Softcups

[confused27]

hey ladies, m2k hunny, hope ur feeling better soon x
ness gl for that bfp hun sounds good
bella and mini still plenty of time yet ladies PMA

i booked an appointment today for the docs going to go see what the problem is been going on too long now and no matter what i do its just no good will be glad to get it sorted out tho, i feel like im going into a depression tho cant pull myself out of it, really hate feeling like this..so we are going to NTNP and not worry or stress about it until we know what the doc says anyway and im not buyin anything else no more softcuos preseed opks or tests, costing far too much every month then its even more depressing when it shows nothing lol so i will just come chat with u lot lol and will letu all know how i get on as it happens xxx

 

[makeithappen]

Hi honey!

Thank you

that's very true it is early days and still in the running especially since I've had positives on 2 IC's

I really hope the cold and feeling under the weather is a good sign then for me too darling! *please God*

Also having lightheadedness/light dizzy spells now and then, still having sharp twinges in uterus and some cramps and feeling drained. xx

it all sounds good chick! i'll be keeping everything crossed for ya & watching carefully to see those 2 strong lines!

 

[BellaBlu]

Ello Ladies.. I survived!
Found out I have a sinus/ear infection.. I didn't even know? Whatever I suppose.

We also discussed getting referred to a specialist! But I got a weird PG test when I took it a few minutes ago.. Don't think it's anything to get excited about. I'll post a pic in a minute.

Hope you're all well!

 

[BellaBlu]

alright. anyways.. whats up with the faulty tests this week?

Look at all the random little blue dots.. (tweaked so you can see better)

https://i126.photobucket.com/albums/p107/brinajane/126807197841749.jpg
https://i126.photobucket.com/albums/p107/brinajane/faulty.jpg

 

[Helly]

Bella is that a test that needs a cross on for a positive hon? Or just a line?

Cat - hope you are feeling OK love x

 

[Nessicle]

hey ladies, m2k hunny, hope ur feeling better soon x
ness gl for that bfp hun sounds good
bella and mini still plenty of time yet ladies PMA

i booked an appointment today for the docs going to go see what the problem is been going on too long now and no matter what i do its just no good will be glad to get it sorted out tho, i feel like im going into a depression tho cant pull myself out of it, really hate feeling like this..so we are going to NTNP and not worry or stress about it until we know what the doc says anyway and im not buyin anything else no more softcuos preseed opks or tests, costing far too much every month then its even more depressing when it shows nothing lol so i will just come chat with u lot lol and will letu all know how i get on as it happens xxx

thank you honey!

aww will be nice to see you popping on here occasionally then at least, I hope you get some answers soon and maybe you wil get that bfp if you NTNP - funny the way some things happen!

I'm not charting next cycle, don't think I will get a proper bfp this month as had negatives since those two positives so reckon they were just faulty!

Bella i had a CB like that too - those dots are ridiculous I bought one CB and never bought one again they're so confusing

 

[starcrossed]

I'm not charting next cycle, don't think I will get a proper bfp this month as had negatives since those two positives so reckon they were just faulty!

Bella i had a CB like that too - those dots are ridiculous I bought one CB and never bought one again they're so confusing

It's still early days yet to give up yet Nessicle!!! It's not over till the fat falls off her broom!!!

Had a bit of a heartening find, I've had a bit of pink spotting at 7-8dpo so I'm hoping thats a good sign, now fighting the urge to POAS!!!

to all!!!

Delly xxx

 

[Nessicle]

thank you Delly - trying to keep the PMA up for now but it's hard 4 days til AF is due so I know I shouldnt be thinking I'm out yet.

Oooh spotting sounds like a really good sign!! Hold out for another few days hun!!xx

 

[BellaBlu]

It's one that needs a plus sign stupid tests! I had one with a few dots awhile back, but only 2 or 3. This one is loaded with them..

I wish the CX carried better tests! All they have are those, and the CB digi's... which are fine.. but aren't good for early testers

Oh well.. I decided Im not testing tomorrow at all. Maybe on the 10th! I don't like being dissapointed. My fertility friend moved my AF start date from tomorrow to friday.. so I still have a few days yet!

& Ness.. I still have my hopes high for you honey.

 

[spinneybaby]

Ok Ladies, this may be TMI but, I just started using softcups this weekend. After I laid with my bottom elevated for 20-25 min then inserted the softcup. but, as soon as I stood up, some came out from around the softcup...is this normal? I think more came out than what stayed in...did I not have it in the right position?

 

[Nessicle]

It's one that needs a plus sign stupid tests! I had one with a few dots awhile back, but only 2 or 3. This one is loaded with them..

I wish the CX carried better tests! All they have are those, and the CB digi's... which are fine.. but aren't good for early testers

Oh well.. I decided Im not testing tomorrow at all. Maybe on the 10th! I don't like being dissapointed. My fertility friend moved my AF start date from tomorrow to friday.. so I still have a few days yet!

& Ness.. I still have my hopes high for you honey.

thank you Bells

can you get any online?? good idea not to test again just yet, I'm not either it's too soul destroying!!

