some negatives. I know some ladies dont get the bfp until after their missed period so i’m wondering if that’ll be my case. Still feel as i did with my last pregnancy so thats hopeful. Ugh, i hate waiting!

 

[Suggerhoney]

I think I can see it very faintly on the bottom one @Suggerhoney !! FX!!

afm, it’s my first month temping which has been fun and interesting. Idk who uses ff app but Ff interpreted my chart as Triphasic now! 179% more likely to be pregnancy chart than not! That’s exciting. And analyzed my pregnancy signs at 80pts.
Cd25 but im still getting vvfl and some negatives. I know some ladies dont get the bfp until after their missed period so i’m wondering if that’ll be my case. Still feel as i did with my last pregnancy so thats hopeful. Ugh, i hate waiting!

thank you for looking love. They both have lines but so hard to get a pic. I have zero symptoms and that’s really worrying me because I had no symptoms with the chemical and miscarriage in June. So I’m on tender hooks.

 

[Suggerhoney]

@mbrew180
That’s a great line love. I found ICs better than Frer with my son and the miscarriage. My ICs at 10dpo was darker than Frer. The Frer had such a faint line it wouldn’t show at all in a photo but my ICs you could see.
Fx when u test again it’s darker.
I’m also getting vvvv faint lines on ICs and so scared right now. Hard to get a photo Because so faint but I have posted one. Good luck love


@AlwaysTheAunt
Huge congratulations love that’s such a good line for 9dpo. Praying so hard this is it and this is ure wee rainbow. So so happy for you love.


@Mum2Be22
Oh no hon I am so so sorry. Sending hugs.

@CakeBaby
Awesome lines love congratulations.


@josephine3
Still seeing lines love and so fx for you

@jellybeanxx
Huge hugs to you love

@ehjmorris
Beautiful opk good luck love.

 

[josephine3]

@Mum2Be22 Im so sorry you had another loss. I hope you are having fun with the twins though!!
@cheerios those opks look positive to me!
I don't know how you guys can not tell your oh's when you get a bfp especially if it's a dark one! Does that mean some if you go through loss and they never even know?
@Suggerhoney I think I see it!! Everything crossed for you!!
You guys have got to stop saying tender hooks though it's driving me crazy haha the phrase is 'tenterhooks'!! Sorry to be the grammar police I let it slide the first couple of times but it seems its the new phrase round here lol
Afm... Here's my fmu 7dpo test, this is waaay out of timeframe as I didn't gave chance to get a pic this morning but I do see something...

 

[Suggerhoney]

@Mum2Be22 Im so sorry you had another loss. I hope you are having fun with the twins though!!
@cheerios those opks look positive to me!
I don't know how you guys can not tell your oh's when you get a bfp especially if it's a dark one! Does that mean some if you go through loss and they never even know?
@Suggerhoney I think I see it!! Everything crossed for you!!
You guys have got to stop saying tender hooks though it's driving me crazy haha the phrase is 'tenterhooks'!! Sorry to be the grammar police I let it slide the first couple of times but it seems its the new phrase round here lol
Afm... Here's my fmu 7dpo test, this is waaay out of timeframe as I didn't gave chance to get a pic this morning but I do see something...

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Hahaha that’s me. I wasn’t sure if it was tender hooks or tenterhooks lmoa. Now I know and glad you pointed it out.
I still see lines love. That’s what my lines look like irl.
Just so hard to get a pic.
my lines were there at 3 mins but I always throw mine unless they are dark after time limit.
I am so scared to test again incase the lines are gone. even if my lines do get darker I’m not gonna get excited because they were blazing with the Miscarriage.

Normally for me it’s always 10dpo I get faint lines so these lines I’m getting now would be spot on for 9dpo. Tomorrow they should be a bit darker. I normally get the very very dark lines by 12dpo.

I’m so nervous. I did have suspicion I mite be because of the cramping and achey boobs and stuff but absolutely nothing now.
Just feel so so hot all the time.

 

[HalfricanMa]

@josephine3 I can see that! Wow!! You’re so lucky; I haven’t the slightest idea what’s happening for me. Haha. I’m on pins and needles waiting for your next tests!

