She never asked for opinions if you read properly - she has clearly made up her mind despite what anybody says! And I never said your opinions were wrong - I said you have gone too far and you shouldn't talk to her like that! Someone is clearly not connecting the dots!!
Talk to her like what? I told her flat out towards the end it would be a little harsh but that is what she needs!!! She needs a good kick in the pants about this whole thing. She is not thinking about it and just wants to fill the void. Do I know her personally? No. Would I tell her the same thing if I did? You bet!!!
Yes she made up her mind no matter what we said but why was she here to begin with. Who goes somewhere and announces that just to say it??? No one with their right mind. If she didn't want anyone on here to say something she wouldn't have posted to begin with. I think the post just shows she was thinking it wasn't an appropriate situation and wanted all of us to tell her it wasn't and when we didn't she got upset because she knew deep down that little voice was right.
Okay so you are driving me insane. Who are you to assume anything about where I am at in life? Just because when you were 20 years old you dont feel it would have been a good decision for you does not mean my situation is anything like yours. I really dont think this has anything to do with my age to be honest with you, I think you are flat out against single women choosing to have babies.
You say I asked for opinions however I did not ask for them, I do not expect everyone to think its as great of a plan as I do, however I did expect maturity and and women who could voice their concerns in a way that wasnt completely and utterly rude.
Which I must say most of the women who have replied to this have been kind, and with their questions they showed concern, not blatant disrespect for me.
You have done nothing but act like a disrespectful closed minded child. And to me that is ridiculous. This website is designed for women/mothers to group together and show each other support. Not drive people away from it because of how disrespectful certain members are.
Your behavior in this thread is disgusting. Im glad that it was me you chose to be an asshole to because you could have really hurt someones feelings.
You did hurt my feelings actually. But I am a very strong willed person who is not going to cower away in a corner because someone has an opinion. I took a step back yesterday because I choose to not let negativity impact my life and or choices.
Regardless of how YOU feel on this subject its not really your place to say anything about it, and to take it as far as you have just proves that you are not as mature as you claim to be.
I have every right to make life decisions for myself, and I am entitled to do as I please, I have said this over and over again, but I feel as though I need to say it again. I would never bring a child into this earth if I was not 290% sure that the child will have everything it could possibly need and more. I am NOT making an irresponsible decision, and nothing you or anyone else says to try and make me feel as though I am making a bad decision is going to change my decision.
You seem like a strong woman to choose to go through this on your own. Hope things go well with you, good luck 
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