 

[BellaBlu]

Im debating on whether or not I want to. Cuz I'm not sure if ill continue TTC after this cycle. I'm at war with myself over it.. but I'd be moving on to cycle 11 and idk how well I can cope with another month! I need a break badly.

So i haven't decided if I need more PG tests and OPK's yet.. when in reality (i do!)

 

[Nessicle]

have you considered NTNP just for a couple of cycles to give yourself an emotional break hunny??

If I dont get my bfp this cycle, no softcups, no temping, no early pg tests.....just let nature do it's thing. I suppose sometimes we can try too hard and it can work against us?? xxx

 

[BellaBlu]

I think that's what I'm going to do.
I just ordered a pack of 25 pregnancy tests from amazon for $6.00! Free shipping. I couldn't resist that price.. Besides. Just because Im not trying doesn't mean I'm not going to need to test if I miss my period right?

As I was talking to the doc today and we were discussing our "options" it made me realize how much I want to BE that couple that are BOTH surprised and happy to be pregnant! Not the wife/girlfriend/fiancee that is desperately trying everything to get the BFP to show her hubby..the one that so many people so easily get. So I told Danny we're giving it 3 months. Doc said that I can ring him up anytime to get referred to a specialist. If by the end of that 3 months we're not pregnant after relaxing and having fun.. we'll see a specialist. Call me crazy but I really really want it to be something that happens on it's own !

 

[Nessicle]

that sounds like a good plan sweetie

I know exactly what you mean about it being a nice surprise, a lot of people get pregnant fast when they're not 'trying' so hard so maybe that is what will work for you and Danny?? Don't feel like a failure though hun - I know that's how you're feeling and you're not a failure, God's just making your beanie an extra special one xxx

 

[BellaBlu]

thank you Nessa.. I didn't realize how much I needed to hear that. I think it's easy to feel like a failure after awhile. It helps to remember this is Gods plan.

 

[Nessicle]

I'm always here darling xxxx

Sometimes it's hard to accept - I struggle with it too - but it is gods plan xxxx

 

[tryforbaby2]

Sabrina, I was referred to a fertility specialist over two months ago and I haven't called to schedule my appt yet at all! I am in the same boat, I really just want it to happen naturally AND its completely out of pocket for us since my insurance isn't accepted there. So, I know what you mean when you say you need a break from stressing yourself out and to try and just relax (worst phrase ever!).
I was 19 and just out of college when I found out I was pregnant with our dd. I was completely unprepared and I didn't enjoy my pregnancy due to the sudden death of my father at 2 months pg, DH started having terrible medical problems and we both lost our jobs. For years we had it very hard and worked 2-3 jobs just to make it. We didn't get to enjoy her as an infant or a young toddler either because of all that, and now we want to do it 'right' (in my words) and enjoy finding out we are pregnant, pregnancy, delivery and being able to be there as the child grows.
Sabrina, I like you alot, you are an amazing and strong woman. I have faith that you will get your bfp soon and you will have an EXTRA special baby, all in God's plan, as you say. God's plan it is. Good Luck Sweetie!!! I am here if you need.
Oooo and sinus infections? They stink!!! LOL

 

[mamaxm]

I think that's what I'm going to do.
I just ordered a pack of 25 pregnancy tests from amazon for $6.00! Free shipping. I couldn't resist that price.. Besides. Just because Im not trying doesn't mean I'm not going to need to test if I miss my period right?

As I was talking to the doc today and we were discussing our "options" it made me realize how much I want to BE that couple that are BOTH surprised and happy to be pregnant! Not the wife/girlfriend/fiancee that is desperately trying everything to get the BFP to show her hubby..the one that so many people so easily get. So I told Danny we're giving it 3 months. Doc said that I can ring him up anytime to get referred to a specialist. If by the end of that 3 months we're not pregnant after relaxing and having fun.. we'll see a specialist. Call me crazy but I really really want it to be something that happens on it's own !

i tried ntnp after i got a false positive and it absolutely shattered me, i went a whole month without getting on bnb or using opks or softcups or anything! but about a week AF was due i started wondering if maybe it had just happened.. and i was back. it's hard to give it up when you want it so bad. i focused on losing weight and exercising and that really took my mind off of it until the end of the month. it' s very frustrating when everyone is getting pregnant and posting pictures of their ultrasounds on FB and talking about the new onsie they bought and the names they're thinking about, and they weren't trying, and you can't even get a bfp despite the money and time you've invested into trying.
if someone told me if i gave my car away i'd (for sure) get pregnant, i would. that's how desperate i am. i'm holding my nose and drinking cups of sugarfree grapefruit juice everyday and putting cups where they really don't belong and taking vitamins that taste like woodchips and ordering sperm friendly lubricants online while these girls are getting drunk, using the pullout method, in a pool, upside down while smoking weed and they're getting pregnant?!?!?!?!??!! so infuriating.
good luck to you darling. you've been waiting for a baby for a long time, the good news is that when the time comes for you, you'll appreciate it so much more than anyone who magically instantly gets a bfp and you'll be a better mother for it.

 

[mamaxm]

PS. i just bought 50 for 12.00 on amazon!!!!!!!!!! i hate that they don't tell you how much they measure, but i'm a poas addict and i'll use all of them. hahaha.