Solid point about the tenterhooks idiom.
It drives me crazy when ‘literal’ is misused to mean a level of severity. It is NOT “literally raining cats and dogs”. That would cause death and destruction, or at minimum hurt very badly!

 

[josephine3]

Lmao @HalfricanMa

 

[josephine3]

I'm so glad you guys can see it makes me feel less crazy!
Ohh I hope we both get some progression @Suggerhoney.. Im also hot a lot but that's usual for me before af. I don't really have much in the way of symptoms apart from the 'just knowing' feeling I've had since right after dtd x

 

[CakeBaby]

I definitely see it on the bottom one @Suggerhoney !!!!

I’ve taken a wondfo this afternoon as my frer’s haven’t arrived in time for me to do one before work. The lines ridiculously faint so I’m really disheartened after such a good one last night. I’ll probably do another test tomorrow and then hide my tests for a few days while I see what happens

 

[tdog]

@josephine3 made me giggle I hold my hands up I'm definitely guilty of it, but to put myself politely I'm a thick bitch and my grammar is way off so going to say SORRY now xx

 

[Laurabub84]

@Suggerhoney somethings catching my eye on the bottom test. Are you going to try a frer? Good luck hun, hope this is it for you.

@josephine3 i see something faint on that. Good luck. I had the feeling with my 4th baby straight after we bd’d, was so strange I just thought “we’ve just made a baby”, 9 days later bfp. Never had anything like it with the others tho.

@CakeBaby good luck for your next test. Hope you get a beautiful clear bfp

 

[Rach87]

@CakeBaby personally I never understood the not telling your partner thing. They are your partner. Its also their child. They should be fully involved in the ups and downs and can be there for support either way. But congrats and hope things continue in the right direction for you

 

[jellybeanxx]

@AlwaysTheAunt massive congratulations! My youngest took 2 years of TTC and we had a few chemicals in that time so I know what it means to get that positive and I know the worry as well. Wishing you a very happy and healthy 9 months!

@Suggerhoney how exciting to be getting those lines, fingers crossed for you!

@Mum2Be22 I’m so sorry lovely, wishing you and your lovely family all the best for the future.

@CakeBaby sorry the tests today have been faint, could be the brand of the time of day?

I’ve definitely missed people, sorry! I’m a bit all over the place…

I’m in a bit of a weird situation (when am I not with my ridiculous ovaries?! )
My temps have continued dropping and have got to the point where I wasn’t sure I’d ovulated. I’ve also been crampy so I thought it could maybe be AF? I’ve been getting ridiculous amounts of EWCM which can happen before AF but I started doing the off OPK just in case. Has been pretty negative so far. Then I decided to do one about 4pm today (first one in the photo) which looks positive or very close to! I was so surprised!
So I just took another one (6pm) along with a HPT (because why not ) which are the second and third ones in the photo. How can there be such a big difference already? What is happening?!

 

[tdog]

@jellybeanxx that is strange but lh can be in our systems some times a lot sometimes not a lot so could go up and down all the time I have everyth8ng crossed for you but boo about your temp dropping xx

 

[HopefulPony]

@AlwaysTheAunt OMG I’m so happy for you! Congratulations

 

[Suggerhoney]

I'm so glad you guys can see it makes me feel less crazy!
Ohh I hope we both get some progression @Suggerhoney.. Im also hot a lot but that's usual for me before af. I don't really have much in the way of symptoms apart from the 'just knowing' feeling I've had since right after dtd x

Oh love I have everything crossed that we are both expecting our sticky rainbows. I would love being in the same due date group as you and always the aunt and the other ladies too. I new I was pregnant with my 3 year old son from like 7dpo. But with my youngest I thought I was out then boom.
I just want to do a test and it be booming. Hate faint lines, but know it has to start somewhere. If I am I hope I have the same progression as I did with my son.
Matching IC lines by 13dpo or 14dpo. With the miscarriage I only had lines that was nearly matching at 14dpo but with my son they were matching. So I want that again. And a lovely line stealer by 15dpo

I definitely see it on the bottom one @Suggerhoney !!!!

I’ve taken a wondfo this afternoon as my frer’s haven’t arrived in time for me to do one before work. The lines ridiculously faint so I’m really disheartened after such a good one last night. I’ll probably do another test tomorrow and then hide my tests for a few days while I see what happens

Thanks for looking love. The bottom one is a bit darker than the top one. Just hope they get darker quickly and this one sticks. So so scared. Scared to test again incase they are bfn or the same.
with your wondfo if ure pee was more dilute that will make it fainter. I find in the very very early stages that u need really dark strong pee. It it diluted then my lines were loads fainter with the miscarriage and my son. Then I would test later with very strong pee and then get darker lines.

@Suggerhoney somethings catching my eye on the bottom test. Are you going to try a frer? Good luck hun, hope this is it for you.

@josephine3 i see something faint on that. Good luck. I had the feeling with my 4th baby straight after we bd’d, was so strange I just thought “we’ve just made a baby”, 9 days later bfp. Never had anything like it with the others tho.

@CakeBaby good luck for your next test. Hope you get a beautiful clear bfp

thanks for looking love: no I only have 3 Frer and tbh they have gone very downhill since u was last pregnant. There not as sensitive now.
With my son and the miscarriage I had clear but faint lines at 10dpo on babyplan and wondfo but my Frer you could barley see.
I did get a decent line at 11dpo on Frer and the ICs with my son and the miscarriage.
I’m such a nervous wreck and so scared to test again.
Even if these lines do get really dark I’m still gonna worry because had very dark lines with the miscarriage.
I also worry about no symptoms as I didn’t have any with the miscarriage. The only thing that told me I was pregnant was the tests getting darker and darker.

@AlwaysTheAunt massive congratulations! My youngest took 2 years of TTC and we had a few chemicals in that time so I know what it means to get that positive and I know the worry as well. Wishing you a very happy and healthy 9 months!

@Suggerhoney how exciting to be getting those lines, fingers crossed for you!

@Mum2Be22 I’m so sorry lovely, wishing you and your lovely family all the best for the future.

@CakeBaby sorry the tests today have been faint, could be the brand of the time of day?

I’ve definitely missed people, sorry! I’m a bit all over the place…

I’m in a bit of a weird situation (when am I not with my ridiculous ovaries?! )
My temps have continued dropping and have got to the point where I wasn’t sure I’d ovulated. I’ve also been crampy so I thought it could maybe be AF? I’ve been getting ridiculous amounts of EWCM which can happen before AF but I started doing the off OPK just in case. Has been pretty negative so far. Then I decided to do one about 4pm today (first one in the photo) which looks positive or very close to! I was so surprised!
So I just took another one (6pm) along with a HPT (because why not ) which are the second and third ones in the photo. How can there be such a big difference already? What is happening?!

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Oh wow that’s as clear as day.
Oh oh so fixed for you love. I really hope we both are pregnant with supper sticky beanies that would be so so awesome.


So I decided to try the same tests but with just water.
Both did have the most faintest shadows but looked skinny.
My pee tests earlier was easier to see and a thick line.
Oh I really hope this is it I’m so nervous.
Just want a booming line now. But I know they have to start somewhere.

 

[Laurabub84]

@Suggerhoney it’s understandable that your worried. To be honest I never actually rated the frers when I conceived Ollie. They caused me a lot of stress because the progression on them was rubbish. Had days that were the same and then fainter. I got on better with clear blues. Had lovely progression with those and my clinical guard test strips. Just found those on Amazon £2.69 for 25 tests so grabbed 3 lots of those. Can’t wait to be able to start using them. Will you be testing anymore today? Try and take one day at a time hun

 

[jellybeanxx]

@jellybeanxx that is strange but lh can be in our systems some times a lot sometimes not a lot so could go up and down all the time I have everyth8ng crossed for you but boo about your temp dropping xx

It’s just so strange how it would have just spiked up like that. Normally I have a gradual increase and a gradual decrease. Weird!

 

[Laurabub84]

My opk is darker this evening. Wasn’t really expecting it until tomorrow but looking back I have had quite a few peak opks on cd17. Cd16 today so looks like tomorrow could be positive. Looking forward to tomorrow’s opk.